Do men want to get married? Why do men need to get married?

If you are an only child, it is better not to get married, and there will be a pension problem after 20 years. Instead of spending the money on the bride price, it is better to adopt 2 children to support yourself. In the future, 4+2+1 families, the more population, the greater the chance of spending money on illness, hospitals are too expensive to look down on, because China has become the world's largest aging country, nursing homes are crowded, and it takes a lot of time to serve parents-in-law, and life is very stressful.

Don't expect the state to help you with your old age, it is said that now the pensions are in deficit, and this era is different from the past. If you maliciously divorce after a few years of marriage, you don't need to care about her parents in the future, or you don't have a conscience at all. But it's a bit unkind to do that.

That's what makes you ask? Marriage is not a matter of letting you buy a ticket to take the bus, you don't have to be seated in the right number! Like I used to want to get married, it was after the age of 25, but I got married at the age of 22, this is not as I think, you can get married as long as you want, for example, you plan to have a career, how much savings you have in the future, but if you meet someone you want to spend your life with now, and it has also reached the point of getting married, then do you still have to stick to your plan?

Would your girlfriend agree? Will her family agree with your plans? Then you can think for yourself!

If you miss it, the day you realize your plan, maybe your lover won't know where to go! After a while, the gang couldn't find a suitable one, and then they delayed themselves, and there were people in their 30s who didn't have a partner, or they got married for the sake of getting married, and they were distressed! If you meet the right person, get married, it is said that marriage is the grave of love, but the person who enters the grave has at least rested in peace, and it is happier than those lonely ghosts, isn't it?

I said that it is better for men and women not to get married, how tiring it is to get married, to be responsible for the family, to be responsible for the other half, to be responsible for the children, to be responsible for the elderly on both sides, and to educate after having children. Take care of it, have a sick or something, have bad grades or something! It's a dead heart, but it doesn't seem like it's okay not to get married!

Generally speaking, men must get married, but there are also celibates, like monks, he doesn't get married, so this is to ask your own heart, your own feelings, if you want to get married, if you don't want to get married, don't get married; It's good to be happy in life, I wish you happiness;

Marriage is a symbol of a man's maturity, and not getting married is a bit irresponsible to his parents and girlfriends, parents are looking forward to getting married and having children, girlfriends are looking forward to having a stable home, and men after marriage have to take on the responsibility of the family.

It's up to you whether you get married or not. I feel that if you are a man, you should get married, at least not to disappoint your parents.

It is the responsibility of men.

The current society doesn't need it, it's the same whether it's knot or not, and who is not who's who.

Young couples and old companions, when you are lonely and lonely, only your wife can be by your side. The wife's position is not something that your so-called lover or any other woman can take your place.

Because since ancient times, the male fighting poor spine people have borne the inheritance of a family, and there are three unfilial pieties. Therefore, if a man does not get married, he will be criticized by the family.

Let's not talk about having a child, a good thing that can make you grind at home, and there is no pressure on Zhongyan Youfeng.

Usually there are many women who do housework in the house, and they are also responsible for the warmth, and they usually give you a shhh, and they don't have to pay for their salary.

Why not!

As the saying goes, men should get married, women should get married, for the vast majority of people, marriage and childbirth is a necessary experience in life, and under the right conditions, they will definitely fall in love, get married, and have children. ......However, when it comes to a specific person, how he will choose will be affected by many specific situations. ......Specifically, it includes whether or not to marry and have children will be affected by the general environment in which you live, whether you are married and have children will be affected by your family, and personal will is the key factor in deciding whether to marry and have children.

1. Whether a person chooses to marry and have children will be affected by the general environment in which he lives.

Each of us is in a certain state of environment, we work and live in this environment, and our words and deeds, thoughts and thoughts will also be affected by the general environment in which we live. ......Specifically, the attitude of the people around you towards marriage and childbirth will have a very great impact on you, and you will have your own ideas and make corresponding choices under their influence, 2. Family factors have a great impact on whether a person gets married and has children.

Among the many factors that affect one's attitude towards love and marriage, family factors have a very large impact. I have grown up under the education and guidance of my parents since I was a child, and my parents' concept of marriage and childbirth will inevitably have a corresponding impact on me, so that I will eventually form the concept of whether to marry and have children. Therefore, family factors play a very important role in determining how to get married and have children.

3. Personal will is the key factor in determining whether a person will get married and have children.

Although there are many external factors that affect one's own views on marriage and childbearing, the formation of the ultimate concept on this issue still lies in one's own will. ......Specifically, no matter how external factors affect you, what you think in your heart is what matters. Only one's own personal wishes are the decisive factor in determining whether or not one will get married and have children.

And because different people have different personal ideas. Therefore, there will be specific situations in which different people have different choices about marriage and childbearing.

When men get married, women get married, and the vast majority of people will choose to get married. ......But there are also people who like to live a single life and think "it's good to be single". These people think this way because they don't feel like they have to take on family responsibilities when they're single, they don't have to do more housework when they're single, and they don't have to worry about marital fights.

After getting married, there is a lot of housework, and I have to do housework after work, which is very hard. ......In a single life, there is not much housework, and as long as you are satisfied, you can skip housework, which will obviously make you feel more relaxed, and then produce a feeling of "it's good to be single".

2. Single life does not have to worry about husband and wife quarrels.

After marriage, although the husband and wife can support each other and face life together, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and even quarrels because of the differences between them. It's annoying to yourself. ......But single living effectively avoids this problem.

In the single state, living alone, not having to worry about the quarrel between the husband and wife, and being happy every day, such a state of life will make you feel more comfortable and satisfied.

3. Living single does not have to take on family responsibilities.

When you get married, you have to take on family responsibilities, which is a burden for yourself. ......If you are single, you don't have a family, so you don't have to take on family responsibilities. ......Because there are no burdens in life, you will feel more relaxed and happy, so you will feel "It's good to be single".

It is precisely because of the above situations that some people feel more comfortable living alone. But after all, there are many inconveniences in living alone, so for the vast majority of people, they will eventually choose to get married.