Let s talk about it, are you used to facing your parents partiality?

It's been like this since I was a child, and I can't say that I'm not used to it. But there is always a way around it. It's actually very simple, talk to your parents about your opinions, let them give you ideas, and let them understand your feelings, after all, you are also their own flesh and blood.

Be more tolerant and understanding, brothers settle accounts, some accounts are really not clear, and they all say that brothers only have this life, and there is no afterlife, cherish more.

I always felt that my parents were partial to her, but she felt that my parents were partial to me. Of course, we're fine. But now when I go home for the Chinese New Year, my mother will always say, you went to college and spent a lot of money, so in the future, you will have more money for your sister, and don't ask for money if you can earn money.

Although I didn't want to ask for the old couple's money, I still felt uncomfortable listening to this. Therefore, it is confirmed that your parents love you, partiality is also confirmed, and it is also appropriate to be uncomfortable, as for habit, you will never get used to it, but you have learned to look down.

Well, there's nothing I'm not used to, it's been like this since I was a child, and it's also because of poor family conditions, and when I grow up myself, my children should never be partial.

I feel okay, after all, all ten fingers are long, and it doesn't matter if it's a little eccentric.

First of all, there is a comparison, and there will be a good and a bad one! So in fact, no matter what the old man is, the child will have more or less ideas, but they don't care! Moreover, there are indeed very partial, but such things are really not good to comment on!

No matter how fair you are, if your children want to compare, there will be a difference!

I am the eldest in my mother-in-law's family, and both parents believe that the boss should suffer, taking care of your parents is your responsibility, and you have to take care of your sisters, and when you encounter difficulties, they feel that you are omnipotent, and you don't need help at all, this is how I persevered, it's no big deal, as long as you have good thoughts, know how to repay your kindness, and be filial to your parents, the future days will be better and better!

Seeing this problem, maybe everyone has it. But what do you do about it? How do you understand that?

In fact, children are the hearts and minds of parents, and every child is his favorite. But how can a bowl of water be leveled? He will have a measure in his heart.

are their own children, as long as there is no excessive partiality, parents you will always have to be filial to her, don't worry about this matter.

In fact, I also feel that my younger brother needs a little more care, and I can still accept such partiality.

Parental eccentricity.

baiTo understand the hardships of the father and mother, it is just that the reality is that zhi does not allow dao

In fact, every parent wants to have a bowl of water.

1. No matter how much parents claim that "the palms and backs of the hands are meat", eccentricity is absolute, which is human nature.

2. Some parents prefer children with similar personality traits to their own, because the child has his own shadow (biological self-identity); Even, some parents prefer that they can take care of their children more in old age.

3. But no matter what, people who have brothers and sisters must have a lot of such as younger siblings being bullied, and older siblings rushing out to protect them; or do bad things together, protect each other, and hide from their parents; Precious memories such as helping each other in adult life.

4. Parents are not perfect, and brothers and sisters also have their own temperaments, but blood and family are still the warmth we can rely on in the most difficult times.

You must know that every child has his advantages and his shortcomings, and the reason why parents are biased must be that the advantages of a certain child will be particularly liked by him, and the shortcomings of another child will be particularly annoying to him, so such a mentality of eccentricity will be formed slowly. Therefore, parents should look at the advantages of their children, and don't always see those shortcomings, after all, no one in this world is perfect, and people will have shortcomings. Only in this way can they slowly change their attitude towards their children.

Eccentric Bai parents, Huang Gai who can't wake up. Du This is an old saying. Nowadays, human beings have evolved, and the version pays more attention to the quality of life of their own individual rights, which leads to the unhappiness of children's survival will cause dissatisfaction among children, and even lead to parents not dying well.

If you don't get the love of your parents, you will definitely have complaints, and parents should be prepared, as for what steps children do for their parents, I don't think there should be any requirements, it depends on how deep the parents' oppression of their children. Ignore them when you are angry, and relieve your anger. When you're in a good mood and feel that you can forgive them, you can walk around.

Give your parents a chance, if your parents are still the same, obsessed. There is no gravitational pull between each other, so they can only go farther and farther away. Your parents can't kill you, and you can't kill your parents.

This family is not because of the elders, so let him lie.

When encountering eccentric parents, how to deal with them correctly when they are daughters?

Parental partiality is normal for people, and it is not allowed.

du can really do a bowl of zhi water is flat and not biased. When we become parents, it is impossible not to be partial. Parents are just ordinary people, and ordinary people will make mistakes.

But after all, our parents gave us life, and the grace of birth and nurturing is more important than Mount Tai, and we must learn to be grateful.

My family is the same, my parents are partial to my sister, I give my sister more red envelopes for my children during the New Year, and I don't care much about my children, but every time I only cry poor, my sister says that she is rich when she gives money, what should I do when I meet such parents? My parents were stubborn and didn't listen to a lot of things.

Those people have been retributed, God will not be partial, she will favor those who are hurt! Thank God!

I was the most important, I was only three years old when my sister was born, I was in kindergarten, my sister was born that day I was in school, the whole family left me out in the cold, our school ended at five o'clock in the afternoon, I played with the security guard uncle in the security room until nine o'clock in the evening before they remembered me. Oh, these eccentrics, there will be retribution.

I was devastated about my father's and mother's treatment of my source behavior, the year before last I sent tea to them, they disliked me for sending tea badly zhi let me take it back, the New Year's dao did this to me, I tried hard to say let stay, they sent a knife over a sentence, not to stay is not to stay, this year is even more outrageous, the second year of junior high school passed in the rain, set up a bureau to dry our family was watching TV, eating by ourselves, our family was starving, is there a person like me, the problem son-in-law is also chosen by them, what should I do.

My grandfather was a child who was biased towards his younger brother and never considered my feelings. Sometimes I think: am I his own granddaughter, also your grandson, why do you do this to me, what do I owe you in my last life?

I would hide under the covers and cry every night, hoping that he would treat my brother and me fairly, but I didn't dare, for fear that he wouldn't admit it, and he thought it was good for me.

My husband is also eccentric, he always thinks that the daughter who marries out is better than his son, but every time he is sick and hospitalized, he has to find his son and daughter-in-law to serve them, and now he asks his son to vacate the house for him, and I can't vacate it now, what else can I do.

It is normal for parents to be eccentric, and there are still lengths and shortages of ten fingers, but it depends on what kind of eccentricity method, and it is necessary to discuss and communicate with children in major matters, because the family and everything is prosperous, if it causes family conflicts, when the elderly are a little too much, you can be eccentric, but you must be sensible and ......

We are also partial, and when we get married, we will be outsiders, and all the real estate will be our younger brothers.

Then it depends on the extent to which your parents are biased and how much you can bear. If it is a white house, Du pension problem, zhi

We need to fight for fair treatment by the DAO. Don't be too patient, you must know that relatives are also good and bullied. The partiality of parents, as they grow old, karma will be reflected in them, wait and see.

That's how my parents favored my younger brother and either beat or scolded me.

Born in the family.

In the face of this, how should we treat the parents with eccentric eyes, don't care too much about the behavior of the parents, especially when they are eccentric, you can choose to ignore them.

When you can't ignore their eccentricity, try to avoid being in the same place with them and stay away from them.

In daily life, try to avoid conflicts with them and let yourself not be influenced by them.

If there is a conflict, try not to refute it, because they are already partial, and no matter how much you say, it will be useless, it will only increase their harm to you.

Adjust your mindset and when you hear them say something unpleasant, take "left ear in, right ear out".

method, do not go to the heart.

If you really can't adjust, go out and walk so much to let yourself see more of the world, talk to friends, and relieve the depression in your heart.

In fact, I may feel very angry at first, but when the anger is gone, I think that after all, it is my biological parents, so everything can be forgiven.

A bowl of water is uneven. Those who say this are generally the children of the elderly in the countryside, and they accuse the old masters of favoring this one child but not that one. It should be said that in the countryside, this phenomenon is very widespread.

The main reasons are the following three points. The first reason is that absolute fairness does not exist, not only the elderly in rural areas, but also ourselves, cannot achieve absolute justice. Some people are leftists and like equality; Some people are right and like to be free.

But no one is absolutely centrist, and you have to be highly knowledgeable and partial.

The second reason is that the elderly in rural areas generally have several children, and the personalities of these children are different. In the past, there was such a saying, "The boss is stupid, the second is sharp, and the naughty and mischievous number is the third". For the old man, he may like one personality and not the other.

Correspondingly, he will like children with this kind of personality.

The third reason is that when the children of the elderly reach adulthood, they always have to "separate". And in the process of separation, it is inevitable that there will be unfairness of one kind or another. In the past, when we were working collectively, when everyone shared the grain, some people would complain that they looked relatively small, let alone divide the family?

Rural people do not hide their affairs and have to express any complaints, which can easily cause discord between brothers and sisters.

The above three reasons can be said to summarize several possibilities for the phenomenon of "uneven end of a bowl of water" in rural areas. But I still think that we just need to do our own thing, and there is no need to compare between brothers and sisters. Because no matter what, a harmonious family is the backing of a person's career, right?

Not all parents in this world will sincerely love their children, if a pair of parents have more children or are affected by various old concepts such as patriarchy, then it is difficult to balance the bowl of water between children, and it is inevitable that they will be partial to this and snub that! For eccentric parents, there is no great feeling in personal growth and life, because although the parents have a son and a daughter, they have never had the idea of preference for sons, have never been partial to anyone, and have never treated them equally! So how terrible is eccentric parenting?

First, we often see such terrible eccentric parents in film and television dramas, such as Fan Shengmei's parents in "Ode to Joy" are extremely eccentric, in the play, her parents have been relying on her to fund the daily life of the family, but they turned around and took the money to help Fan Shengmei's indisputable brother and sister-in-law, and even the funds for the down payment of the brother and sister-in-law to buy a house and the children's daily life and education expenses were borne by her as a weak woman, and all this she did was taken for granted in the eyes of her parents. The eccentric parents never cared about how the daughter who worked hard alone in Shanghai lived, but they just gnawed on their daughter's "blood and bones" and kept squeezing her life, so that she was still single at the age of thirty! Such eccentric parents are really terrible, since they can't make a bowl of water, why bother to have children? In fact, what is terrible is not the oppression of life, but the evil side of human nature!

Second, in fact, eccentric parents also abound in real life, we often see various reports of this kind on TV or online platforms, especially for patriarchal parents, girls are not taken seriously, and even at the moment of birth will not be abandoned! Giving birth without raising or educating is like throwing away one's own biological child like losing a piece of clothing, this kind of behavior is really terrible!

Eccentric parents can lead to children turning against each other, and it can also affect the relationship between parents and children. It will affect the child's character, it will affect the child's life, my parents are not partial, and they are especially fair to our two sisters.

Eccentric parents will cause a shadow on their children's psychology, make them feel uncared for and not have enough sense of security, which is not conducive to their establishment of a correct outlook on life and values; My parents were not partial, and both my parents were very nice to me and my brother.

It will make a child feel particularly inferior in life, especially cowardly, insecure, especially distrustful of himself, and will also feel that he has no warmth in life. There will be no eccentricity.