My father in law died for the first seven days, and my daughter in law made a lot of noise at home?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-18
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The first seven daughters-in-law who passed away from their father-in-law were all making a lot of noise at home, which is indeed wrong with the daughter-in-law, but it also depends on the reason for the noise. If you say that it is because of the uneven distribution of property, there is a certain reason for her quarrel, but if you say that she quarrels for no reason. You should call the police to solve the problem and not escalate the conflict.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Even at any time, the daughter-in-law can't yell at home! , the family wants to be harmonious, tolerate each other, tolerate each other, and put yourself in each other's shoes. There will be no contradictions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The ancients had the custom of making a funeral, and it would be okay to make a funeral, and through the funeral, you can vent the resentment in your heart, and you can also understand the reason for her noisy through someone who is better with her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, you said that the old man died for a week, what should I do if my daughter-in-law is making a lot of noise at home, why is your daughter-in-law making trouble, first you have to find out first, and then deal with the problem, so that it is easier to solve.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The father-in-law died, and the first seventh daughter-in-law stayed at home with the sister-in-law, which may be caused by the uneven distribution of property in the family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a daughter-in-law is really ignorant, so let's wait a few days to solve something! It's too unreasonable to make a big fuss with the dead people for time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There must be a reason why the father-in-law's first seven daughters-in-law are making a big fuss, it's best to have a good talk with the family, and solve the matter so that everyone is satisfied.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can ask the reason for the daughter-in-law's quarrel and deal with it well, there is nothing that cannot be handled, and everything must be dealt with.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think well, why do you and your daughter-in-law make a lot of noise, is it because of the uneven division of property left behind after the death of the public?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    God has eyes, don't be too public, there will be retribution...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She can be asked to ask her parents to come forward and do her ideological work.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The father-in-law died, and the daughter-in-law was taboo. When we are in the mourning hall, we are not allowed to cry, and we are not allowed to burn more paper money when we burn it, etc.

    These are actually local customs, and they are different from place to place. So it is advisable to ask the local elders.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What should I do if my mother-in-law dies and my daughter-in-law and father-in-law are angry? This problem, it is difficult for Qing officials to decide family affairs, it should be mutual understanding, the most important thing. Your mother-in-law died, his mood must be bad, and the mood is not good, let's do our best to deal with him, don't be the same as him, even if it's your reason, don't fight with him.

    The old man is older, and it is not easy for him, at home is not a place to talk about you at all, and it is not possible to say that there is no end, as long as others see it, you are a filial daughter-in-law, I think this is enough.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The mother-in-law has passed away, the father-in-law is definitely not in the mood, the daughter-in-law should be treated, don't let your husband be embarrassed in the middle, if you still quarrel after a while, it is best to separate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This daughter-in-law is too ignorant, the old man is an elder no matter what, to be tolerant, if you can't bear it, then keep your distance, talk less, work more, sooner or later he will be moved by your actions, the old man knows that your mind will no longer find fault with you, home and everything is prosperous, tolerate, can endure and be safe.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The mother-in-law died, the daughter-in-law and father-in-law were angry, it is normal, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, there is no family that is not angry, as long as the problem is solved, it is natural not to be angry.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The family has a scripture that is difficult to read, the daughter-in-law must be considerate of the mood of the elderly, the young husband and wife are old companions, the mother-in-law has passed away, and the father-in-law must be angry.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Family life, there is no horse spoon does not touch the edge of the pot, but we have to understand each other, the father-in-law is old, the daughter-in-law is more responsible, the so-called obedient is filial piety.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Find out the reason, you can't just get angry! Everyone takes a step back and looks for their own reasons!! Don't intensify the contradiction, after all, there is a son in the middle, family affection is precious!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your mother-in-law died, well, you and your father-in-law are angry, right? Is it because my mother-in-law died? Is my father-in-law in a bad mood?

    If that's the case, you should, well, mess with him less, try to avoid him, or else, you just see what he likes, you just buy him something, well, and then you should see him, and let him think that he won't be like this after he gets past this hurdle.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you, as a husband and a son, have a role as a pillar in the middle.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    50 is not a big birthday, it can only be called a birthday, so it's best not to toss.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My father-in-law just passed away a few days ago! It's not good to do a happy event.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How could you ask this question, you can see that you don't have any filial piety, and you still want to celebrate your birthday.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I haven't heard of anything special. But one thing is for sure, you will definitely accompany your husband at home to deal with the funeral during the days when your father-in-law is at the funeral.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After the first seven days, you can go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There should be no big move in the first seven days of death, so let's celebrate my daughter-in-law's birthday in a low-key manner.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The dead are great, and the living should be avoided.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Respect the deceased, the 50th birthday can be postponed.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    According to local customs, when the elderly's funeral affairs have not yet been handled, as filial sons, filial women and filial grandchildren, they should stay in the mourning hall to guard the spirit, at least they should not leave home and leave relatives; went, but relatives, including my mother's family, were not welcome. If you need help from your mother's family, such as a child who is still young and needs to be taken care of by her family, you can invite them to come. Even if you want to do this, you should do it after your relatives (relatives, relatives) have gone to report the funeral, and do not act rashly before then.

    In the process of handling the funeral affairs of the elderly, as the "daughter-in-law", that is, the in-laws of the elderly, if the conditions allow, such as the distance is not too far, they should send someone (usually the daughter-in-law's brother or nephew) to attend the funeral or farewell ceremony of the elderly. Of course, it is also after the relatives of the parties take the initiative to report the funeral.

    After the old man's funeral is completed, as a daughter-in-law, she should go back to her parents' house on the day of the old man's "first seven" or "third seven" to "go to filial piety". Before "filial piety", the mother's family should be notified by ** or other means so that they can be prepared. Because "filial piety" must give a little gift, and the mother's family must return the gift.

    "It is not advisable to stay there for too long or even stay for dinner, but to drink a cup of tea and go back as soon as the gifts are exchanged." After "filial piety", you can go back to your parents' home at any time; If you don't practice the gift of "filial piety", you should not go back to your parents' home within 100 days. The same goes for sons-in-law.

    The customs are similar everywhere.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    As soon as this semester started, we had a new Chinese teacher, who was very different, and we all affectionately called her Ms. Zhang.

    Teacher Zhang often combs his ponytail, which looks particularly neat. She has bright eyes, don't ignore them, she can talk, and I am convinced.

    I remember that it was the second day of school, our new Chinese teacher called a particularly timid male student in our class to answer questions, we all looked at the male classmate, his face was red with shame, buried his head very low, we knew that he should cry immediately. At this time, Teacher Zhang looked at the male classmate with her eyes full of expectation and hope, the male classmate slowly raised his head, it was really amazing, the boy suddenly said the correct answer loudly, we were all stunned, and it took a long time to remember to applaud.

    Ms. Zhang likes to ask questions in Chinese class, and often encourages us to express ourselves, as she often says, "If you can speak, you can write a good composition, and you can write how you want to speak, this is the trick of writing essays." ”

    Her teaching methods are flexible, the classroom atmosphere is warm, and her Chinese classes are often full of laughter. She often tells us many learning experiences and methods, she said that the composition in the fourth grade is particularly important, and the composition must lay a good foundation, for this reason, she let us develop a good habit of writing a diary regularly (small practice pen), after this exercise, our composition level has really improved! Some students made a small mistake and even asked the teacher to punish the writing essay, which used to be the most headache for writing the essay.

    Hehe, now you know, our lovely Teacher Zhang is so different, in fact, she won the students with her teacher love, her respect for students, and her sincerity.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    My father-in-law, of medium stature, although he was in his sixties, was very energetic, and he walked like a gust of wind and stood up like a pine. What struck me the most novel was that he had a pair of "magic hands" that were different.

    My father-in-law's "magic hand" is the best at making meatballs, so I'll talk about it below! Once, my father-in-law took the fresh meat foam out of the refrigerator, put it on the cutting board, and began to "process" it with a knife. I saw him chopping horizontally, vertically, diagonally, and from time to time using a knife to fork under the meat foam, and then flipping the half of the fork upwards, and then chopping constantly.

    After the minced meat is chopped, my father-in-law pours it into a small bowl, adds some egg whites and seasonings, and stirs quickly with chopsticks. I said happily, "Father-in-law, the meat foam is so fragrant, and the meat balls must be delicious!"

    The father-in-law said modestly: "Thank you for the compliment." After a while, my father-in-law said

    Okay, it's time to start making meatballs. At this time, my father-in-law brought two spoons and a bowl of water. Quickly scoop up some of the meat foam with one spoon and dip the other spoon in some water, so that the meat foam keeps tumbling between the two spoons until it is very round, and then gently put it into the pot of boiling water.

    After a while, the tantalizing aroma came to the nose. When my father-in-law saw that the meatballs were cooked, he put them in a bowl and leaned his head close to the edge of the bowl, inhaling the strong aroma from time to time, and I couldn't wait to taste one, and while eating, I gave a thumbs up and said, "It's delicious!"

    My father-in-law is so attentive, enthusiastic, and patient ...... everyoneI like my dear father-in-law.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I was a soldier, and my mother-in-law was an elementary school teacher. Today, I'm going to introduce my father-in-law. My father-in-law's face was round, his eyes were big, and his hair was dark and shiny.

    The body is chubby, and the belly is big and round, like a big watermelon. His legs were thick and strong, and he walked majestically and vigorously, like a young man. My father-in-law's voice is very loud, do you know why?

    Because my father-in-law shouted every day in the barracks: "One or two."

    Three, one, two, three. ”

    Once, my mother forgot to bring her mobile phone and called ** to ask her father-in-law to give her the phone. When my father-in-law heard this, he shouted in **: "How did you do it, you can forget to bring your mobile phone."

    After saying that, he immediately rode an electric car and sent it over. My father-in-law is still a nagger. Every time I meet my classmates on the road, I like to ask this and that, ask east and west, and the people who hurt me are embarrassed.

    Students, do you think my father-in-law is verbose and nagging? Still, I like my father-in-law very much.

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