I broke up with my boyfriend of almost four years who I was in love with for 20

A man who can beat a woman is a person who has no education, no cultivation and quality, which also reflects that he has no sense of responsibility, this kind of man is not worth it, you are sad, and it is normal, after all, people have feelings, you have been together for so long, there are good and bad memories, there are familiar scenes, since you are divided, just be a little bit, don't think too much about yourself, look forward, don't stop for such a man, be responsible for yourself.

It shouldn't be too long to fall in love, because after a long time, it's too familiar to be familiar anymore. It's going to be boring! If there is still love between the two, why can't they accommodate each other a little?

After all, the four-year relationship is not something that can be put away. ，

Time is the best medicine.

Maybe 1 year, maybe 2 years, maybe 1 month ......

Time is the best medicine. Time can help us forget all the pain, but only if you get out of his world completely and don't make contact.

Good sister, long pain is not as good as short pain, if the relationship between men and women hurts more than good, then such a relationship is destined to die, don't deceive yourself and avoid the result. There is no one in this world that we can't live without Relatives love us the most But we still can't live and die together Not to mention the love in this real world Four years of long-distance running has been exhausted There is no need to be unwilling There is no need to prolong the time of cutting flesh Quick knife to cut the mess is definitely the best policy I am also a person from the past. My decision is, if I don't love anymore, I will give the other party a gorgeous turn, instead of blindly procrastinating, destined to be separated, and use those precious time to find the relationship that can really achieve positive results, good luck, come on!

It is inevitable that two people will have quarrels or quarrels when they are together, but if you say that you do it, it is not necessary, it may be that he does not love you as much as before, that is to say, the relationship between you has faded If this is the case, it is better for the man to get better in the future, and it is good to say that it will not be good for anyone in the long run, so the breakup is also free from pain.

Actually, I think first of all, what are the reasons for quarrels and fights? This is very important, is it because of personality incompatibility, or because of trivial things in life, or because of work pressure, or is it simply not in love, I don't like it, I don't want to be together, I have a different world view and outlook on life, and I can't live together? But I believe that it is difficult for anyone who wants to let go of the four-year relationship because they have experienced too many things together This common experience and the years they have gone through together are difficult to part with Separation is not necessarily a bad thing Because together may not be able to calm down and think about the affairs of two people Only temporary isolation and separation can be more calm and objective reflection In this not short time together, whether the two are really suitable for a lifetime In fact, living together The suitability of living habits is suitable for complementary personalities There is no contradiction or conflict between hobbies and beliefs These are far more important and practical than love, if you still decide to break up after all these considerations, then some discomfort in a period of time after the breakup is inevitable and very normal, because it only takes 7 days for a habit to develop, but for you to erase the existence of this person who has been very accustomed to your life from your life, it really takes a while, if time allows, you can choose more sports such as fitness in the time outside of work, and at the same time, it will make people feel happy after exercise In addition, you can participate in some friends gatherings or some group activities when there are many people, the feeling of everyone being together will make you temporarily dilute the loss of feelings in your heart, try not to be alone, spend this period of time strong and calm, I believe everyone can do it.

You can give it up.

I feel like you broke up with your boyfriend. You still can't forget her, which means that you still love him in your heart and haven't forgotten your feelings for him. If you really love her, you should choose to get back together with him.

Take the initiative to admit your mistakes to him, treat him with sincerity, if he also likes you, the one who loves you will definitely be willing to get back together with you.

I broke up with his boyfriend for four years for a year, and I still can't forget her, I think you stand to forget him for a year and haven't forgotten it, then forget him in two years, okay is still waiting for you.

I've been talking to your boyfriend for four years, and I broke up, but I still can't forget her, this is human nature, this is human emotion, which means that you are also a kind person, a person who values feelings, you can't forget him, it doesn't matter, you just remember him, but you have to do what you have to do, don't do your emotion, that is not good for yourself.

Your situation is also understandable, you and your boyfriend have been talking for 4 years, although you broke up, I don't know what the reason, but if you don't have a new relationship after the breakup, then your habit is still him, then it is naturally not so easy to forget, this does not necessarily mean that you still like him, but there must still be feelings, if you are talking about a new boyfriend now, but you can't forget the previous one, you have to pay attention, you are hurting two people at the same time, one is yourself, the other is your current boyfriend.

Thank you for your question!

The crux of the problem is that the woman still has illusions and can't free herself from her previous emotions. That's why we're in this situation.

The author believes that if two people are together, if they don't love each other and finally choose to break up, then they must learn to say goodbye to the past. If a person can't go on a date and let go of a relationship, it means that his mind is not mature enough. An immature person naturally can't be so rational about feelings.

So, the best way to solve the problem is to let go of yourself and say goodbye to the past. Regain your feet and look for a relationship that really suits you. Thank you!

It's normal that you've been talking to your boyfriend for 4 years and can't forget him after a year of breakup, which shows that you put in a lot of emotion when you're with him. It takes time to forget.

You broke up with your boyfriend who you have been talking about for four years, one year, and still can't forget her, your feelings for him are very deep and sincere, as for the breakup for one year, you still can't forget, if so, you can contact him to see if he has a new relationship, if he is still single, you can continue to date, because four years of relationship is not easy to come by.

I've been in love for 4 years, and after a year of breakup, I still can't forget the boy, it seems that you have been deeply involved, but in fact, the other party has already had a new love, you better come out.

You've been talking to your boyfriend for 4 years, and it's been almost a year since you broke up, but you still can't forget him, this is normal, as long as you meet someone you like, someone who works hard and remembers, you may never forget him for the rest of your life.

It's been a year since you broke up with your boyfriend who fell in love, and you still can't forget each other, in fact, it's very normal, if you can't forget it for the time being, you can't forget it for the time being, and you will naturally forget it after a long time. There's no need to think about this one thing all the time.

When you encounter this kind of emotional problem, you can participate in more group activities, meet more people, and then see that if you like or others like you, you can associate with him, so that you will gradually forget the previous feelings.

It can only be said that you have invested too much in this relationship, so you can't let go of each other, after all, the four-year relationship is not something that can be put down for a while, it is recommended that you take the initiative to communicate with the other party, if the other party is still single, you can propose a reunion.

If you miss it, you will meet better, everyone has a love, sweet love, I also firmly believe that everyone will meet the person who is full of you, you can have your own little happiness, have your own happy little days, no worries, no sorrows, you will be happy, lucky, bless you.

It shows that in the past 4 years of relationship, you have given true love, so you can still remember it after breaking up for a year, at this time, you can divert your attention to read and study more, or start a relationship again. will forget about the ex-boyfriend.

How can you forget? It's been four years together, if you have a child who is 3 years old, you will never forget eating and sleeping together for such a long time, and you will never forget it until the last moment of your life when you are old!

I think it's normal to talk to my boyfriend for four years and still can't forget him after a year of breakup. After all, two people have been together for so long, and I think it's still very difficult to get someone who they loved very much before. can only use time to slowly dilute this emotion.

Four years is a long time, and it's understandable that you can't forget it, but if the fate of two people is over and they can't go together, then don't dwell on the past.

You broke up with your boyfriend who you have been talking about for four years, and it's been a year now, but you can't forget him, it's normal, after all, people have feelings, and you've been together for four years, this is an unforgettable relationship, it's not so easy to forget, it takes time to slowly forget him.

It's normal, I've been talking about a boyfriend for four years. Forgetting is a process. Life time, I prove. If he can't come back, don't, miss him. I think he just needs to be put in the right place, otherwise he will disturb your life.

You just get used to his presence, because girls will always love more and more in love, and the longer they are in love, the more they will care about each other.

Let it go, don't get along with yourself, there are still many things in this world that are worth pursuing, not only the beauty of feelings.

Since you can't forget it, let's go to her and see if there's a chance to get back together. If he can't forget you, it proves that you really love each other, and if he already has a partner, then you forget it, there will be a better one.

It's a girl, and it's generally hard to give up your current feelings, because their words are long-term lovers. So after proposing to break up, they fell into a low process for a long time. So that's understandable, too.

I've been talking to my boyfriend for 4 years, and I still can't forget him after a year of breakup, so I think you are still. You can't forget him, you still think about him a lot in your heart, so you can adjust yourself and try to forget about it.

It's been a few years since I broke up with her boyfriend who has been in love for four years, and now I still can't forget that the other party communicates with each other, and the other party is also thinking about the two of you together, don't separate!

I've been talking for four years, it's still a long time, and the relationship for so long has basically changed from feelings to family affection, if the other party can't forget it, you can try to get back together, if the other party already has a girlfriend, it is recommended to forget it slowly.

I've been talking about my boyfriend for 4 years, and I've broken up for a year, and the interval between them is too long, if you want to get back together with him, you should bring it up with him when you just broke up.

This is a sunk effect, because the time you spend talking to your boyfriend for four years belongs to sunk time, so you can't let go of the time you paid, and you can't forget him.

Of course, this situation is normal, because a relationship is often not unforgettable and will make you remember it vividly, not to mention that after talking for four years, work hard, time will give you the answer.