Do you really dislike me anymore or do you think I m breaking up?

His girlfriend has existed for a long time, how do you know that he didn't, but he was a friend before, and as soon as you mentioned breaking up, she turned positive. Before, it was because I didn't want to dating, and I was embarrassed to say it, so I didn't contact much. Your mention is just a good way to push the boat.

Agree with the statement of the first floor. Don't break up lightly. This makes people think that you are not sincere with him.

What you need is to tell him what you really think. There is a need between two people not to hide too much, tell each other what they really think, if the other party loves you, he will take your words very seriously, instead of threatening to break up. Try it out and tell him what you really thought at the time.

If you can be together, don't dare to do such stupid things in the future.

It's clear that he's dead set on you. Breaking up must not be child's play, like a wolf coming. You also end up losing him because of the breakup. Maybe he still likes you for the first time, but once again he feels that you don't really like him, and his feelings for you fade.

It's not about hitting you, to be honest, it feels like this man doesn't love you.

Your boyfriend who loves you will be very anxious when he mentions breaking up, and he will pester you not to break up. And generally very proactive. I advise you to give up, there are the most two-legged men in this world, and maybe one day you will understand that your current persistence and sadness are really meaningless.

There are two possibilities, one is that the woman has always existed, maybe he is stepping on two boats, and the other is that he doesn't want to pay attention to you anymore and deliberately makes up the reason. Hope it helps.

Maybe he's really giving up on you, and he's talking about a girlfriend that exists or is about to exist.

It's obvious that he really has a girlfriend, otherwise he would have wanted to break up for a long time but didn't know how to speak.

You did this to him first, and then he was disappointed in you.

The man may really want to give up this relationship

Don't just say it casually, you can use it in other ways. This way of dealing with it makes him wonder if you really want to be with him first.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject. Your thoughts are rational and clear, and you know that each other's concepts are different, and you don't have a liking for each other, so choosing to break up is "stop loss in time.""。

In order for more suspicions and rifts to appear in the relationship in the future. After the second breakup, I felt less relieved, did I do the right thing? After two people have been together for a long time, the accumulation of time and the deepening of their understanding and understanding of each other will gradually give birth to a good feeling, and it may be natural that they will be together.

The subject didn't know each other at first, so he had a relationship for the first time to "try it", and then he felt that it was inappropriate and chose to break up, and then he got back together because he couldn't bear it. It was natural to refuse at the time, but why did you feel unnatural when you acted out of reason? The answer is very simple, we have been together for a long time, and we will naturally have feelings, and we will be reluctant to give up when we are separated.

There is nothing wrong with the subject's behavior, for the development of a long-term relationship, choose lovers who you really love and are suitable for each other. Could it be that if I continue to get along with him, it will be possible for the two of us to run in with each other and fall in love better? The subject mentioned the feeling of peace of mind when getting along.

But is this what you want more? Choosing to be separated for a period of time is also conducive to the subject's further reflection on the issue. He is your first lover, and there is no object to refer to before this, will you choose him, meet the partner you want in the future, and miss the opportunity to be with the blind person you really like?

The subject is very kind, guilty, and can't let go of the other party. However, if there is a big relationship crisis in the future due to conceptual problems, will it also affect the trajectory of your life? If some time passes, the subject has more contact with the opposite sex, and may have a more reasonable understanding of the past relationship, a more rational judgment, at that time, if you care about each other, and remain single, and get back together, it is also a good thing.

Give yourself a chance, and give each other a chance, so that each other can meet someone who is more suitable for you. Blessing!

Hello this friend! ?After reading your description, you and your ex-boyfriend have been separated and reunited several times, and you have always felt that you are not suitable, so you finally decided to break up, but you are very sad.

I think you have the most say in whether you are suitable or not. After a few times of splitting and merging, you still feel "I don't like it", "I don't like it", "I don't think it is appropriate", "I think it is different". Our parents taught us to say "no" from a young age, and if you don't like him, then there are a thousand reasons to say no.

After reading your story, you should be a student now, right? I don't know what stage of student you are, but if you're a college student, you've matured in your feelings, feelings, and ability to judge whether you're a good fit. It's just that I lack the self-confidence to affirm myself because my experience and love experience are not rich enough.

Follow your feelings, it won't deceive you, it will guide you in a clear direction. I think you should listen carefully to your heart. ?

In 2019, I was faced with a chance to choose a new career, and it was difficult for me to choose. The words of an old friend can be said to have given me some pointers. He said, "Listen to the voice of your heart and understand what you really want."

After careful consideration, I understood what exactly I needed and made my choice. ?This friend, although you are now facing not a career choice, but a love choice.

But also understand the voice of your own heart. I think you've been feeling for each other since you got along, so you're going to be sad now. In addition, if you break up, you will lose his love, and you will naturally be reluctant.

You can refer to my advice: First, sit down, calm down and talk to yourself, and ask yourself whether you want his thoughtful care or whether you need to really like the feeling of your partner's company. Ask yourself, if you're happier with him or if you're not together.

Ask yourself exactly what your life needs to be like, because your choice of him or not will be two different lives. The second is to write a letter or even a few letters to yourself after making a choice, or talk to friends and family. The content is to sort out your choices.

If you are together, sort out the mode of getting along in the future and your own mentality. If you decide to separate, you say goodbye to him several times. Sort out the reasons for ending and what to do in the future.

Buried by hungerFriends, learn to love yourself, learn to listen to your own voice. Whatever your choice is, it's your own decision, and it should be a reason for your peace of mind.

Finally, good luck, joy and good health!