What should I do if my boyfriend s family is not good and he doesn t earn as much as you, but he has

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since your parents don't agree, let's break up. Nowadays, everyone is very realistic, and love is based on the economy. Nothing can be done without money.

    Your parents won't cheat you. The closest people in this society are your parents and your parents, you should know this truth, because you are already an adult.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As the saying goes, marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat. Although this is an old saying, it also has practical significance. If you want to get married in the future, and after you get married, you have to have children, if you don't have money, how can you be happy if you live a tight life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You have to make your own decisions about this matter, because if you live well in the future, your parents won't be able to help you at all, not necessarily if you have money, you will live well, there are living examples around me, my parents dragged someone to find a rich man to marry, and they were looked down upon by the rich family.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As a young man, I am the more assertive one, and it is also the one they say is more rebellious, the work is not good, and he is unwilling to work, there is an essential difference between these two sentences, the work is not good because he has no good background, and he has not met a noble person to help him, but as long as he can endure hardships and is willing to work, I don't know if there is a problem! As long as this person is considerate to you, you must not leave him casually, because those who are willing to work always have a chance!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can tell him about it. See how he reacts. If he asks you, then what are you going to do?

    You're going to divide it! If he listens to the resolute opposition, he must marry you. Then be nice with him!

    He will change for you, and when he makes achievements, you will be happy in the future when you get married.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If he is a hard-working and self-motivated person, I will choose to stay with him. Garages can work together to have. As long as you are willing to work hard and persevere, you can say anything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In your values, are cars and houses a must-have for men before marriage? If yes, you should have thought about this question a few years ago, either get married naked, or break up early, and find another man with a material foundation, why delay it until now? Is it the fantasy that a man will eventually own an RV in a few years?

    If so, that is the price of naivety, how can such a thing be expected from others? Now even if you break up, due to your age, it has depreciated in the mate selection market. For you, the question now is whether you dare to bet that you can find the conditions to satisfy you as soon as possible after the breakup, and you are willing to marry your man, and you dare not have to marry naked.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To see whether a person is suitable or not, in addition to seeing how good he is to you, you also need to see whether the person's thoughts and yourself are on the same level, and love without a common language is vicissitudes and boring. Secondly, you need to understand the person's study and family background, some love often starts from beauty, but after all, it can't withstand the trivial things in life. Finally, it is also necessary to understand the person's dedication, self-motivation, and future family and career development plans.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your boyfriend's family background is not good, which makes you stressed, and if the other person is good to you and works hard, you shouldn't give up.

    In the era of material flight, being able to make money can indeed add points to yourself, but the divorce rate is rising. Is it because our living conditions are getting worse, or what is the effect? In the fifties and sixties, everyone was poor, but they rarely divorced.

    Therefore, material conditions are not the only one, and character is the most important thing.

    When two people are together, as long as they are willing to work hard, they will get wealth. That's how the older generation came from, they were poor and white, but they were very diligent and slowly began to get rich. The divorce rate is high in this era, and it is inseparable from character.

    People are real, willing to be diligent and always have a good life one day. Life needs two people to create together, and it is not completely dependent on one person to complete it.

    Working together is to see that you can live independently, without worrying about them, and they won't be too opposed. Parents think about their children, so they have their own ideas. Since the boyfriend is self-motivated and honest.

    Then through the efforts of the two of you, let the parents be reassured, so that sooner or later they will agree with you.

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