Dad cried in front of me, and I still couldn t forgive him

Updated on society 2024-05-20
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe there's a lack of communication between you! Your father must have a reason for doing this, I think! As a child, if your father didn't make a big mistake, then I think you should forgive him!

    Think about how sad it would be if your child refused to forgive you when you were a parent.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your future is your own, not your parents', they may delay you for a while, but they can't delay you for a lifetime. I think you can retake the junior college exam, the key is whether you can untie your own knot. Don't blame your parents, just imagine, when they are a hundred years from now, will you regret making them so miserable today?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Little sister, don't be sad, the past is over, don't think about it, parents must also hope that their children are good, they are also suffering, play a good spirit to dress themselves up beautifully, to find their own real life.

    Believe in yourself. The future is in your own hands.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Daddy expects a lot from you! Not letting you go to me to see is really his decision-making mistake, which didn't let you review!

    What a mistake!!

    But the matter is in the past and there is no way to get it back! Isn't it? He's your dad after all! What a cut you can't pass! Cherish the present! If you want to be filial, forgive him!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find a job. Earn your own money.

    Using the money I earned to get into college seems to take a long time.

    You can take a set of college papers, or something difficult.

    Let's test your dad and let him see what a high-IQ question is.

    Then when looking for a job, it is said that the minimum level of other companies is at the college level.

    What the hell do you mean you don't let me go to college.

    Do you want me to live in the future?

    How will I make money in the future?

    I don't even have a college certificate.

    How to find a knowledgeable and educated wife.

    How will I earn money to honor you in the future?

    I'll buy you something to eat.

    Maybe I won't even be able to raise a son in the future.

    It's all because I didn't get a college certificate! You say yes or no.

    Think about your son's future.

    He can't grow in your arms.

    One day he will spread his wings and fly high and support a family!

    There are some troubled words, you don't need to watch it, and I'm too lazy to delete it).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm just giving you some advice.

    Why don't you think about it from your father's point of view?

    He probably didn't mean to make you sad or anything.

    It is likely that he felt that the junior college was useless and a bit of a waste of time.

    I want you to think about the future and not waste time.

    He could also have been mistaken in the moment.

    He can't be blamed, in short, parents are absolutely good for their children at all times.

    Trust me, make peace with Dad.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, dear, let the sad father forgive himself: Dad, I will never say that kind of thing to make you angry and make you sad, I was wrong, next time I will definitely beg you to give me this chance.

    Please don't be angry, I am your daughter (son) after all, don't you want me to raise you when you're old? Then give him a bouquet of flowers, or give him a gift, apologize to him, and he will be calm, and he will not be angry, and he will be angry.

    Say something that will make the sad father forgive himself.

    Hello, dear, let the sad father forgive himself for his actions: Dad, I will never say that kind of thing again to make you angry and make you sad, I was wrong, next time I will definitely beg you to give me this chance. Please don't be angry, I am your daughter (son) after all, don't you want me to raise you when you are old?

    Then send him a bouquet of flowers, or give him a ruler and a gift, apologize to him, and he will be calm, and he will not be angry, and he will be angry.

    Hello, you must show your sincerity in front of your father, let him know that you have realized that you are wrong, let him understand you, accept you, and naturally forgive you.

    Hello, is it convenient to say what is the specific thing that makes my father sad, so that you can better analyze and answer.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Daddy was definitely not right to do that.

    But as children, we still have to treat them with a grateful attitude, the world will make mistakes, even parents are no exception, but in the process of parents with children, parents have played a very important role, father has been raising you since you fell to the ground, you don't understand anything until now, he has always been a great image, even if you misunderstand you as a father, he may not be able to pull down his face to apologize to you, because he feels that if he apologizes, He will no longer have authority in your heart or in front of you.

    That's why he not only didn't apologize to you, but scolded you in a radical way, but you know, although he is scolding you, he must be very regretful in his heart, you cry, which proves that his approach is wrong, so he will say on top of mistakes, if you cry again, get out, this is also a way for him to maintain his authority, although it is not right, but it is understandable, because in front of you before, he has never made a mistake, and suddenly he made a mistake, he does not know how to deal with it, and it is understandable.

    In fact, the family is not reasonable, the other party is a place to talk about emotions, as long as there is love in the heart, who is right and who is wrong is not so important, once you have to pay attention to right and wrong at home, then you will turn this warm home into Vanity Fair, which will make the feelings between family members become weak, then you will lose the last pure land in your heart, that person is too tired to live, and there is no moment to relax.

    So we should learn to accept things that are difficult to change in real life, and strive to change the people and things that we can change, and be more tolerant of our close people and caring people, if you change this state through a joke, for example, when Dad says you get out, then I really get out, but I don't know how to roll, Dad, can you teach me? As soon as you are coquettish, he will be ruined, and this problem will pass. The problem has been satisfactorily resolved, and everyone is happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The two of you talk about it, your dad doesn't know why you're crying, you don't treat your dad as a family member, you do your own things well, if there is something to tell your family, find a way to deal with it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    But as children, we still have to treat them with gratitude.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You disappointed your dad, yesterday you had a big quarrel with your dad, your dad yelled at you, scared you to cry, and then he apologized to you, but you still left a shadow in your heart, in fact, there is no need for the family to be like this, there is nothing that can not sit down and communicate well, so you must be calm in the future, and you must not have conflicts with your family, after all, they all love you, you are now grown up, you have your own thinking, you have your own way of doing things, you can tell them what you want to do and what you want to say.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Father's love is not lighter than mother's love, and the father represents the rigid side, so the handling of negotiation issues is not so delicate, but the love has not diminished at all. He yells at you, maybe he is in a hurry to stop what you want to do, maybe he has ** the result is not good for you, or maybe he doesn't understand what you are doing, because he is afraid of the unknown, afraid that you will suffer and get hurt. Your dad apologized to you because he realized that he was too emotionally out of control, and because he scared you into crying.

    When I say that I don't care about you, I mean that I won't be too harsh on you anymore, and I will try to let go and let you deal with it by myself, and I won't leave you alone. It is said that the girl is the reincarnation of the lover of the previous generation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Parents are good for their children, 2Your dad apologizes for you, how do you feel?

    3.Some are adults who think long-term, 4It's almost an adult, consider the pros and cons carefully, and your dad will definitely be impressed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Have you made an unforgivable mistake, generally your parents want to manage you to prove that they are still responsible, and they don't want you to regret it when you grow up, you are not young at the age of 19, and you have your own ideas, but please also refer to the advice given by your parents. Because your parents have lived for decades more than you and have more social experience than you, they can teach you many things

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's just a matter of talking, if you get a three-long and two-short one, come out and see if he cares.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I am sure that you disappointed your father this time, and you yelled at you without holding back for a while, you should reflect on this matter, do your own construction, and use this as a lesson in the future, if your father doesn't care about you in the future, you are actually very dangerous.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How can a girl quarrel with her father? Children should be polite in front of their parents. Parents have a duty to listen.

    Doesn't the Three Character Classic tell us what we should do from an early age? I don't think it's your dad who should apologize, it's you. What a responsible father, and at the same time you can see how much you love a father.

    So go and apologize to Dad, be born in a very loving family, and wish you happiness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have a father who loves you very much and is very happy, and you must have done something excessive that made him very anxious and annoyed, so he quarreled with you. In fact, he is very distressed in his heart, so as soon as you cry, he is afraid and regrets scolding you. Pity the parents of the world, can you listen to something in the future and don't let him worry about it?

    He won't stop loving you, and he won't give up on his children.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As a girl, be considerate of your parents' difficulties. Don't always be self-centered, you can really help you when you have difficulties and problems, and only your parents are standing behind you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A parent's love for their children comes from the bottom of their bones. After you calm down, think about whether Dad yelled at you because he loved you and lost control of your emotions. Take the initiative to apologize, good boy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Actually, it's not that I'm completely disappointed in you, for example, yes, for example, sometimes there will be disputes, and then there will be a quarrel, and then there will be a big quarrel, and then your father coaxed you and scared you into tears, and then he apologized to you, saying that he would not talk about you in the future, she might be, seeing that he may be really too harsh, and scared you to cry, especially after blaming yourself. He said that no matter what you said, it was actually a reassuring word.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Parents hope that your son will become a dragon, and hope that you will not waste your time in your youth, and you must study hard and not make your parents sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your behavior has deeply touched the nerve that he loves you, and his expression may not be acceptable to you, but you have to remember that he loves you, and it is that kind of selfless love, his starting point is to be afraid that you will be hurt, you have to understand him, people in this world are the most selfless for you There are only two people who are parents, you are still young, and when you have children, you will experience the difficulty of being a parent, children, listen to your parents, yes, they may be a little inappropriate in guiding you, But the direction will not be wrong, I really hope you are a good child who makes your parents happy!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not just that he can't control it and says something like this, but I think you should take the initiative to apologize, after all, he is your father, and your father has bowed his head to you, so what about you, your head is so noble, if you can't even do this, then how do you know if he is disappointed in you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay for you and your father to quarrel, they are all discouraged, and when they are calm, they understand each other, and when you are a parent, you should talk to your children gently. Don't lose your temper at every turn, parents are role models for children, do things for the sake of children, but children should respect their parents, honor their parents, and obey their parents' arrangements. When a family is together, should they be reunited and happy forever?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's okay for Dad to quarrel a few words, sometimes when Dad is in a bad mood, he will quarrel with you a few words, don't worry about it, when he is angry, it will be fine.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    We must reflect on ourselves, correct our mistakes, be filial to our parents, forgive our parents, and Nan Wu Yao Shi Liuli Guang Rulai.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't make your parents too sad, you should be sensible at the age of 19, if you can't even listen to your parents' advice, who else can you listen to? It is not easy for parents to pull us, when you get married and have children, you will know that it is not easy for your parents, don't make your parents angry, angry and hurt your body and get sick, people must learn to empathize, you are a tree, parents see that you want to grow crooked, help you, although your parents are louder, but you also have to be considerate, your parents are too anxious to be like this, the family is angry for a while, your parents can be humble with you, you also have to admit your mistakes to your parents, there are also your own mistakes, let Dad don't be angry, forgive my ignorance, I must listen to my parents well in the future.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The only ones standing behind you are your parents. Be considerate of your parents' difficulties. Don't always be self-centered, what your dad says is angry, he is also angry with you, there is no parent who doesn't love their children.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You must have done something wrong, or you have different views on the issue. Try not to quarrel, it will hurt the relationship between you and your father. Seriously reflect on who is wrong, and who is wrong and who changes.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Dad said that he wouldn't care about you anymore and wouldn't talk about you anymore, do you think Dad would really do this? The reason why he says this is because he thinks he scares you by yelling at you, in order to calm your emotions. If he really doesn't care about you and doesn't talk about you from now on, you will cry even worse than this.

    Because you are still young and have a long way to go in life, if you encounter difficulties in the process, you will think of your father. Dad is the child's backer, if he doesn't care about you, then your backer will be gone, isn't it a road nose!

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