My former best friend has suddenly changed, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you're an emotional person.

    Actually, I care about my friends too.

    I've made a few friends who I think are very good.

    Hurt one, it's a conflict, but we're reconciled.

    But it's just a one-sided effort, and there's no return.

    Now in high school, I know someone who gives a lot of affection and how much affection I give back, and I think a close friend is more rare than a boyfriend.

    If you think he can only bring you pain and make you sad, why not let go of yourself and make some new friends.

    People change over time, life, environment, and so on.

    You can try to communicate with her, try to give more, see if you have done something wrong, if it still doesn't work, forget it, don't be bitter about yourself.

    Hope you have really good friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to learn to communicate with her, if she is rude or doesn't care, you leave her, there is really no need for such a friend to continue dating. Agree with the downstairs, don't feel sorry for yourself for others, after all, your body is your own. You tell me?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hey, how do you say it. Feelings are always very distressing, I also have a very good friend, we have had a conflict before, but we are very good now, we know how to cherish each other, although she is a girl and I am a boy, but as long as she is enough. You can talk to that friend of yours, (I feel that the most feared thing between friends is silence) to see what he is doing, if he hesitates, there should still be hope, indicating that he still has feelings for you, if there is nothing to say or it is useless, then let go, let yourself rest, always distressed is not a way, although it is difficult to forget a person, more unwilling, I still have to advise you:

    Something is good to have it go naturally"Don't hope if it's not your own, when he loses you, he will know what it means to cherish, don't be nostalgic, (in fact, you should thank him, thank those who have hurt you, because you can grow up with him), find a friend who is really worth cherishing each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want to open a little, this is life and life. Sickness comes from the mouth, and distress is also found by oneself. Did you mean to scold her for the rest of your life???

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't want to do anything, it's not that your friends have changed, it's just that you're all strangers, and that's quite normal.

    The pace of life is getting faster and faster, people don't have time to take a breath, and many friends who were once so close have gradually lost contact.

    Only during the New Year's holidays, will I send a message, say a few words, and in a blink of an eye, I will devote myself to the anxious trivialities.

    Unconsciously, we are no longer young, and we have heavy responsibilities on our shoulders, and we dare not be willful anymore. Busy work, endless things, time is always insufficient, we have no choice but to grit our teeth and struggle.

    When I think back to the past, I will also be a little lost. Nowadays, we don't seem to be able to find much to talk about except for those memories of the past. You have your circle, I have my life, and we have gradually become the most familiar strangers.

    But I've always decided that not being in touch often doesn't mean that I don't have thoughts, I don't see each other often, and I don't erase past friendships. Whenever I see a message from you, I will still be happy from the bottom of my heart.

    Friends, like the stars in the sky, may not always be remembered, but you know, they are always there.

    Even if I haven't been in touch for a long time, every time I remember it, I still feel warm in my heart. Because of their existence, I have made myself less lonely along the way.

    True friends, not around, but in the heart, no matter how far or near, only sincerely. They may not be the icing on the cake for you when you are in the spring breeze, but they will definitely help you when you are lost and desperate.

    In this life, we will meet many people, but not everyone can enter the heart and occupy a place.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Just go with the flow, everyone is changing, you yourself are actually changing, just look at the changes of your friends with a normal mind.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go with the flow, change is the normal situation, each of us will grow and change, if you find that you are no longer able to communicate, then contact each other less, and your friendship will naturally fade.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is very normal for friends to change, and there is no need to worry too much, because in today's society, everyone is changing, and you may feel that your friends have changed, but in fact, all we have to do is to maintain our original intention in this change.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, you don't need to mind too much, different people will change when they encounter different things and are at different stages of life, but your friendship has not changed much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If your friend's affection for you is becoming weaker and weaker, and she cherishes this friendship and doesn't want to lose it, you should take the initiative to talk to her more than before to strengthen your friendship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Or don't impose your will on someone else's head. Try to understand her, give her some space, and be more tolerant of her friends. As long as you know that she is doing well, it will be your friend's wish.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My buddy went to college in the North, while I stayed in the South. I remember that during the summer vacation of my freshman year, when she came home, I felt that she had changed. I met new friends, and people were also contaminated with the boldness and childishness of the north.

    I was a little unaccustomed to it at first, but after spending more time with her, I got used to it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it is for the better, then you should be happy for him, and at the same time, you must know that everything is constantly changing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People always have to grow up, and they can't always be the same. Your friends have changed, so should you change too?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No one is always the same, and it's normal to change, if he becomes what you don't like, then it's good to gradually drift away, and there is no need to ask others to change anything for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A friend is someone you want to see when you're happy, someone you want to find when you're worried, someone who doesn't need to say thank you when you get help, someone who doesn't have to say sorry when you bother, and someone who doesn't need to change your name when you're promoted. Friends can walk in the rain with an umbrella together, roll on the beach together, indulge in some kind of reverie together, swim in the sea of books together, friends are sad to shed tears with you, and have joy and silly laughter with you......

    Friends can be divided into; Ordinary friends and intimate friends can be divided into same-sex friends and opposite-sex friends in these two types of friends. Ordinary friends have more feelings for you than people who only know each other and don't have a relationship, and the frequency of communication is not very high. Bosom friends are not, they have a certain emotional blend with each other, one soul resides in two bodies, two bodies and one heart, and even two hearts beat at the same speed.

    In terms of emotion, it is similar to a loved one, except that it is not related by blood. Friends of the same sex and friends of the opposite sex cannot go beyond the above two types of friends.

    Friends may not always be in touch, but they will not forget, every time they think about it occasionally, they still feel so warm, so cordial, and so tender; Friends put care in their hearts and hide their concerns in their eyes; Friends are accompanied by one period of life, and spend one evening after another together; Friends are happy when they think of it, and more gentle when they remember it, friends are like alcohol, strong and easy to get drunk; Friends are like flowers, elegant and fragrant; Friends are autumn rains, delicate and poetic. Friends are like a glass of cold boiled water, cool and bland, but thirst-quenching practical.

    When you have a bosom friend, please grasp the opportunity you have, and cherish him (her), and never let your bosom friend leave you silently. You don't have to immerse yourself in the pink world, you have to choke the green today and welcome the golden tomorrow.

    I hope that my friends will drive the golden car of time, gallop on the road paved with clouds, and move forward in style. May your friends ride the colorful auspicious clouds and float beside you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Everybody changes, and when you feel like your friends are changing, you're actually changing, and that's life

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everybody changes, even their best friends change, everybody has their own lives, they change, they change because of something in their lives, or something goes wrong in their relationship, everybody changes. Everyone in Russia has to face this cruel reality, so they have to be strong, and no matter what their friends become, they will still be their friends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do you think this change is bad? What do you think has changed about him? Sometimes your mood has changed, so you think he has changed, in fact, we all change in life, but you don't want to say that your friends have changed after you have changed.

    Of course, if you think that he has become bad and hates him, then you can try to have as little contact with him as possible, so that there will be no conflict between you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is sweet." When I was a child, I never understood this kind of truth, and when I was my age, I felt that this was the case, faintly, and it was decades to make friends. Gentleman's friend, I haven't seen each other for a long time, so let's talk a little bit, "How are you?"

    You can talk. But when we grow up, we will divide our friends into different circles of friends and different stratospheres according to different characteristics, so we will not have such strong bonds and constraints.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The fact that our former best friend has changed proves that we haven't seen him for a long time, and everyone will change in the big dye vat of this society. Maybe we won't see this friend often in the future, so we don't have to worry about it, because its presence doesn't have any impact on our lives.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Each of us will be influenced by external circumstances and thus change, if you feel that your former best friend has changed. There are some traits in you that you hate, and I suggest you try to accept it and understand the change. If you really can't accept it, then you should give up this friendship in time and don't maintain it far-fetched.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This situation is also relatively common, for example, after going to college, many friends have gone to different places to study, different places, they also have different friends, relatively, and the relationship with you will be estranged, but this is also temporary, after all, the relationship between you is still relatively deep, after a holiday of familiarity, your relationship will be as good as before.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Nothing. Be open to the changes of your friends, after all, what doesn't change in time is what changes all the time. So you just have to accept it, and if you don't accept it, you won't be friends.

    And I think change is good, so that you can see the diversity of a person clearly, like you said, become very annoying him, then stay away, don't hesitate, hate because you think he will make you uncomfortable, when you break it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Most of my good friends are changing, I can understand that this is also normal, sometimes it is not okay to enter the society without changing, my best friend, I was very introverted before, I don't like to show my head the most, I don't like to chat with everyone, and I am not good at words, now in order to live, I have to change myself, he is now doing financial sales, this profession really needs to communicate, see that each customer has to keep talking to each other about the benefits of financial management, what kind of customers have been received, now think about him before, I never thought that he would do this profession, maybe the change was to improve himself better.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There will be times when any relationship is tired, and there is no absolute freshness that can make a person indulge in it forever.

    You will naturally have conflicts when you get along with each other a lot, and you must know that only feelings that have experienced contradictions and setbacks are true and profound.

    So, your question can't be considered a bad one either.

    You need to face the current situation seriously, get to know him, care about his life and psychology, it may be something special that has changed him, the most likely thing is that his self-confidence has been hit, and men will indeed snub and avoid others when they are not confident.

    Persistence is victory, you have to let him understand that you love him, you don't need to explain too much, and don't deliberately let yourself how to cater to him, laughing from the heart is undoubtedly the best**, there is nothing irretrievable, don't break up this relationship because of your small contradictions, please be rational at the critical moment!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It shows that the two of you have changed somewhat, you should communicate well with each other, find your previous self as soon as possible, or understand and understand each other, and cherish the friendship between you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think there may be some misunderstandings and contradictions between you, so let's find a suitable time to communicate well, it will definitely get better slowly, so communication is the most important.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Let's take a chance to talk about each other's life trajectories, there must be a lot of stories in them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Both of you have to carefully examine who has changed and why has changed, and if you communicate well, won't this problem be solved.

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