I want to marry my former sweetheart, is that okay?

In fact, the past is the past, and no matter how much nostalgia and regret there is now, there is no way to go back. Even if you are together, there will still be various problems, and the relationship may be more rigid at that time. It's better to keep a relationship with friends.

Leave room for memories for both yourself and him.

People will feel that the original one is good after encountering a worse one.,But after really being together, there may not be the feeling now.,Since you have children.,Consider it for your children.。。。 Then,Keep the good memories of the original boy in your heart.,If you're really together, you'll regret it.。。。

You only found out that he is good after experiencing a man There are many women who think like you, but you must take a reasonable way to solve it, I suggest you take a good look at your current life, because after you leave your current life, you may not be better off than you are now, if you can, you can talk about your current family, why is it not happy?

Don't go back, it's not an easy road, it's better to leave the current one... Or if you think that your current lover loves you enough, then you just accept it, and then go back and just add to each other's troubles.

He doesn't love you anymore, he just wants you to make up for what he lacked, don't be stupid. Live your life well ..

People are cheap, and they always miss what they didn't care about

I'll be pretty sure that my current love is my favorite. My wife and I met in 2013, she was 84 years old, I was 88 years old, and we talked about it for more than 1 year, at first my parents were more worried about her being 4 years older than me, and I also had some concerns in this regard, however, through dating, I did recognize her character and behavior, and I didn't like the kind of girl who was very clingy or relatively shy, and finally we got married in 2015.

Now we have a 6-year-old son and a 2-year-old daughter, life should be normal development, but last year I resigned to start a business, my income became a problem, in March this year on the business for half a year, basically no income to take home, during this period the family's living expenses and mortgage are maintained by the wife's income, I am actually quite aggrieved, but no way, entrepreneurship must go through such a process, fortunately, my wife understands me, and I also entered the in-depth communication with my wife before starting a business, She herself is the kind of person who wants to live an ordinary life, and she knows that I am a person who loves to toss, but she still fully supports me.

Every year on Valentine's Day, wedding anniversary, birthday, Qixi Festival I will carefully prepare a bouquet of flowers to her, yesterday on February 14th, I didn't, I sent a small red envelope of 52 yuan, this little heart may be too small, but there is no reduction in love, I thought she would reply to a "thank you husband", it was over, but I didn't expect her to send a big red envelope of 520 yuan back, and attached a sentence "It's good after this year!" Looking at this sentence, I have mixed feelings, my heart is warm and satisfied, it is not easy for my wife to follow me, she is a very rational person, she used to have a better choice, but finally chose me, in fact, we often say that boys find a girl older than themselves, how unreliable and optimistic, how boys worry about the future, etc. However, have we also thought from the perspective of girls, how much courage do girls need to find a boy younger than themselves, how much determination, and how much worry they have about the future before they dare to take this step?

They are truly not easy!

Our relationship has been heating up, from the beginning of talking about friends I don't want to hold her hand, to then take the initiative to hold her, to now in front of the child, will also kiss her, I think there is a word to best describe this feeling, real lovers This is also the most real feeling, called "more and more love"!

May we be happy, and I hope that everyone cherishes our chosen other half, and I hope that everyone will love more and more!

There may be regrets, but Jian Chong will not regret it, and maybe marrying the person he likes will regret it in the end. People are responsible for their own choices, and if they have already made a choice, they should not think about it and not regret it, but should maintain their current feelings and relationships. Besides, the person you love is not necessarily the right person to marry you.

Love is much more complicated than marriage and simple talking, as long as each other's world has each other, but marriage is much more complicated. In marriage, there is not only love, but also the righteousness of treating each other with sincerity, the tacit understanding and unforgettable kindness. Love is not something that everyone can have, but marriage has become a necessary state of life for everyone.

Maybe we will never enter the palace of marriage with the person we love deeply in this life, become a family, and never be separated together for the rest of our lives. It is precisely because of such regrets that we can remember the taste of love.

Many years later, we found that after walking hand in hand with someone we don't love for half a lifetime, we have endured each other's tempers, tempered each other's personalities, and formed a consistent concept of life, and you will find that marriage is life. The person you love dearly is not fit to get married. Love is to fall in love with a person's merits, and marriage is to live with a person's merits.

When the years destroy the appearance of love, it is inevitable that there will be a gap in your heart, and it is not only the person in front of you who makes you lose, but also your love.

Many people who enter married life, most of them have a loved one in their hearts, and how lucky it is if you can be with the person you love for a lifetime! In your married life, you will find that your lover is very good to you, but you are not the one you love the most. Such a state is not uncommon in life, and your lover's tolerance, smile, care, and concern for you can not be out of love, but also out of responsibility and role responsibility.

Maybe one day you will suddenly have an epiphany that changing your marriage is to avoid loneliness and loneliness and resist unknown risks.