What kind of person am I and how can I change it?

Hello! In fact, people are the same, the key is that the personality and the way of causing accidents are different, you don't have to care too much about what others think of you, you don't have to think about whether they think you are good or bad, of course, if everyone will think about whether this person is good or bad, and they want everyone to like and agree, then I think everyone's relationship will be good, because they all want others to think of themselves well, so they will be fearless and have been paying for everyone! There is a saying that is very good (go your own way and let others say it) is a good thing to be kind-hearted, but it is not necessarily a good thing, now kind people are indeed not easy to find, some people have a lot of scheming, love to play smart, you can be like this, there must be good or bad between friends, that is to say, there are helpful to you, there are also unhelpful to you or even bad effect, it depends on your observation, you are good to your friends from the heart, when friends deeply understand that he will treat you as his good friends sincerely, If a friend is in trouble in a bigger matter, if you can help him, then his view of you must be very different from before, of course, you can also ask your friend to help you, in fact, you don't need to pay too much attention to what others think of you now, maybe they are also worried about this problem like you!

So don't care so much, you pay, as long as you think it's worth it, then sooner or later they will understand, so that there will be more and more friends around you, and they will also help you when you need help, everyone is mutual!

There is a big gap between people, so let go and look at it, you don't have to be perfect, there is no perfect person in this world, as long as you really pay for everyone and don't feel sorry, then your kindness will be recognized by everyone sooner or later This is just my opinion, I hope it can help you!

Bottom line: you care too much about what others think of you! You must know very well that people must have a distinct personality and personality in life in order to be recognized by everyone! Don't pay too much attention to the gains and losses, the main thing is the process!

It's not a bad thing to have a good mindset! But don't care too much about other people's doubts about your kindness, the key is whether you will regret it after doing it or not! If you regret helping someone at the time!

If you don't regret it, it means that you are a kind person, a kind person who can feel the ...... that everyone will feel

Learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes! Learn to understand and tolerate the people around you, you may not be able to influence the good or bad of others, but you can infect and assimilate their ......

In conclusion: learn to become a vibrant and kind person.