Talk about what it s like to get back together with an ex who broke up for a long time?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The feeling of getting back together with an ex who has been broken up for a long time is probably to compare him with the difference between him and the beginning, he will become more mature over time and understand women better, but it still feels worse than before. Without the original throbbing and shyness, all that remains is the contest of routines.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After getting back together, we were very excited, and we got married, but unfortunately, after a long time, we found that each other's nature was still difficult to change, difficult to accept, and finally had to divorce.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My current boyfriend used to be separated for more than two years and got back together, and now we've been together for more than a year, and every day is different after getting back together, I'm very happy, and I haven't quarreled.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    broke up, reconciled again, and there were only four words left. The relationship may be sweeter than the original, but I feel that it is no longer the original intention, and many things that have been direct in the past two years have become an eternal generation gap between the two people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm very happy, but there are still scars, and I always turn over old accounts when I quarrel. ‍‍

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People are going back, but there is no original feeling, and finally they are separated, if there is something unwilling to break up, then you can try, go back and really don't feel before, what you miss is reluctant to feel before, and you really don't feel it when you're together again!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At first, I was very happy, but as time went on, I realized that it was not what I thought it would be.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Repeating the mistakes of the past, the broken mirror can't be reunited, and they will still break up for that reason, it's better not to get back together and keep a good memory.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    We haven't really been together. So it's not a compound. It's like a familiar old friend, occasionally disconnected, occasionally warm.

    I want to know what he thinks. I really want to know what she is in his heart. I'd love to hear from him.

    I can't say it myself. Don't dare to break the tacit understanding. Worried, but infinitely sweet.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's like the habit that goes deep into the bone marrow is destined to be by my side, and I feel very happy. ‍‍

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Eight years after the breakup, I have been thinking about her. No girl can compare to her. I thought there would be no intersection in the future, but I didn't expect to meet by chance, and then there were all kinds of chases, all kinds of encounters.

    But now that I have been married for two years, I have a good relationship and cherish each other very much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The ex who has been out of touch for more than three years suddenly appeared and said that he was back together, but I didn't agree, and I didn't mention whether there was a throbbing feeling, but the scars already existed, and I would only become more suffering from gains and losses together, and then it was also at this moment that I suddenly felt that I couldn't let go and then broke my heart and part of the reason was because I was unwilling, unwilling to pay so much or be dumped, and now looking back, I was really stupid at the time, and it was I who refused to let go of myself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I just reconciled with my ex who broke up for four or five years for two months, in fact, I said before that it was not suitable for each other, he came to me and said that it would be suitable, he is not the same person he used to be, after reconciliation, in fact, it is not very good, I think we are really not suitable for each other, or the feeling of friends is better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is impossible to reunite the broken mirror, and a ball of paper can no longer be the way it was.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No matter how much they once loved each other, getting back together after separation is never enough to be like at the beginning. ‍‍

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I used to be with my ex for nine months because I always quarreled together He felt very tired I also felt very tired Broke up peacefully After four months of breakup, he felt that he still couldn't let go of me I still liked him a little bit He pursued me again We were together again But it didn't take two months and we broke up for the same reason Now I don't have any good thoughts about him Three views Two people with different personalities can't get together after all It has been decided since we first separated The re-ambulation of two people who are not suitable is just a repetition of the mistakes of the past, and now I have no feelings for this unsuitable person, and I would rather never know each other!

    Later, a year after I broke up with him, another very good man pursued me, chased me for half a year, and now we are together, and we have been on a very good relationship for two years, and now I am planning to get married, and I would like to say that the result of reconciliation is nothing more than a repetition of the mistakes of the past.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Believe in your first feeling, the original decision to break up must be right, and getting back together is tantamount to repeating the mistakes of the past, it must be the brain caught by the door.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After five years, I finally waited for him back. In the end, they were not together. And I'm supposed to get married next year. I guess I really left each other this time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After two months of reunion, I think he cares about me more than before, whether it will be important after the loss, I also said to him yesterday, I deliberately ignored you, deliberately blocked you, deliberately let you come to my house to find me, deliberately made you sleep, it was all my intention, is it good or bad, hahaha.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you can't get it, you won't be reconciled, and you won't be comfortable getting it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The reunion after the broken mirror is that you can't let go after the breakup, it's a contest, and you won't pay 100% of your true feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Five months after the breakup, he has been waiting for me to come back, but I know that I can't give him a future, but I still turn back, hoping that one day we can overcome all those difficult obstacles, and then the rest of my life will be him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Broke up for three years, met by chance, then got together again, and then married for four years, and the daughter was three years old.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I didn't feel anything,,, I don't know why, I couldn't get back the feeling I had before, and finally I offered to break up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it's not suitable, break up, and there will be no result after getting back together, just for what you once had, exhaust your enthusiasm!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I didn't know I was pregnant when I was separated, and then he came to me to get back together, and I told him that we would be together, and then we would get married, and now I want to get a divorce every day, because I can't go back, and now I regret why I didn't just lose it in the first place.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Although I haven't gotten back together, I feel like both of us will know how to love each other better.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The first love married someone, had children, and divorced again. Come to me and make peace, I agreed. I talked about it twice a while ago, but I couldn't get excited, but I felt that I should find a girlfriend, and in the end, I didn't do it. But in the face of her, my heart still fluttered.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When I broke up, I was a teenager and I didn't want to part with each other or broke up willfully, and I was reconciled for four years, and I think we can get married.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The mentality of the ex and the ex who got back together not long after the breakup:

    1. The other party still loves to look at the ex, because he still loves to look at the other party, and he can't forget his ex, so he immediately got his ex back together when he broke up.

    2. After meeting many people, I found that my ex was the most suitable for me, which may be due to various reasons, or it may be that I am tired of it at the moment and don't want to continue, but after a while, I found that it is still the most suitable for my ex.

    After the breakup, the other party and the ex will get back together, and they will definitely be angry, but if you think about it seriously, you are very scary to think about this matter, or you have become a spare tire.

    Either it's the other party's ex who has been trying to redeem it.

    Although there is no absolute right or wrong in the relationship, it can be seen from this point that the relationship between yourself and the other party is not deep enough, and the other party also has secrets that they don't know, so this situation occurs.

    And he has become the touchstone of the other party's feelings, which shows from another perspective that he has not recognized the essence of this relationship.

    Please don't be such a person.

    It's too much for the other party to fall in love immediately after the breakup, that is, the other party and his ex got back together after the breakup. This will make people feel cheated: "Oh, it turns out that he has been thinking about his ex, so what role did I play in this relationship?"

    What am I during this time? ”

    If you can, please don't become such a person, at least completely cut off the previous relationship, and then start a new relationship, otherwise you will never get real love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Reuniting with my ex who broke up for a long time, I think the feeling will be completely different from before!

    There are three reasons why the feeling is completely different:

    The first point, first of all, we all know it. and the ex reunited. It's hard to go back to the way it was.

    Like a mirror that of course sleeps, it's hard to put it back together. Even if it can be combined, it will have cracks, and then people's feelings are the same. If we don't mind the cracks in our relationship, then it's not impossible to get back together with our ex, but I think the feeling will be completely different from before.

    This also depends on the individual, if someone can accept it, the feeling will be different from before, then it is okay to reunite. But as far as I'm concerned, I'm never going to get back together with my ex who broke up for a long time. Because breaking up means letting go, it means that the relationship has been extinguished.

    There is no need to pick it up again.

    The second point, and secondly, since the breakup has been a long time. Then the feeling will definitely be different in the compound. Even if I forgave him myself, or he forgave me.

    Together again in the same month. It always feels awkward, and it always feels a little uncomfortable. Because everyone has started a new life.

    So it's time to be part of each other's lives again. The feeling will be completely different from before. I think it's very bad to rehash the old things, and it's easy to bring trouble to your own life.

    It's only possible that I've started a new relationship, and that's when my ex stepped in again. This causes me to feel embarrassed and even disgusted. Even if this is compounded.

    I believe that this feeling is definitely not as good and expected as before.

    The third point, finally, is to get back together with your ex who has been broken up for a long time. It can make two people have a feeling of thinking and regaining. This kind of feeling is like losing something very important, only to find it again by accident.

    This has been completely detached from love. It's like liking something. It's not as sincere and pure as when we first started together!

    So it will feel completely different from before.

    These are the three reasons I think!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No. Because after getting back together with an ex who broke up for a long time, I will feel that it is not very perfect in my heart, so I will not feel the same as before.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, I think it's different from the previous feeling, because after all, it's been a long time since they broke up, so both of them have grown to a certain extent, and later the two of them get back together, and the feelings of the two people will have different feelings.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes, the main thing is to see what the relationship with the other party is like this, many times in fact, two people still love each other after breaking up, so for a long time two people can't get out, this state will be easy to rekindle the old relationship, and the feeling is the same as before.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's different, and when I get back together with my ex who broke up for a long time, I think the feeling will be completely different from before.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hello, if you can get back together again after separation, it means that the relationship between the two of you is still very deep, and you know each other very well, so you will be the same as before when you are reconciled, and there will not be too many other feelings.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's definitely not the same. Even if they are reunited, the scar in the relationship still exists, which can never be repaired, which is the particularity of the relationship between men and women.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It doesn't feel like it's the same as before, it's been a long time since you've broken up, and you're back together, and you won't have the same feeling as before. It's a completely different feeling, and I'll cherish it more when I face it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Reuniting with my ex who broke up for a long time, I think it feels different than before. Because it has been a long time since they broke up, both of them will change during this time, and they don't know each other during this time.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Hello, it doesn't feel the same. After all, I have experienced a lot of things after the breakup, which has made me truly appreciate how good my ex was to me, and I myself realize that I have not done well in the past, and I will cherish my current relationship even more.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think it will definitely not be the same as before, because after such a long time, if you get back together, you will definitely have to re-cultivate emotionally, and it is a little rusty, I think the understanding of feelings between two people may be different from before, and maybe they will know how to cherish it more.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think the feeling will be different from before. I feel that the two people are a lot stranger, after all, after breaking up for so long, both of them will change. So after getting back together, I will feel different from before.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I got back together with my ex a long time before the breakup, and I feel that the feeling should be better than before, because I have experienced a breakup, I know how to cherish it, I miss each other after separation, and I know that the other party is good, so I cherish it more after getting back together, and I feel better than before.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you still like him in your heart, then the feeling will definitely be the same as before, or even better. Because since you separated, you found that you still care about him very much, so after being with him this time, you will cherish her very much. I don't want her to be hurt in any way, and I don't want to be separated from him one day.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It depends on how long you are separated, if you get back together in a few months, it's nothing, if it's too long, you feel very unaccustomed, after all, a lot of things have happened to change each other during the breakup.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    The ex who has been broken up for a long time may feel exactly the same as before, because a person's personality and nature are difficult to change, but they may accommodate a lot in the future.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Reunites with an ex who has broken up for a long time, and the relationship will not be the same as before, because the relationship between two people, once there is a rift, will not be the same as before.

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