Why did she break up resolutely despite her own risks? It s so sad

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
60 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    She broke up with you because you can't meet her family's demands right now. Maybe they've already started looking for a candidate for her.

    You really have to do your own business first, no matter what kind of woman you meet in the future, a woman's dependence is based on material, and it is more difficult to change the vision of your family.

    You may start a new relationship. If it's fate, they'll still be together. Bless you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think she is for your good, love is romantic, the reality is more cruel, maybe think about it in advance, and save both parties from complaining or even hatred in the future, leaving love in the heart is also a spirit of sacrifice. So you better do it, if you really want to be together, when you have a good foundation, I think it's more likely.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is so realistic, sometimes it's not something that others will accept if you want to give.

    If you're just in love, it doesn't matter, but if you're going to get married, you still have to think about it.

    Others always say that love has no distance, but I don't think so, love is really distant.

    To get married, you have to consider your financial situation, your family relationships.

    If you can't manage your own life well, I don't think it's necessary to continue, and it's not just the two of you who will suffer if you go down.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I thought I was the only one in my situation!! But I'm here, as long as the two of you work together, it's fine. Believe me!

    The main thing is that you have a good discussion together, and it would be better if you could meet the parents of both sides to discuss!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    She loves you!!

    Don't miss out!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    ..She's thinking too much about it, and she's pretty sure you're going to find someone else.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A girl may not be able to divide it if she says it a thousand times, but if a boy decides, he can't turn back, you think about it yourself, what she wants.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not your fault! Men are actually very fragile and can't afford to be tortured! Turn grief and anger into strength, I'm optimistic about you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can totally understand how you're feeling right now, but it's just a matter of time, and you have to control yourself, and it's going to pass slowly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you think about the lyrics in "I Remember I Loved", you may understand a little.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Speechless! I've just broken up and I'm feeling a little sad too! But from my point of view, it's not that your girlfriend doesn't like you, it's just that she may have some pressure.

    Don't break up, give each other some time, and keep the relationship going. It's best not to meet, but to get through**. See what the results will be.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When I fell out of love, I went to see beautiful women on the street!At least it won't hurt, and there are more beautiful than her!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No one can say anything about feelings, pay sincerely, how can it be so easy to forget, the deepest hurt in the world is true feelings, it will take a certain amount of time to come out of the pain, time is the best healing medicine, your infatuation makes people feel. Maybe you still have a chance to keep you, I wish you happiness!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone is the same, because it's the first love, so it takes a long time to really let go, the first love can get married very few, it's okay, you don't have to fantasize about anything, just take this as an experience, the most important thing is not to fall for it, it's okay to cry, it's okay not to sleep, it's okay to "be cheap", but you can't go on like this, work hard for your goals.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't think about it so much Break up and break up The melon that is left behind is not sweet Believe in your own ability three.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In a word: if you want to forget, it will slowly fade, and you believe in time. In the same years, there will always be some sadness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Learn to be strong, forget if you don't get it, it's good for everyone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Time is the best medicine, take it slowly. Everybody is from here.

    Be manly, be strong.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How to say it, I got along with you at will, can it still be a good thing, and you can still put your feelings into it Hey, I don't blame you, my first love, let's learn from an experience and a lesson.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The more you can't let go, the easier it is for you to lose, the more heartache you have, something needs you to see, in fact, you will still be the original person you love so much in the future, but you will definitely say no now.

    Two people need to cherish each other I advise you to let go of this relationship now so that maybe you will really have a chance in the future If you are still entangled like this or redeem it, it will be counterproductive !!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Calm down.

    You have to believe that God separates you because you are not fit for pain for a while, and life will only be more colorful when you experience pain...

    You can talk about it with your bosom friends, or write Weibo, write a diary, write a blog, and express your inner feelings...

    I believe that your true destiny is waiting for you in front of you, and you will get your own happiness!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Both parents objected, and he did not insist on taking it properly. In my opinion, it is not a big deal that the families are far apart. Since he listens to his parents like this, instead of trying to convince him, even if you marry him, he will listen to his parents in the future.

    This is the most detrimental to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. So you should be relieved, it's not worth it, it's okay, you are just starting out, the long pain is better than the short pain, and there will be better and more suitable for you in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he did that, why did he have to die and beg to get back together with him? Break up also have to be dignified, the Chinese population is thousands, must he be? Find someone better than him and show him happiness!

    However, regional issues are not a direct factor affecting the relationship, indicating that you still don't love each other enough, if you really love each other, all problems are not a problem, my boyfriend and I are also from two provinces, and the family does not agree, but this has not affected our relationship, and the feelings that we have worked together to fight for are more bitter and meaningful, since you have all decided to give up, you have already broken up, or look forward, not to mention that he did not show reluctance, why should you insist alone? Love is a matter of two people, may you find a better and more suitable person for yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If this is impossible, why should you be persistent? But from this incident, it can be seen that your boyfriend doesn't love you deeply enough, maybe for him you are just a small episode on his emotional path. So what you have to tell yourself now is that he is just a memory of your emotional path.

    Let yourself learn how to be strong, any girl has to face emotional setbacks, as long as you can persevere, then you will get the happiness you want.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it's me, I'll eat hard, anyway, I don't seem to be fat, and then I wipe my tears, and there's nothing I can't get by. He is not the only good man in the world.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Learn to forget that there is a kind of love called letting go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    He's richer, right?,Actually, fellow countryman,I'll tell you.,It's good to marry Hunan.,It's not good to marry far away.。。。

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The choices are nothing more than a few. You should also be aware of the decision to make. 1 is willing to give up 2 The reason for separation is out of town, then move in with him, there is no reason to break up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Forget it, forget it, what's the use of being nostalgic? First of all, the boy died, and the second family did not agree... After all, there is one person who is willing to be together, and everyone else around you who you love is willing, and you can't do it if you hurt them, so choose to forget.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you can't love, do you want to continue, if you don't conform to the laws of nature, you are destined to not exist in the world.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    One day or two you will feel that your world is collapsing, a month or two months you will feel that life seems to have a little meaning, a year or two you will feel that you are really stupid and cute, and the world is still so beautiful!If you feel uncomfortable, go to "China Lovelorn Network" to take a look, you will feel that your own affairs are nothing compared to others!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Alas, go and have a good vent!Then put your energy elsewhere. Let's try it first.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Talk to him about communicating by sending a letter.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's divided, it's divided, don't harass him anymore, there will be a more suitable one for you waiting for you, go find it. Don't dwell on the shadows of the past.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First of all, you should delete his **, since he is like this, do you still have to stalk?

    There's an article on the Internet that I think is very well written, called "Girls Should Live Like This", and I think you can check it out.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    is the same as the end of the world, I started talking about it in 2019, my boyfriend is also my first love, the situation is the same as you, anyway, I found that he is slowly changing.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Temporary can't let go is inevitable, you have to muster up the courage, a man can afford to put down, this is very normal, there are many people like you, don't care too much, it can only mean that your shoulders are not hard enough, so that she has no courage to rely on, as long as you change your own shortcomings, so that your wings become hard, in the near future, beauty will descend to your side;

    Suggestion: Go climbing, running, playing ball, etc., to reduce troubles, comfort and improve self-confidence!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Give up decisively, the choice of smart people. That kind of person is not worth nostalgia, and the one who hurts the most in the end of love is always the one who is unwilling to let go. When you go out and spend more time with your friends, the most important thing is that you shift your focus to other things and don't stay on that woman;The best and most comfortable way to forget a relationship is to start a new one, buddy, you can do it, come on

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    After all, you haven't reached that point yet, maybe you can still keep it, the key is yourself!If you try to keep it, I believe that a miracle will happen

    I hope my words are helpful to you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Time will make you forget everything, and you can't let go of it now, because you've given your feelings before.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Try to forget her, first love is wonderful, but it is also unreliable.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Find another one, and time will erase the pain for you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Lay down and mature a little. Lamentable. Put it down.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Your parents do not agree because they are afraid that your man will not be able to support the family in the future, after all, a man is the breadwinner of a family in many situations. If you really love him, you can either be a strong woman and pay more attention to communication with him at the same time. If he loves you too, he will think about your future.

    Otherwise, it's too irresponsible, and such a man is not worth it for you to mess with your family for him. As a woman, it is easy to be irrational in terms of feelings, and it will be a little difficult to fall in love, but you still have to think carefully and make your decision. After all, it's a lifetime thing.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You know all about this upper and lower beams, so don't look back at your first love, or you shouldn't have split it up in the first place, just find a new one, you can hide him in your heart, but just hide it, even if he pleads, it's all = past tense.

    The new life is happy.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families, you can fall in love with yourself, but marriage is not just love. Hope it helps.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's hardest when you're faced with a choice!

    The nature of the country is easy to change, you think about it, your parents have experienced so much on the road of life, and the things they do must be for your good, and now they are separated, so be it. If the two of you are together again, as you say, then he really hasn't changed anything? Still fun-loving, lazy!

    What do you do, break up? At that time, a breakup will make you more painful and disappointed. It's just to keep this young first love memory in my heart

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Break up, otherwise you will get divorced in the future, learn to forget,

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Leave him! There are better men to ...... you should pursue

    Wishing you happiness!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Then find another one, why regret it then.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Broke up and starved.

    Sadness shows that you have sincerely paid.

    It shows that you value affection.

    But after all, it was a breakup.

    You're so sad.

    Good judgment, good cheer up.

    this world. No one can live without it.

    You will also meet and cherish you.

    Good to dig up the limbs, good to stay with you.

    Wishing you happiness!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Everyone will be sad if we break up, what matters is what we do in the future. Give you two suggestions, and if you still like him, go for it. If you don't like him, give up the squirrel. Thinking about it in a few years, it's not a big deal!

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Because you have true feelings, you will fall in love for a long time, there is no one right or wrong in love, only who does not know how to cherish whom

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Time is always a good medicine for sadness, but the deeper the love, the greater the amount of medicine!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Falling out of love does not mean that amnesia can forget everything in an instant, and the painful liver and intestines cannot escape the fate of turning around. The feeling of loving very much is something that you will find out after experiencing many things together, many things are beautified by yourself, and sometimes it is a beautiful thing not to get it, because it proves that it is not love. The only person who can help you get back on your feet is yourself.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Time can dilute everything. Whoever leaves whom, the earth still rotates the same. Have a good cry, go crazy, vent all the pain in your heart, you will see you again if you have fate, you can start a new life only when the love without fate is over, and there will be someone more suitable for you, that person is the person you should cherish in this life.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Please tell us the reason for the breakup.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Find something to do, with spiritual sustenance, it will be fine after a long time.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    The experience seems to be ah, then try to enrich yourself Don't think about him, forget him, what kind of onion is he

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Time is the best healing medicine, and you may be sad until you meet the next one, give yourself a little time and recuperate.

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