At what point did you feel so hard to be a person?

I remember when I was a child, when I came home from school, I saw my mother in the cattle pen, constantly beating the cow with a stick. Because the oxen themselves broke free from the rope and ran to the granary, they wasted a lot of grain and fruit. My mom cried and scolded at the same time:

Why are you wasting food, why are you so disobedient? I stood to the side, looking at the cow with tears in my eyes, and felt so sad. The lifeblood of the bull market dealer Hu, if you hit it, it doesn't understand.

But at that time, I thought it understood, and it stood there motionless, silently weeping tears, willing to be punished. Later, my father told me that the cow was very hungry to break free, and that it had been working a lot lately, but it had not had enough to eat. "At that moment, I felt that the cow was so hard, my parents were so hard, and life was so hard.

Housing prices in Beijing are very expensive, because they are poor, and the rented houses are basements with no windows at all. Cold in winter and hot in summer is the standard configuration of life, and there is a group of newborn mice on the mouse sticky board for dipping mice, chirping and blurring flesh and blood. In winter, it was snowing heavily, and the rats were thrown into the trash can outside, and the little mice were still chirping before they could breathe.

At this moment, I suddenly felt like this nest of rats, abandoned by life, and only powerless struggle. Suddenly, he hugged his head and cried bitterly on the street, attracting passers-by to stop **.

Before getting on the bus, I was a good employee of the company, and in order to earn more money, I worked overtime in the company every day. After getting off the bus, I am a father, a son, a husband, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but I am not the only one. It was only now at this moment, when I sat in the car and listened to the ** smoking, that I really felt my presence.

The moment I got out of the car, I felt that life was so difficult, it was so difficult to be a person, and I really wanted to just stay in the car.

When I was in college, I didn't have anyone to help me with it, so I had to face everything by myself. I was admitted to medical school in the college entrance examination, and I didn't think that my family would really support me to go to college. I don't blame them, they really don't have any money.

There are too many children in the house. There is no money to go to medical school, and it is five years. So I went to a third-rate university, which saw that I had a good score in the college entrance examination and unconditionally applied for student loans and scholarships.

Shift up and let me do it myself. The medical school student office ignored me and was unwilling to give me a file change. It was August, I didn't eat or drink, I ran around the north and south ends of Shenyang, kept changing, and I was still motion sick.

I didn't tell my parents that day either. I did it myself. It was six o'clock in the evening.

I sat on the bus to Shenbei and felt light. I was under so much mental pressure that day that I lost ten pounds in one day.

Right now, divorced, raising children alone, children are still young and did not go to kindergarten, no one to help take care of children, to survive, all rely on themselves. But I told myself to be strong, but I was really tired, and I really wanted to relax and relax myself, so I just gave up. But there are still children, I can't let go of this heart, it's really hard to be a person.

When I gave birth to my daughter after morning sickness, edema, and labor pains, my in-laws asked me to have another boy. The child has been making trouble at night for three months, has a high fever due to milk blockage, does not sleep well every night, the child is in poor health and sick, has no money, eats at his mother's house, is scolded by his parents, and marries badly. When the child was 12 years old, my mother died suddenly, my husband was out of town, and my in-laws never cared about me and the child.

I feel that my life is a mess, and it is really dark.

It was too hard to work on the construction site, and the pay was not high, so I quit. In the past two months, I have been looking for a job in Wuhan and want to change careers, but I have no relevant work experience and no interview opportunities. I looked at our industry, the salary is generally 3000-5000, and there are not many more than 6000.

In addition to eating and renting a house, how much is left in a month? When can I buy a house? When will I be able to marry a wife?

I guess I'll have to borrow from God for a few hundred more years, and I'm really sad.

People live, not only for themselves, but also for the sake of not stopping others", this familiar sentence shows that everyone can not be chic to be themselves, many times, to wronged themselves, hide themselves, to fulfill others, to achieve others.

When you are physically and mentally exhausted, the workplace is unsatisfactory, and you want to give up countless times, think about the current situation of the old and the young, or you still have to cheer up the spirit of 12 points, rush forward hard, and "be yourself" is the moon in the mirror and the flower in the water.

When you want to have a "walk-and-go trip", the children have to be picked up, the elderly have to be taken care of, and the work has to be completed, you have no choice but to find that Mu Ximo can't pull out his legs at all.

People who are chic and do themselves are all people who carry the weight for him, and those who carry the weight to move forward are impossible to be themselves!

Having a father who is sick puts a lot of pressure on me, and my child is in junior high school, and I can't go to class, so it's hard to ask for leave. It's hard for me to face the fact that I haven't done all this.

Of course!

I like to play the glory of kings, sometimes my teammates are very pitted, and I am isolated without anyone's protection, at that time I happened to get up, but being targeted everywhere, I feel so difficult!

People feel this way many times, when they are more vulnerable, when they encounter difficulties and don't know how to solve them. I feel so hard.

This moment of difficulty is something that many people have encountered in life.

Yes! If you don't have a house to live in, you can't afford to buy it, and if you don't have rice, you can't afford to buy it.

Yes, it's okay if you don't want to, but when you think about it, you have a lot of things to do, and you need a lot of money to be able to do it, and you have a headache when you think about it. Still don't want to.

When you hit a wall everywhere and can't borrow money.

There are too many such moments, but usually the reasons are uniform, and there are only a few main ones to sum up.

One weekend, my leader did not rest, and then I was ordered to repair the shoes for the leader, I went out with my shoes, and it took me a long time to find a small shoe repair shop, and then when the boss repaired the shoes, I looked around when I was idle, and found that there was an arm force in his small shop, because I usually occasionally had a convulsive activity, so I still have a little confidence in my own strength, so many years I have only seen an arm force that I can't break, and then I didn't put it in my eyes, I picked it up and prepared to bend it, but it was embarrassing, I used enough strength, and I only bent about halfway, and I was still far from touching each other, and at that moment I felt like a failure, and it was useless to practice for so long, and I couldn't even get such a small thing.

Another time, and my family leaders rarely rest on the same day, we were ready to go out shopping happily, and then said to take the bus, but because I just changed my new home, I am not familiar with the road conditions, so I finally found a bus stop There is no car we want to take, so the leader is of course very unhappy, and the hot day went so far in vain. In that moment, I felt like a failure! If I had the ability, wouldn't I have bought a car a long time ago?

When you go out, you can drive yourself, and what kind of bus do you take!

And then there was last year's exam, when I went to school, I didn't take it so seriously, I paid so much attention to an exam, I felt that I worked harder for this exam than before the college entrance examination, the September exam, I began to review in April and May, and when I was about to take the exam, I took my poor annual leave, just thinking that I could benefit from it for many years when I passed, and as a result, there was a new change in the question type during the exam, and I was caught off guard! Then I thought I could pass at least three subjects, and there was one subject left to work hard in the second year, but after the results came out, I found that I only passed two subjects, and there was only 2 points behind one subject. . . 2 points!!

I felt like a failure at that moment! It's 2 points short of reviewing for so long!! I have to do it again this year, and I don't know if I can get through it.

Although I always feel like a failure, this is not an excuse to be decadent, but rather a motivation to keep trying. Since you feel that you have failed, you have a direction to work towards, so that such failures do not happen again, it is better than feeling like a failure when you have nothing to do!

Or, after working hard, even if you fail, it is at least a failure after fighting once, it is better than failing without even working hard, the former will succeed sooner or later! The latter is self-inflicted, two words: deserved to fail.

1. In fact, people live in the concept of others, and people should adjust their words and deeds according to the concepts of the people around them, so as to protect themselves. While you are influenced by other people's ideas, you are also giving others some ideas, and others are living in your ideas.

2. Feeling very entangled, probably because you value other people's ideas too much. If you think that "to be a normal person" is to be swayed by other people's ideas. You must know that people's concepts will change with different times, environments, occasions, etc., and there is no eternal standard, nor is there a clear standard for "normal people".

That's probably what makes you feel overwhelmed.

3. Imagine if there is only one person in the world, how can it be normal or abnormal? There are all kinds of people in the world, except for a very few extreme people, the vast majority of people, all of them, are different, but they are all normal people, and so are you. The key is to have your own ideals, find your own value, assume your own responsibilities, retain your own characteristics, and bravely go your own way regardless of gains and losses.

In that case, even though others will still have various ideas, they will think that you are you.

It's the same.

You just don't like it to end soon, so do you want a scholarship?

It's hard to be normal, but at the same time it's very happy, and abnormal people don't feel joy, anger and sorrow. I can't feel family affection, I can't feel friendship, and I can't feel the love that everyone wants and everyone doesn't want to get. Normal people can have children, and in the process of raising children, they will experience a lot of different joys, and of course, there are difficulties.

Abnormal people may be able to have children, but they can't feel this happiness! So, live well, live well, and work hard for a normal person! I wish you to find your happiness sooner and at the same time get rid of such unhealthy thoughts soon.

It is difficult to be a man, which means that it is difficult to be an ordinary person. I don't have a heart or lungs to live freely.

I don't know what kind of normal person you are? Why is it so difficult? No one can eat and drink for nothing and get everything they want, and if they have an idea, they can achieve it.

Nothing is difficult, the key is to have a good attitude.

Yes, this is real life, learn to control your own life, don't be lost, learn to understand and be tolerant.

With the passage of time, the edges and corners of myself have been smoothed more and more, and the dream of being myself has become farther and farther away, and now I have calmed down and thought about what it means to be myself, but I found that I have forgotten it. Everyone may have their own content at every age, and when they are young, they are ambitious, but they are too ethereal to be seen or touched. I can't do it if I want to.

After entering the social work, various conflicts of interest made me forget to make a life plan, let alone what I wanted. After having a family and children, under all kinds of work and life pressures, it has become a luxury to be yourself, what is it to be yourself, a free life? Financial freedom?

After slowly becoming numb, I gradually forgot who I was, I was the boss's worker, my son who was worried about my parents' health, and I was a parent who was anxious about the growth of my children. Suddenly found that his role was no longer important.

When you are isolated, when all thoughts are lost, when you are physically and mentally exhausted, when your parents are dead, when no one understands. When love can't help, when is helpless to love, say take care and hide love in the bottom of your heart.

If you want to find a job with the right major, relatives and friends may introduce you to this job and that job, but you don't like it, but people ask, "Then what kind of job do you want to do?" "I can't play one, two, three, at this time, I will be regarded as useless by my elders and will be beaten!

Because you can't lose friends and trust because you can't be quick to talk. You can't lose your temper with your loved ones. The relationship between the people around you needs to be maintained, and you can't insist on going your own way and isolating yourself.

It's really hard and hard to be a simple sentence for yourself. As the years go by, my mood is much calmer. I don't want to worry about too many chores.

I just want to be myself, I just want to live for myself. Just want to be healthy for yourself and your family. Fame, fortune and status are a thing of the past, and I don't want to pursue it anymore.

Everything is with you, everything is with the sky, everything is with fate.

It's really hard to be yourself! Since China's accession to the WTO, its scientific and technological strength has become stronger, and it is difficult for it to gain a foothold in society at this time. The invisible pressure overwhelms you.

Of course, there must be limits to the individual's power; Isn't it a contradiction that society asks for horses to graze and horses to run non-stop? There are bones in the egg, which shows how much pressure there is on employment?

Relying on personal strength, it is difficult to fight a piece of heaven and earth, unless you are an immortal! You have to fight for connections and rely on the strength of your team to make a good living. This society forces you to keep working hard until the last moment of your life, and you may not be able to live the life you want.

Since society is so cruel, it is better to take everything lightly and do what interests you in style. Being a man can't satisfy everyone, so let yourself be satisfied, and live as well as you feel! Anyway, the sky won't fall, and the sun doesn't rise every day, so why be so persistent?

If you don't hit the south wall and don't look back, by the time you hit your head and bleed, it's already too late! ‍‍