Why do I always believe in polite words??

Because you are more sincere like me, you always think that what others say is true and can be fulfilled, but who knows that they are just polite, perfunctory, and a routine chat technique. Don't blame others for saying polite things, only complain about yourself for being naïve.

I think it may be that you are younger and less experienced in all aspects of society, and your thoughts are simple and clean, and you have not suffered losses and have not been deceived, so it is very easy to believe polite words, of course, ** is still a minority, and you must be vigilant in the future, read more books, read more newspapers, learn from experienced colleagues, and ask for advice, so as not to always believe in polite words.

Maybe you prefer other people's compliments and are slower to respond. It is always after the conversation that you realize that the other person is saying polite words.

Solid eyes are a bit silly, a little silly, a little stupid, in fact, such people are easier to get along with.

A lot of people are too cunning, and the masks are so good that those of us who have too many eyes don't know how to start.

Because I couldn't tell whether these words were polite or sincere, I always thought they were true, so I listened to them in my heart, and finally found that I was wrong.

Then find someone with a good heart and be friends, some people will say polite words, but there is no bad heart, these people can also get along.

Some people have a lot of eyes, but as long as we don't provoke them, we are safe, and then we can get along with these people.

Don't have deep friendships with villains, don't get along with two-facedness, don't get along with people who don't have sincerity, and like to get along with people who take advantage, grasp this degree, and you can live a good life.

Because you are too idealistic about society and have not been deceived.

Because he was young, he was not beaten by society.

On the one hand, the person who speaks politely treats others, on the other hand, in order to make the other party like to listen and more willing to accept his own words, and at the same time show his modest and polite qualities, and polite words are also a clever use of language.

How do you know if someone is saying something polite? Generally, the polite person speaks with a more humble attitude, a softer tone, and the language is worded to make people feel cordial and receptive, and the words spoken are mostly respectful of the other party and can win the favor of the other party, and it should be analyzed according to the environment at the time and the interests of both parties.

The relationship is generally polite words, unless others have something to invite you repeatedly, it is not a polite word, ask for adoption.

I don't know how to greet my older siblings even if I'm older, after all, there's a bit of a age gap, and they're just chatting with adults, and I'm usually watching TV or surfing the Internet after dinner, or just go back to my room and read magazines. I was also very distressed, every time I had the Chinese New Year, I felt at a loss and didn't know what to do.

But ah, this is a way for people to maintain a certain relationship with each other since ancient times, keep an appropriate distance, and distinguish their own position. In this way, a feeling of affection that is neither too close nor too distant is maintained, and people are members of society, and some things are indispensable.

Even if we feel embarrassed, even if we are my peers, there are people who are very good at dealing with this situation (at least I have someone who is very envious), and we can only try to adapt and try to find a way to play our role in it, which is acceptable to ourselves and others.

You can hear that, for example, if you have poor grades in school, people will say that you have not met a good teacher.

That is, it is better to say it, and you will laugh when you say it, most of them are polite words, or they are particularly good-sounding, and you are embarrassed to hear yourself.

What the Chinese will do is polite words, and as the saying goes, it is false. Chinese like fakes. It depends on what you think, sometimes the fake can be true, and the real can also become fake.

Polite words can bring people closer to each other and eliminate strangeness.

The results of the event are ideal.

Others are too fake, or we are too stupid, too polite and too fake, we will lose our way, don't think too much, as long as we don't overdo anything.

China is a country of etiquette, and etiquette has been handed down for thousands of years, and it is respectful and polite to people. It's normal.

I will not say a word other than the necessary politeness.

Ah, you don't know! It's the kind of official language that can't be answered.

Politeness is handed down from the Chinese nation.

This is presumably the vanity of people.

Know what this is for? The soldiers will block the water and cover the earth.

During the Spring Festival, when visiting relatives and friends, it is inevitable to say some polite words. Do you say polite words?

Don't get me wrong, this article is not to teach you how to say polite words, but just to talk about your feelings and thoughts about polite words.

I wasn't a talkative and polite person before, and I always felt that people, real, were not good? As I get older and experience more things, some of my perceptions are slowly changing.

Polite words, still have to be said. Chinese literature and art are too broad and profound"Polite words"These three words, it is okay to say that it is a positive word, and it is also possible to use a derogatory word. The key lies in the person who speaks and the person who sees.

Polite words, sometimes a courtesy, sometimes a kind of enthusiasm, as long as it comes from the heart, can be accepted.

But in fact, if it can be properly expressed, it can achieve twice the result with half the effort.

So, it's still one"degrees"problems.

However, it is better to be polite than not to be polite. Politeness feels warm, and unpoliteness feels cold.

In the workplace, you must be conscious, you can't just believe what you say, some are pure scenes, just listen to it. For example: I'm not very good at this, please give me more advice, you must not really think that others are looking for you for advice, just be polite, maybe others are better than you.

There are so many polite words that you don't know which pit you will fall into.

Don't trust you, don't worry, I'm always available.

I'll tell you about this alone, and you must not tell anyone about it.

What the old employee said, 1You can't ask me! I'll hand it over to you. 2.It's so bad here, how could you want to come here3You're new here, if you have any questions to talk about, go ahead!

Leaders often say that there is no hurry, in fact, the sooner it is completed, the better.

It's just that some people will say that they can find him for anything, but in fact, everyone is very busy now.

The old employees like to say the most, I will help you with something, but in fact, they are all fooling you.

You're welcome, maybe very jealous of you.

There are a lot of polite words in the workplace, and you can't easily believe it, either you are stupid and stupid.

Pay attention to distinguishing polite words in the workplace, such as the following.

1.So you're not quite happy with the piece?

2.Of course I care too.

3.Yes, we should discuss it.

4.He may not be familiar with it.

5.I'm not sure if that's possible.

6.Are you sure?

7.The workload at my hands may be a little too much.

8.I'm sorry, but I'm not part of this program.

9.：10.Well, that's interesting.

11.Maybe you can ask what others think.

12.As long as you work hard and down-to-earth, you will be able to achieve the stable life you want, and you will definitely work hard. But if you have to add unspoken rules as a condition for upwardness, and the sense of moral consciousness is very strong, it is difficult to accept.

Originally, the pursuit of desire can be done in moderation, a sensitive heart, and there is no way to pretend that it doesn't matter to the pointing around, and destroy the happiness of the family for the sake of the scenery of the workplace, it is simply touching the bottom line, if you can't refuse, take the initiative to retreat. The following are some of the most common jobs.

1. Relatives and relatives: It's good that you are here, what kind of gifts do you bring? (You don't bring a gift to try)

2.Teacher: I'll just take up one minute of you (often 10 minutes after class and leave you 2 minutes) 3

Street shop: the last day of the sale (it's the last day of the day) 4, bus driver: there is a car behind (waiting for half an hour without a car, let's walk) 5

Leader: I'll just say a few words (maybe not finished in half an hour) 6Classmates:

After graduation, I often contact (I really don't have contact after graduation) <>

7.Parents: I'll save the New Year's money for you first (once you save it, it's your parents') 8, girls:

Actually, you are very good, but we are not suitable (to put it bluntly, I don't like you) 9. Salesman: I really don't make any money from you, I sell it to you at the purchase price. (It's good if you don't earn two or three times as much).

10. Friend: I will invite you to dinner another day (is there a time limit for this another day?) If so, is it 10,000 years from now? ）

11. Wife: It's okay right away, it's good right away. (Half an hour later.)

12.Husband: How can she be as beautiful as you (does he dare to tell the truth)

I have been deceived by the seventh sentence for 20 years, what else have you been deceived?

First of all, I think that when you are talking to someone politely, you must appreciate the other person, pay attention to what the other person likes, what his hobbies are, what kind of people he admires, and you must show yourself to be generous, and look at him with firm eyes to say, if you say a word in pieces, you feel that you are very hypocritical, then, others will think that it is very hypocritical.

In fact, polite words are a science, many people don't know how to say polite words, and the moment he says polite words, others feel that this person is already very fake, very hypocritical, and a person who is not worthy of being handed over. Therefore, I also think that polite words are a very deep science, and we speak differently in the face of different people. This has to be something that a person with high emotional intelligence can do, what kind of person to see and what kind of thing to say.

In fact, I can't learn what kind of people to meet and what kind of things to say, I'm the kind of person who is more straightforward, and when I see someone I don't like, I don't want to talk, and when I see someone I like, of course I want to say more words to him. But people with such a personality are not concerned in society, and society also wants to eliminate such people, because such a person is always disliked by others, and there is a possibility that he will accidentally hurt the other party. The so-called misfortune comes from the mouth, and this is what it looks like.

If you think the dress is shabby and ugly, and looks like a stall, you can tell him, "Oops! Your skirt is really beautiful, you must have spent a lot of money to buy it, so it fits your temperament. I believe that when he hears this, it is enough not to slap you twice.

Therefore, when you praise someone, you must know his hobbies and know something about him, so that when you praise him, you will not accidentally hurt him.

Also, when you say polite words, you must behave generously, look at the other party with a firm look and communicate with him seriously. If you are absent-minded when communicating with someone, I don't think they will like to talk to you even if you don't compliment them for not saying anything.

I hope what I've said will help you. To sum up, you must appreciate the other person and know the other person's hobbies, so that you can praise him and be able to say polite words to him. Then when you talk to him politely, you must be generous, confident, look at each other firmly, and talk to each other very seriously, in this way, I believe that the two of you will get better and better.

Exaggeration, just don't fabricate the facts.

Polite words are similar to lying, what is the best lie, that is, the truth and falsehood, because the truth is mixed, you will not have to work hard to say, because it is transformed in the real scene, and there can be real feelings, if you know a little bit people will not doubt it, but because of the real part of it, you will believe that what you say is true.

The same is true of polite words, I also read a book on psychology before, and there is such an example in the book, a person, A said, wow, you have such a good temperament, and that person laughs; B said, your legs are very long, and wearing this dress shows that your legs are longer and can highlight your temperament more, and this person will be really happy. Therefore, polite words should not only be exaggerated, but also specific to a certain point, so that people will feel very sincere.

Think about it, if you are praised, do you want the other party to throw you a sentence very insincerely, beautiful, cute, and with a good temperament? Of course not, many people will feel unhappy when they hear these words, for example, you already know that you are not beautiful, and the other party praises you for your temperament, you will definitely feel that this atmosphere is really embarrassing, this sounds very hypocritical, and I really don't want to talk to this person. But some people avoid these with you, and say, you have long eyelashes, I am very envious!

And this is also true, then you will definitely feel very happy, and you look at the tone, this word, very smooth, not hypocritical at all, it is specific to a certain point, which shows that this person really appreciates your aspect.

This book seems to be about interpersonal relationships.,How do I praise people myself.,There should be other skills.,But try to tell the truth.,Otherwise, if you praise the wrong thing.,Both people are embarrassed.,Maybe you'll be hated by each other.。 If you really don't know how to praise people, don't praise them, otherwise if you don't praise them for the time and place, the other party really won't be happy.