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To be self-confident, cultivate independent thinking, and then act independently, think more about doing things, not follow the crowd, just rely on your own ideas to do things.

Haha...Brother...Why are we the same...

I'm also easily swayed by people on the side...

But I have an idea...It's that we have to be decisive...

It's our own personality that affects us...

We can be said to be indecisive. Huh...

I'm working on it too...Hopefully you can too.

But it's up to you to find your own path...Bless you.

Here's a suggestion for you.

100 blocks to travel all over China.

If you're still like that when you come back, I'll cut off your head and kick you as a ball.

As long as you have the courage to do it.

If not, just keep it like that.

In fact, reality is not a bad thing, it's just that people of the same age may be a little more mature in thought, but your reality should not be shown anytime and anywhere, so that some people will be afraid, as long as you think it is right, then you just do it, as long as you think about it from the perspective of others before doing it!

You may be too depressed yourself, relax, don't deliberately think about some things, now that you have a job, do a good job of the current work, in its position, seek its government, since you are in the current position, do your own work, people are slowly going up, slowly will enter the state, I believe you will soon get out of the trough, play your own world!

Recognize one thing, do it to the end, at least 10 years, you will be a bull.

Either you just relax completely and let yourself have enough, or you can read some inspirational books and you'll be fine for a while.

Do you change this by reading some books?

If yes, then you look at this.

Indecision will get you nowhere

Numerous scruples turn us all into cowards, and the blazing brilliance of determination is covered with a layer of gray by prudent thinking. Great things can also go against the tide and lose the meaning of action when they think about it. Shakespeare.

The most pitiful people in the world are those who are indecisive and hesitant when encountering problems, and often hesitate and do not know what to do on the wrong path in life.

Such people have no confidence in themselves, do not dare to make bold choices, and will only listen to the opinions of others; Such people lack courage, lack will, and do not believe in themselves or the trust of others.

Some are even hopelessly indecisive. They don't dare to decide anything, because they don't know whether their decision is good or bad, and if they decide to do it today, they may find out that the decision is wrong tomorrow and they will regret it.

These people, who are often hesitant, have completely lost confidence in themselves, so they are always slow to make a decision.

Some people have strong skills and good character, but because they have bad habits of indecision, they waste their lives and achieve nothing.

A person who is quick and quick to make decisions does not worry even if mistakes occur. Because, no matter how many mistakes he makes, his achievements in his career are always much higher than those who are timid, suspicious, and dare not take risks.

In Hamlet, Shakespeare wrote: "Miscarriage turns us all into cowards, and the blazing splendor of determination is covered with a layer of gray by prudent thought." Great things can also go against the tide and lose the meaning of action when they think about it. 』

There is a simple truth that must be remembered: those who have been standing still on the bank of the river will not be able to cross the other bank even after a hundred years!

If you have a habit of indecision, you should try to get rid of it, because it can hinder and destroy all the opportunities in your life.

If there is an urgent matter that requires you to decide, then you should make a decision today and never put it off until tomorrow.

You should always train yourself to make quick and firm decisions; No matter how big or small things are, don't hesitate.

Before you decide on something, you should be thoughtful and thoughtful based on common sense and reason, but once you have decided, you should make that decision final, and you should not go back and forth, or suffer from gains and losses.

The motto of the successful

Cowardice is not synonymous with prudence, because, prudence is a deliberate courage. Hatzrit, "Characteristics".

I can't insist on my own opinions and ideas, and I don't consciously learn from him."

Fool, according to these performances, you are not unprincipled, you are not confident, sometimes, people can't be too aggressive, you know? Once people have a pursuit, they will compare themselves with others who are better than themselves, and in reality, the consequences of doing so are often self-defeating.

Don't set goals for yourself, you are not a great man, you don't have a strong will, so goals bring you not motivation, but frustration after failure.

Only give yourself the easiest goal, and after achieving it, a small sense of accomplishment will slowly restore your self-confidence.

The most important thing is that you show "can't insist on your own opinions and ideas, and unconsciously learn from him", I don't know if you find it, your lack of self-confidence is brought to you by others, or you compare yourself with others to get, there is a very simple but effective way, I suggest you try, you can put your friends, classmates, colleagues, all the people you come into contact with, those who have unique ideas, opinions, and people who attract you to shine**, In your subconscious, admit that the other person is better than you (or better than you in some way), so that when you feel that the other person's point of view is defeating you, your subconscious will tell you that "he is the best person", and then naturally produce self-comfort to eliminate frustration.

Note: If the above analysis is true, then I am helping you admit your own shortcomings and accept them, not what you said, "How can I change it?"

You know, you can change your hairstyle, change your eating habits, but subconscious lack of self-confidence is not something that can be simply "changed", or it is unrealistic to expect someone to say something here to help you completely change it.

Look at what is not principled.

To have no principles for everything is to be self-righteous.

If you don't have principles for feelings, it's just flowery and narcissistic, and the other half of the thing that hurts the most.

If you are unprincipled about things, you are capricious.

It has something to do with kindness! This in itself is and derogatory!!

If you will not refuse the requests made by others, it means that you are still very kind and willing to help the requests made by others.

Friend, in what way do you feel that you have no principles? First of all, I want to send you a sentence "A calm lake can't train a strong sailor, and a comfortable life can't make a great man of the times", calm down and think about your own advantages and disadvantages, see yourself clearly, and then set a goal according to the actual situation, no matter what others say about you, just remember that you are working hard, you will succeed, come on, come on!

It shows that you are too kind, you don't know how to refuse, and many times you don't have to care too much.

You are not confident. Believe in yourself!!

Read more books and newspapers to improve yourself.

That's the disease, the kind that can't be cured, just a little self-aware.

Principles may change for everyone.

There are many reasons for this, starting with looking for it from the self. It is that I am not confident enough and my beliefs are not firm. Learn more knowledge, have a wide range of knowledge, understand more, and can give yourself confidence. I am not afraid that others will lead me astray.

It is very difficult for a person to stick to his own principles, if you blindly adhere to your own principles, you will say that you are stubborn, but people without principles are easy to be led astray, so how to do it without being led astray, then first of all, you must think that your matter is absolutely correct, no matter what people say, you must adhere to your own principles, believe that your decision is correct. But you may have to face a lot of pressure in between, and if you really succeed once, you can be determined.

The reason why it is easy to be taken by others is that you can't be firm enough to be firm in yourself. The Lord must have a character. Character determines indecisiveness and the like.

When it comes to a certain DAO issue, people who have an opinion can firmly stick to their opinions. Second, the other kind of person who has no opinion will not be able to be firm in himself. People with this kind of personality can only be soldiers, not leaders.

There is no opinion of one's own. and so on, I don't know which one to choose when I put it in front of me. It is very difficult for people with this personality to change themselves.

It is suitable for doing things, not for leading the way.

Very often, in group copy

Some people can easily give up their own ideas because of the words and deeds of others, and turn to deny themselves and conform to other people's ideas. Sometimes, this habit can cause a person to lose his or her thoughts and remain silent on any occasion, making his presence even lower.

That's because you're not strong-willed, you don't have self-confidence, you can't trust other people's words, you can't judge a person correctly, you don't know who is for you, and who is hurting you, so you have to learn to recognize people in the future, you have to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, you have to keep learning from others, pay more attention to see how people with strong physical ability deal with things, don't rush to conclusions in advance, look and think more first, so that similar things will not happen in the future.

Because the ears are relatively soft, they have no opinions on doing things, they see the wind is rain, they have no sense of distinguishing between truth and falsehood, they can't distinguish between good and bad, and they don't have subjective consciousness, so it is difficult to choose the road of life by themselves. Therefore, to change, we must first learn to be self-reliant, self-reliant, and have faith and our own position in everything we do. Don't trust others easily.

Good and evil to be understood. Do things with your own style and principles. In this way, they will not be led astray by others and will not go down the wrong path.

This has a lot to do with the environment, and what kind of environment you are in will affect you, especially if your self-discipline is not very good.

You must have your own principles in life and work, and if others say something, you will do something? Or the expert is not so assertive at all.

If you belong to it, it's easy for people to lead you astray, it's good to talk about small things, if you encounter a big event, it's even more troublesome, you are, so you must stick to your own principles in order to be able to do big things

If you have any other questions, please ask.

If you're really so easily led astray by others, I don't think you can blame it all. Because there are objective factors that you can't decide. I think those areas that can make you deviate must be the ones you have been exposed to but are not very familiar with, so they will be influenced by others.

Do things with your own stance. Don't trust others easily. Distinguish between good and evil. Do things according to your own principles. Only in this way can we not be led astray by others, and we will not go down the wrong path. Therefore, you must be firm in everything you do.

Is it that you don't have a position yourself, or your position is not firm enough when you encounter problems, so it is easy to follow others, your ideas are not firm enough, you feel that other people's ideas are reasonable, and you can't stick to your own opinions, so you still have to have a position, and you can't go with the flow.

Not confident and not confident in yourself. Self-confidence can be developed through the study section. Learn to deal with things independently, believe in your own ability, and be firm in your beliefs, so that you will not be biased.

Why is it easy to be led astray by others, can not be firm in themselves, people want to learn good and difficult, it is easy to learn bad, it is really a flowery world, there are traps everywhere, if you are not careful, you will go astray, you must be cautious in doing things, so as not to deviate from others, to be firm in yourself, I think so, so as not to deviate from others.

Many times, when communicating together in a group, some people can easily give up their ideas because of the words and deeds of others, and turn to deny themselves and conform to them.

Because of the soft ears, either they have no opinions, no sense of distinguishing between truth and falsehood, and weak subjective consciousness, such people have grown up with everything arranged by their parents from childhood to adulthood, and there is no time for their own choice.

I don't have the right outlook on life and values. Lack of essential knowledge of people or things.

The reason why it is easy to be led astray by others is that you are careless in making friends. As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. To stay away from people with negative energy, we should also strengthen our study, improve our ideological awareness, and make ourselves have a firm position, firm beliefs, and our own opinions, and unswervingly adhere to our principles.

First of all, we must learn more, only by understanding more knowledge, can we correctly guide ourselves to the right path, in life we should observe and learn more from the experience of others, communicate with positive people to make ourselves more knowledge, in short, we must be good at learning and observing, and we will not be led astray by others for a long time.

In the real society, there are many things that do not go as we want, and we want to work hard, but we are in a hurry to achieve results, and finally lose motivation. I believe that the vast majority of people have experienced such psychological changes.

One is that I am not confident, I want to work hard but I don't take action because I have too much consideration and questioning myself, and my efforts are just in my imagination and I am stumped by many things. The second is that his will is not firm, he has not yet been clear about what he wants, and he is easily anxious and uncertain.

Therefore, first of all, we need to be clear about what we want. Secondly, we should put it into action, clarify the goal, make a plan, and then implement it step by step according to the plan. And, while working hard, we must be patient, step by step, down-to-earth, in order to go further and closer to the rainbow.

Finally, and most importantly, persistence is victory, on the road to success, stumbling is inevitable, only by persevering to the end, can the rain pass the sun.