What should I do if my three year old child starts to have difficulty teaching?

About three years old is the first psychological rebellion period of young children, this reaction is normal, don't force him too much, as a parent must be patient, let him say his reasons, or educate him with facts, see if he doesn't listen to his parents, according to his own ideas will happen, especially after he himself is frustrated, but the safety must listen to the parents. It is recommended that parents can listen to the "Love the Child" activity held by Seven Star Tea, one of which is about the "three-year-old life" of children's education, which is given by Feng Dequan, the founder of the "0-year-old program" - the father of contemporary early education in China and Hu Yiqun, a well-known early education expert, if you are interested, you can register online:

Several important points of the upbringing of the 3-year-old child:

1. Character development.

2. Habit cultivation - living habits and study habits.

3. Thinking training.

4. Language development.

How to do it, parents still need to listen to the experts' opinions!

I'll give you a lecture message:

Attached is specific information about the event:

Lecture information: Guangzhou area: No. 326, Huanshi East Road, Yuexiu District, Guangzhou.

1. Theme: [Three-year-old life] Speaker: Feng Dequan Date: 2009-04-11 9:00

1. Theme: [Three-year-old life] Speaker: Hu Yiqun Date: 2009-04-18 9:00

Zhongshan area: No. 162, Anlan Road, Shiqi District, Zhongshan.

1. Theme: [Three-year-old life] Speaker: Feng Dequan Date: 2009-04-12 9:00

1. Theme: [Three-year-old life] Speaker: Hu Yiqun Date: 2009-04-19 9:00

1. Theme: [Aiko Youfang] Speaker: Jing Xiaojuan Date: 2009-04-18 9:00

1. Theme: [Aiko Youfang] Speaker: Jing Xiaojuan Date: 2009-04-25 9:00

1. Theme: [Aiko Youfang] Speaker: Jing Xiaojuan Date: 2009-04-19 9:00

1. Theme: [Aiko Youfang] Speaker: Jing Xiaojuan Date: 2009-04-26 9:00"

This question may seem simple to say, but you can only understand the pain and joy if you really experience it yourself! First of all, you must be able to consider certain issues from the child's standpoint, communicate with the child more, ask the child's thoughts, and use appropriate methods to remind and correct the mistakes in time. In short, I think we should have patience, love, and faith.

That's all I know, hehe!

Isn't there an old saying? Three years old looks at eight years old, and eight years old is set for life. Of course, there are also some places where it is said that three years old is big, and seven years old is old. In fact. This is the relationship between homeschooling and schooling.

Because human character is actually developed before the age of three. Of course, there is also a genetic factor in this.

We are all building up the behavior patterns of a child before he can resist. In this process of building behavior patterns, we always want children to know what is right and what is wrong. As a result, at the same time, the child's cognitive concept is also established.

This kind of concept should not be educated, but nurtured. The child is around the parents and is integrated into the family atmosphere. And this kind of atmosphere can give children a subtle influence.

This influence determines the child's perception. This is the notion of judging whether an action is good or not, or right or wrong. If your child knows for the first time that everyone is allowed to do something, he thinks he is doing it right.

Then his notion is established. After two or three more repetitions. Well, this idea will be deeply rooted in his subconscious.

Equally. If the child does something wrong. You didn't forbid him, correct him.

The child will also think that such things are right. If there are repetitions. A psychological stereotype will be formed.

We call behavioral stereotypes habits. There are two that are usually invisible, one is called Yu Shen to do the perception of the set, and the other is called the mind of the loss. This will make a lot of people not feel it.

Therefore, it is not taken seriously. In fact, selfishness also starts with behavioral habits. It's just that he will develop into a mindset.

So a lot of bad habits. In fact, it was developed before the age of three. So.

During that time period. We have to do whatever we want. Pay attention to your child's every behavior.

Every mistake of this child. It is also important not to allow children to repeat the mistake of cracking. Because we have already understood that the recurrence of mistakes means that a wrong mindset has been generated.

We can call it bias. This time it has caused a lot of trouble for education. There's a saying that goes on.

Prejudice is farther from the truth than ignorance. And all this will be in the child's subconscious, forever. Therefore, before the age of three, companionship is the most important thing for parents, and it is not necessary to be comfortable at all.

This can also be seen in the responsibility and hard work of stay-at-home mothers. You can also see the psychological burden of the elderly who accompany their grandchildren.

After the age of seven or eight, they enter the school education stage. They learn more comprehensively, and their thinking will develop in breadth and depth. At this time, the school environment is the main place of their life.

All they can hear is the sincere teaching of the teacher. teaching, and the flowers of the classmates to talk about. At the same time, I also saw the wider world outside the school.

So to speak. From this time they began to understand the world. And before that they only knew themselves.

Use positive encouragement to help children build good self-worth:

Parents need to take the initiative to teach their children basic values and ways of behaving. In order to facilitate the growth of children in society. Of course, in this regard, example is better than words, and we can be good role models for our children.

It is important to create a good family atmosphere. Therefore, we can't let our children do what we don't want to do, and we can't do one thing ourselves and let our children do another. Only when we lead by example and pay attention to the cultivation of children's values and manners, can we educate the next generation of noble character.

Use the right way to deal with your child's tantrums:

First of all, when your child is having a tantrum, no matter how good his current language skills are, do not try to reason with him. You have to stay calm and even act relaxed. If you raise your voice and escalate your anger, it will only make the situation worse.

If possible, leave him alone. But if you're in public, take him away from the scene as soon as possible, to your car, or to a place where there are fewer people and don't affect others. Secondly, there is one more thing to pay special attention to when dealing with a 3-year-old baby's tantrums:

Never compromise with children at this age, as compromising with children can leave hidden dangers.

2. Do a good job in cultivating children's character

3.Children's personalities are often developed when they are young, and before the age of three is an important stage of frankness, after all, the words "three years old is eighty" are not unfounded. Parents should pay more attention to their children's personality performance at this stage, and when they find that their children often show some negative personality and emotions, they should be properly guided.

4. Tell your child what to do, not what not to do

The condescending posture of the traditional educator always says to the child"No hitting, no eating on the couch", etc., this negative tone will only direct attention and focus on negative behavior; And the child still does not know what good behavior is and what he should do. Positive statements are to use virtue to modify the child's behavior, such as:"You forgot to make peace with people" or"We ate at the table!

5.Make time to spend alone with your child every day and do something that interests both of you

Every child needs to receive enough attention from their parents. Outside of work, we make some time to participate in children's games. Provide your child with a variety of experiences and expose them to as many things as possible.

As the child's listener, supporter, and spiritual companion, parents should respect the child's feelings and accompany the child with a detached and sympathetic attitude when the child encounters setbacks.

There are several ways to educate a three-year-old child:

1. Competition Law. Parents can grasp their children's competitive spirit and carry out a "competition" with their children to see who can do it faster and better.

2. Story method, the characters (animals) in the story are often the "idols" that children imitate or worship. Therefore, parents can provide them with "idols" to emulate through storytelling, and guide their children to learn the characters (animals) in the story, so as to be well-behaved children who understand reason.

3. Choice method, when there are some things that must be done but the child is unwilling to do it, the choice method can be used. The so-called choice is to choose whether the child chooses to "do it first" or "do it later", whether to "do it immediately" or "do it later", Wu Zheng does not want the child to choose "do" or "not to do".

4. Transfer method, the child is disobedient, and sometimes the transfer method can be used to divert the child's attention and interest. For example, if you see a toy and your child wants to buy it, but the adult thinks you shouldn't buy it, what should I do? At this time, parents can use the "transfer method", that is, do not talk to the child about whether the toy should be bought or not, so that the child's attention is unconsciously diverted, and the child will unconsciously forget the idea of buying the toy.

Precautions for educating children:

1. Communicate more with the child, pay more attention to why the child does strange things, the child's heart is simple, everything he does is filial piety for a reason, when you don't really understand the reason why the child does something wrong, don't hit the child, think more from the child's point of view.

2. Pay attention to children's learning life and ideological dynamics. Understand your child's needs, communicate with your child, and be an enlightened parent.

3. Lead by example, set a good example for children, and have excellent parents to have healthy children in all aspects.

4. Encourage and praise the child more, give him more self-confidence, and let him try more, and encourage him to grow up if he doesn't do well.

Don't spoil me. I know very well that I don't deserve everything I ask for, and that I'm testing you by crying and fussing.

Don't be afraid to be fair to me, it will make me feel safe.

Don't let me develop bad habits. At this young age, I have to rely on you to judge good and bad, right and wrong.

Don't make me feel smaller than I really am, it will only make me pretend to be a fool who doesn't match my actual age.

If possible, try not to correct my mistakes in front of people, I will feel very shameful and go against you. You remind it privately, and the effect will be better.

Don't make me feel like I've made a mistake, it's going to undermine my hope in life.

When I say, "I hate you," don't take it to heart. It's definitely not you that I hate, it's the pressure you put on me.

Don't be overprotective of me, afraid that I won't be able to accept some "consequences". A lot of times, I need to learn from painful experiences.

Don't worry too much about my minor ailments. Sometimes, I just want to get your attention.

Don't nag at me, or I'll be deaf and dumb.

Don't make promises to me in a hurry. When you can't keep your promises, I will be sad and I will look down on your promises in the future.

I can't explain things very clearly yet, although sometimes I seem quite smart.

Don't expect too much from my honesty, I'm prone to lying out of fear.

Please don't be inconsistent in the principles of discipline, which will make me confused and lose trust in you.

When I ask you questions, please don't be perfunctory or reject me, or I will stop asking questions and look elsewhere for answers.

The elders in the family brought it up, there are elders who will definitely not listen to you, three and a half years old is not a rebellious period, let him know what it means to be hungry and what it means to be ugly, let him know himself.

Let him develop freely and choose what he likes, but his parents should be role models.

Knowledge transfer and emotional development in games.