Does a woman love the person she likes, or the person who loves her

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love yourself. Although you love him, but it is really hard to pay unilaterally, your heart will be very painful, because his words can hurt for more than 10 hours, you can only hear your own heartbeat, you can't get out of bed and can't move, and the pain is so painful that you even feel desperate and sad. After the pain, I really don't want to love anymore, I'd rather never get married for the rest of my life...

    It's still warmer to be loved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's best to love her, and she loves it too, if you want to choose one of the two, most of them will choose to love her, so it shouldn't be more tiring.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Some people think that they should find someone who loves them to be happier, but who can guarantee that he will always love you more. But love can't calculate who pays more for whom. Some people may think that if they can give something for the people they love, they will be happy.

    Or in the process of getting along, the equation will tilt in the other direction. You can only answer this question yourself, and make a decision that you will not regret no matter what happens in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I love the person I love, it's very painful, it's very hard, but no matter what, I can't accept the person who loves me, so the happiness in my life is a moment of warmth in the pain, if you want to be good to yourself, put the person you love in your heart forever, let him become a memory, women accept that only those who love themselves will be truly happy for a lifetime.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It should be the one who loves her, and it is much more tiring to love than to be loved......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To be loved. Because that's how you can be happy.

    It's better to find someone you love and he loves you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Smart girls always want to be loved!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Being loved is the happiest. At least it doesn't hurt.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I have heard many people talk about this topic, and the conclusion of those experienced women is that find someone who loves you, so that girls will not work so hard, and a person who loves you will be willing to pay for you, no matter what you do, they will spoil you as a little princess.

    What if one day he doesn't love you anymore?

    Loving you is the cinnabar mole in his heart; If you don't love it, it's a piece of mosquito feces that was shot to death on the white wall. Love you, you are the fairy tale Cinderella, put on the crystal slipper, and live happily with the prince ever since; If you don't love, you'll be like a broken beggar, as if you have been abandoned by the whole world.

    People are fickle animals, not to mention that it is natural to like the new and hate the old, how can you guarantee to be loved for a lifetime.

    Women have always been very passive, and even taking the initiative to love someone without being looked at is bold and non-mainstream. He also admonished men that they don't like women who take the initiative, and that if they want to be loved, they have to wait, be reserved, have a good personality, look good, and have a good figure......

    Do you feel that in fact, many women are lambs to be slaughtered on the board, or delicately placed goods in the store, and the person who buys you is a businessman wearing a love mask.

    The fate of a passive woman is always dominated by a man, and if he is good to you, he is a good life; When you meet a scumbag, it's bad luck for a lifetime.

    This is also the main theme of the fate of Chinese women in China for thousands of years.

    This is also why those experienced women say, choose a man who loves herself. Because they are the crystallization of traditional Chinese Confucian culture, they have never controlled their own destiny, and they do not believe that they can control their own destiny, so they give their lives to men, and they are more assured that whether they live well or not is fate, and they do not have to be responsible for their own lives.

    Only when a woman knows how to be like a man, take responsibility for her own life, know that there are no shortcuts in life, you must work hard to get what you want, and you can talk about love on an equal platform and be truly respected.

    If you love yourself, choose someone you love, love him, you will do anything for him, you will be happy. When you don't love him, you can also walk away with it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Like is to be attracted to the other party, and love is to change for the other party.

    Everyone is the same, and when they are attracted to each other, it's just a simple liking. No matter what you like about the other person, you have a good impression of him in your heart. Regardless of whether you are in love or not, if your attitude towards each other has always stayed at that kind of good feeling, staying at the level of being attracted to each other, then you have only liked him from beginning to end.

    And if you have a good impression of him and have a mind to change for him, that is love, and it is love that is upgraded from like. The reason why I want to change for each other is because I want to be with each other for a long time.

    Clause. Second, I like to be with him very much, and I love very much to live with him.

    If you like someone, no matter what you like, you will want to be with him, you want to see him, you want him to be by your side, you just want to be together. And loving someone is different, not simply wanting to be with him at the moment, but wanting to be with him for a long time, wanting to live with him, not just talking about feelings, and not just wanting him to be by your side, you will want to be by his side, than simply liking has an extra layer of active paying.

    Clause. 3. I like to only focus on the present, and love will think of the future.

    Like a person, the focus is always only on the moment, laugh when you are happy, make trouble if you are unhappy, although this state is very good, but it is not the same as love. Loving someone will not only pay attention to the present, but also think about the future, and will think about whether two people can always be happy together, happy and laughing, but unhappy will not be too noisy, because there is an extra layer of tolerance and understanding.

    Clause. Fourth, like is joy, love is moved under joy.

    Like someone is a simple joy. And loving someone is the joy of moving, you will not only be moved by the other person you have met, but also by the other party and your own efforts. So, Little Bear, whether a woman likes you or loves you, just look at these four points.

    It's a feeling to like someone, it's a touch to love someone:

    I was always caught off guard when I met him, and I liked him, so I felt that the moment I met, I was amazed by the time. If you don't like him at all, even if he is very handsome, she doesn't want to take a second look. Everyone's appearance is different, some people are ugly, but ugliness is the opinion of a certain part of the people, only the person who likes him, never thinks so.

    Like someone, just like the lyrics in a song: follow the feeling, grasp the hand of the dream, the blue sky is getting closer and more gentle, the mood is as free as the wind, and suddenly I find a completely different me.

    Loving someone is no longer about following feelings, but putting love into action, proving that you love him with actions, moving him, and never caring about gains and losses. For example, for the sake of love, he gave up the job he liked, and he was willing to endure hardships with him; If you leave your family, you are not afraid to marry far away.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, women like this, girls like boys to be nice to her and care about her.

    It is because girls will want someone to spoil her and love her, and in the relationship, the attitudes of men and women are different, relatively speaking, men are more extroverted, while women are introverted, reserved, and not good at expressing themselves.

    But when she meets someone who really likes her, her attitude will also change, she may have been reserved before, she will be more active now, she may have been indifferent before, and now she will be more enthusiastic, but this is all because she is afraid of missing the right person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Women especially like the way their lover cares about him. There is no doubt about that, including my own experience. Therefore, if you love this woman, you should care about her well, and the two will interact and communicate more together to have a long-lasting relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Women love beauty very much, and of course they hope that the person they like can think that they are beautiful and can cherish themselves. In the eyes of his lover, he is the brightest and the loveliest. That's why women are willing to dress up and be beautiful.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think so, if a girl likes a certain guy, then she must hope that the other person cares about her. When she knows that the other party cares about herself, she will feel very happy in her heart. I think no matter who we are, we all feel that we only care about what someone thinks if we like someone.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, for sure, every woman loves his lover and is able to care about the way he looks, the way he looks nervously. Therefore, men should show their love in time and not hide it in the coconut.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Every woman likes to be like this, because her object, her girlfriend, when she cares about herself, she is really sweet in her heart, and she is very happy to enjoy this feeling.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Definitely. Every woman needs to find security from the other person in love, and the more you care about this woman, the more security she has. So if you like her, then care a lot about him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ordinary girls should be able to do it, because the person who can be loved cares about it is also happy, which means that the other party really loves herself.

    Girls like to be cared for and have the feeling of being loved, so they will have a sense of security, so as a boy, you still have to be nice to girls.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    We girls really like others to show that they care about us, because girls' sense of security is very low, others care, others are jealous, and they can only deepen this sense of security.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girls are like this, once you find that you don't like his appearance a little, he will notice it, although he especially likes the way his lover cares about him, because in this way, he will feel that he is growing up in sorrow, and he has someone who will protect him, pamper her and tolerate her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As a woman, I come to this question, if I fall in love, I won't care about his appearance, the premise is that I am in love, because you have recognized his appearance, you may say that appearance is very important, I also think it is more important, and I want to look comfortable as the premise, but the sense of responsibility and self-cultivation are more important.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, they will dress themselves up very beautifully, they will care very much about the boys' evaluation of them, and they will ask the boys from time to time if she looks good today, and the boys need to spoil the girls properly, and the girls will be happy all day.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello. Personally, I think so. Many girls especially like the way the boy they love is nervous for her, probably because they see the boy who cares, they will feel the love of the other party, and then feel warm in their hearts, and even have a feeling of happiness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Women like their lover to care about her very much, which will make girls feel that they have met the right person, their position in their lover's heart is very important, she is the happiest woman in the world, and her lover cares about her, which will make women feel very secure, and they will love each other more and give everything for each other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, every woman hopes that the person she loves cares about her very much, and she also hopes that her lover can show it, so that everyone knows that her lover cares about her very much, so that the woman will be very satisfied, in fact, the woman is not very demanding, as long as she is sincere.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I like it very much and need it very much, if she can feel that the other party thinks she is important, she will feel very secure, so if a man really loves a woman, he should take the initiative to express and act more, don't hide it in his heart, she can't feel it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If a man has no primitive impulses towards you, only a desire to protect, then it is possible for him to only treat you as a sister. However, once a sense of responsibility arises, you have weight in his heart. If any woman can inspire a man's desire to protect her,

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes. When a woman likes a person, she also hopes that the other party loves her very much, cares very much about him, can take the initiative to care about him, and selflessly pay for him so that they will be happy together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Women especially like their lover's appearance when they care about him, and only when their lover praises each other's beauty can he be very happy in his heart and make him feel safe.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I like it very much, most people in this world have vanity, and vanity is generated most of the time in getting along and comparing with others, and the lover cares that he can not only harvest warmth from his lover, but also give others a feeling of being more popular.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Women must want to be cared for, cared for by the people they like, what woman doesn't want to get, to have a person she likes and someone who likes herself.

    It's normal to be around and be very happy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Not only women, I think all people especially like the way their lover cares about her, because only when they are cared for will they feel that their efforts are meaningful, otherwise they will be very sad.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    That's right, many women especially like the person who loves him and cares about her appearance, because the person who loves him cares about her very much, and she will also have a sense of security, so that she can repay your love and be happy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course, women care about their appearance, especially in front of outsiders, but in front of their lovers. I guess I don't particularly care about it, because, if my lover dislikes his appearance. Then I wouldn't have been with myself in the first place.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think everyone likes it, 5 men and women like it, I think there is one person who cares about me, and he always thinks about me, this must be a very happy look, I must like it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It cares, because many women want to show their best side to the person they love, such as buying a dress, she thinks it's good, she will wear it on her body to show her loved one, and ask her how the person she loves thinks.

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