My husband is upside down, should we support my parents in law? 5

Updated on society 2024-05-01
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I despise you, no matter what the reason, I have to support the old people on both sides, regardless of whether the old people on both sides give you an inheritance or not.

    I despise them, but I think it's enough to mean it, don't be too unreasonable, don't ask for an inheritance, and plan to feed you, pull it down.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are not satisfied with your heart, you must always bring filial piety to your lips.

    His three sons are not your turn to raise.

    You're right to play the role of a daughter-in-law.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Filial piety comes first.

    Just take it as a good thing as you can.

    Even if your parents-in-law are sorry for you, please forgive me.

    The greatest reward for doing good deeds is that you are a good person, and nothing else.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In any way, when you marry him, you have the obligation and responsibility to take care of his parents, they are elders after all, and without them there would be no husband for you. Touching your conscience, you should take care of it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Supporting the elderly is the obligation of children, although the old man divides the property among his other two sons, as the children of the elderly, he has the obligation to support the elderly, and the national law stipulates that if you do not support it, it is not filial piety, and it is also a crime.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Anyway, they're still your husband's parents, so of course they should.

    No matter how bad they are to you, they are still parents after all.

    My grandparents treated my parents badly when they were alive, but my mother still gave them monthly living expenses and took care of them when they were sick. In the end, before they died, they said that my parents were okay. (Although they don't like them very much in life).

    Although I feel a little unwilling now, I won't feel ashamed when I get old!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is the duty of children to honor their parents, and everyone will have the day when they will grow old. Home and everything is prosperous, sit together calmly and talk, and take a step back. Poor living conditions can not be used as a reason not to support the elderly, according to each other's time to see who is more suitable to support the elderly, don't let the elderly chill.

    If you husband and wife are working outside all the year round and can't fulfill their filial piety for your parents-in-law, then give a little money to his eldest brother every month as the living expenses of the elderly. Usually play more and care about the elderly, and more communication between brothers to increase the emotion between brothers. During the New Year's holidays, I will take the time to buy something for everyone and go back to see it, and do a few days of filial piety for the elderly.

    Be an example to your own children, too! I wish you all a harmonious family!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Every child has the obligation to support his parents, whether he marries a wife or a son-in-law, it is the same, his brother wants you to raise the family, not all right, why doesn't he raise it, right, it's unreasonable, and he has money to contribute to his parents, but he has no money to contribute.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I think you have done a good job, and in this case, you are willing to take your mother-in-law back to your own home to take care of it, and you can be regarded as a good daughter-in-law. Your mother is right, generally speaking, your mother and mother-in-law should not live under the same roof, and those who know the rules should try to avoid it. Originally, you were supposed to live with your mother-in-law, but your husband was upside down, so it's hard to say this kind of thing.

    The best solution, of course, is to convince your mother, take the initiative to show goodwill to your own mother, accept her from the heart, and achieve a good conversation. If it really doesn't work, you should discuss it with your husband and think of a compromise solution, the problem must always be solved, and it must not affect the harmony of the family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't argue, you need to communicate. Tell your parents calmly. Tell your parents to consider your husband's feelings.

    Anyway, you and your husband are responsible for the elderly. Let the two of them look away. You tell your parents to tolerate it for the sake of your husband and wife's happiness.

    Actually, your parents are not good enough.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be kind to yourself, think more about your husband, be aware of everything, and do everything well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No. The law stipulates that both sons and daughters have the obligation to support their parents, so your husband's brother is like a married daughter, who also has the obligation to support her parents. If you don't fulfill your maintenance obligations, your parents-in-law can use the law to defend their rights.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, it can't be justified in terms of law and human feelings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Help is due, after all, it is your husband's relatives, and the parents must be filial to raise him, and his brother can't.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It means that the conditions of your family are good, so it depends on you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. There are two brothers, and it is normal to separate families.

    2. This kind of separation is naturally decided by the parents-in-law.

    3. Depending on your situation, I suggest splitting up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you divorce just because you don't get along well with your mother-in-law, it's really not worth it, after all, you still have children, talk to your husband for the sake of the children, it's better to live by yourself, not with your mother-in-law. Even if you really want to divorce, no matter whether you can give you custody of the child or not, you still have to fight for your own property.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your husband is so useless, isn't his eldest brother rich? Should I live at the woman's house? Why are you still living at home?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My husband's brother belongs to the family and doesn't live with you, what kind of family? Don't understand.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since you want to split the family, you can divide it, you can get the money back, and you can live a two-person world with your husband.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better to divide it, and it's better to divide it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Divide your own ability, and show them that your life is good.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Keep the money on it, don't let it go. It's really not good to divide it, it's better not to do that, you have children, and you should think about children.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Give, what else is there to say. Parents are short of money, so they will give it. If you can, you can also give one to your parents at the same time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on your economic situation, and they are very bad at doing this, how can they steal their son's money??

    If you are not financially good, and they are still arguing to build a house and decorate it, is this too inconsiderate to you?

    If the economy is okay, you can give a simple decoration in moderation. Let's improve it later.

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