Why children are always weak in front of their parents

What does it mean to be vulnerable? Why can't children fight their parents? Why fight?

Hitting you is hard iron and not steel! They were very distressed when they fought. When you become a parent, you understand that you can't even understand it now.

Parents always want their children to develop in a good way, so they have a direction in their hearts, and when their children deviate from that direction, their parents will remind them, but children have their own ideas, and in the eyes of parents, these thoughts are rebellious. The two generations have different ideas and different thoughts, and in the end they cause conflicts, the parents get angry, beat the children, the children get angry, and they become real rebels, and finally the relationship between the two sides deteriorates, and it becomes the beating and abuse you said.

Children don't need to fight with their parents, you can try to say what you think, when they scold you, you think it's all for your own good, maybe the method is wrong, patience, parents are angry, and then talk to them about their thoughts. There is no parent who does not love their children, but they may behave differently!

This is a bit of an exaggeration, right?,Most parents aren't what you call the king at home.,Beating is kissing and scolding is love.,Children don't fight and won't beat up.,This word has to be corrected.。 Of course, there are individual cases where when your parents are not highly educated, they can't convince people by reasoning, so they have to hate iron and steel.

Because in the eyes of parents, children are always children.

Nowadays, very few parents beat their children.

It's a beating. I sometimes hit the kids, but it's all pretend.

Because the mother protects the calf, the mother is strong, takes the child all day long, and wants the child to talk about the child to follow her, and the child who is naturally raised is also strong. But this child will definitely have a difficult marriage in the future. Because the shadow of the mother tigress will always grow up with him.

If the mother is strong and the father is cowardly, then the situation in the family is likely to be the mother's decision on big things and small things, and the father has no right to speak and no right to speak. If the father has a strong sense of family responsibility, he may "endure", and if the father has a weak sense of family responsibility, he is likely to "escape". Whether it is to endure or escape, the relationship between husband and wife will become more and more present, one party takes the initiative and the other follows, and even evolves from a "widowed family" in the absence of a father.

If you want to talk about the impact of such a family on your children, you must first talk about the importance of the role of the father to the child's development.

For children aged 0-6, the father's participation will affect the child's sense of security, will affect the child's perception of the role of sexual servant, and the father will also bring the child some personality traits, such as bravery, perseverance, hard work, decisiveness, and will also help the child establish more diverse thinking angles and ways of thinking. For older children, especially those in adolescence, it will be easier for dads to help their children connect with the future world, such as career development, values, and worldview.

If parents are strong, children will be cowardly?

The stronger the parents, the weaker the children are, although not absolutely, but most of them!

Strong parents make their children unconfident. Too many parents feel that being a little stronger can force their children to be confident and brave. Therefore, it is common to see parents who hate iron but not steel pointing at their children's heads and scolding. As everyone knows, the result is that the child becomes weaker and more bulliable.

In history, most of the strong parents who have cultivated are not strong sons, but most of them are weak or even unproductive children, and such examples abound in history books. Wu Zetian is tough enough, he captured Li Tang Jiangshan and proclaimed himself emperor, but her sons are more cowardly than the other, one is more mediocre than the other, and Zhu Yuanzhang of the Ming Dynasty is also a typical fierce father and so on.

Discipline children under the pretext of love. Strong parents often impose on their children what they don't like or don't like in the name of "disciplining their children", which is called "good to him", which invisibly restricts the child's nature and even causes psychological harm to the child. For example, parents are furious with their children, but it is because he is weak and can be bullied!

Indeed, there are many children who unknowingly become the punching bag of their parents.

Strong parents have a more rusty parent-child relationship. Strong parents, who are often in a leading role in society, can easily move this pattern of interpersonal interaction into the home, and the child must obey as long as he speaks. This kind of education can easily make children become weak in the family.

If a child is oppressed by his parents for a long time, his own growth energy will be weakened, and he will develop a fear of his parents and form a cowardly character. So they are afraid of their parents and do not dare to get close to them.

So, as a parent, don't be too aggressive, for the sake of your children, you might as well show weakness. Being too a child is a love without respect, not the love that the child wants. Strong parents in family life, to learn to let go of their leadership shelf, to be close to praise the child, strict rules is when the child does something wrong, to unceremoniously criticize, let the child bravely admit mistakes, this is the true love for the child.

It's hard to say this, often if the son is so weak, the daughter may be stronger, if the parents are strong, there must always be a file He Jujube The child will be to the parents, the son has been so weak, or this sister looks at his brother so weak, he also thinks that the line should not be demolished, he may help his brother, he will become very strong.

When my son is young, his parents will provide him with support and help so that he can get the best environment for his growth. As a girl grows, her parents will give her more love and support to help her make the right decisions and realize her full potential. When she grows up, she can become an independent, confident, and energetic woman to show her talents and achieve her dreams.

My father's strength has caused me to be afraid of troublesome others since I was a child, and I always fight by myself when I encounter problems.

Strong mothers raise children with these characteristics.

The son is more feminine because he is overly cowardly and has no opinions.

Children do not respect authority, as fathers are often symbols of authority.

The mother does too much for the child, and the child is incapable.

The child's life is particularly stressful and has little sense of well-being.

Children are not independent and face life negatively.

The child has a mother-love plot and has very weak social skills.

My father's strength has caused me to be afraid of troublesome others since I was a child, and I always fight by myself when I encounter problems.

Because my father can basically do everything, and if my mother makes a mistake or has something she can't do, my father will help her do it.

But every time my father was helping my mother, he would always say that my mother "can make such a simple thing wrong" and "I can't do such an easy thing".

This creates a feeling that even if you are a husband and wife, you will be looked down upon by each other.

When you encounter problems, you always fight by yourself. Because my father can basically do everything, and if my mother makes a mistake or has something she can't do, my father will help her do it. But every time my father was helping my mother, he would always say that my mother "can make such a simple thing wrong" and "I can't do such an easy thing".

This creates a feeling for me that even if you are a husband and wife, you will be looked down upon by others.

Parents are strong and have a great influence on their sons and daughters, and they are introverted, withdrawn, and stubborn.

Sons and daughters in families with strong parents tend to have more extreme personalities, either being more aggressive or more cowardly.

The stronger the parents, the weaker the children, the more the parents only care about themselves and do not care about their own children, and the children have no sense of existence.