Have you ever been with you every day, but you couldn t be a close friend?

I play with myself every day, but I just don't make friends, there are also such friends, because there will be many such friends, because we are always surrounded by those kinds of friends, full of all kinds of different relationships, but there really seem to be very few people who can really make friends.

In short, I have a few friends who have made friends with me, but there are also several who just go out to play, just when they are eating, drinking and having fun, everyone is quite happy together, but in this aspect of dealing with people, I really don't agree with their approach, so these things related to the economy and career development, I have nothing to do with them.

There must be friends who don't make friends, playing together every day does not necessarily become a good friend who can make friends, friends are actually in many directions that can make us feel very at ease, sometimes play together every day, work together every day, eat together after work, these friends are not able to become friends with us, but they can just become friends, so it doesn't matter whether there is a heart-to-heart relationship, the important thing is how you judge these friends.

Some friends feel that there are not many friends, but it is true that these friends have also given themselves a lot of help, for example, when they are bored, they can still call these friends to sing a hi, and it is okay to have a heart-to-heart friend, but it is necessary to meet, and sometimes you can't meet a few friends who can make friends in your life.

It can only be said that those who play together every day are not necessarily friends who really make friends, but if you meet friends who can make friends, then you must cherish them, and you must know that these real friends are not easy.

In fact, if we want to make friends, we must find something that we can really get along with. Actually, there are people with whom we may live for some reason, but they are really not suitable to be our friends. In fact, when it comes to making friends, we actually have certain choices.

I remember that when I graduated from college, I chose a classmate to share a house for some reason, but my relationship with this classmate was not particularly good, we actually just lived together every day, but we were always in our own rooms. Probably the most common thing to say every day is to ask him when he gets off work, if he needs to bring him some food, etc. Sometimes, it may be because of a vacation or something, so you may go out for a meal or go shopping.

We may not really be friends with each other, because there are many differences in personality. I didn't really treat it as my friend. At this time, don't have a lot of thoughts in your heart.

Because you and him may only be called an ordinary relationship, and then the two of you can live happily together, there is no need to think about it so much.

Actually, that's how I've been living with him, and there's no big conflict between us, and I feel good about it sometimes. Because two people don't have different personalities, we can not be friends, we can do the same thing. As long as there are no contradictions between you, any kind of relationship can actually get along.

Because we don't force ourselves to have so many friends in our lives, we just need to find a few who are true to us. Because some people are not suitable to be your friends, then there is no need to force it, we just need to live comfortably in our own lives.

Some people say that you don't need to have many good friends, just one is enough. There is a caring good friend who can talk and do things together, and you can also ** each other's little secrets. Good friends are an indispensable part of a person's society, and if a person isolates others and does not make friends, then this person is also unpopular among the crowd.

Some people have been together for a long time, but they have similar interests, and they will always hit it off and become good friends. However, some people are different, even if they stay together for a long time, they may not be able to become good friends, because people do not communicate with each other, do not confess, and sometimes there are intrigues.

I have had such an experience before, that was the first time I worked in a small processing factory, because the first time I entered the society, I had a blank understanding of everything, and I couldn't avoid encountering walls everywhere and being difficult everywhere. Since I have just gotten out of school and have just come into contact with a new environment, I will inevitably rely on some old employees. I remember there was a girl my age, because we were the same age, and the boss put us in the dormitory and put us in a group to work, so we would be together from morning to night, in and out.

At first, I wanted to find a spiritual sustenance, and I wanted to have a working friend to be a partner outside, so I would take the initiative to chat with her and tell him some interesting things, including the customs of our hometown. Sometimes the snacks or supper she buys will be shared with her. But she was a girl of few words, answering whatever she asked, and never taking the initiative to talk to me.

Gradually, our relationship became estranged, and we would not talk to her about our hearts, and we would never talk heart-to-heart again. I felt like she was a loner girl, and she was withdrawn at heart, because her relationship with anyone remained like a constant one. I stayed in that factory for more than a year, until I left it, and that's how she always was.

We didn't have much contact when we were at work, and we haven't been in touch since I left.

Doesn't that mean that my roommate and I live together every day and chat, but in the bottom of my heart I don't feel like we've become friends.

If it is said that making friends only takes a long time to fall in love, and staying together long enough to become intimate, it is too easy. My roommate and I have been living together for more than two years, and although we know each other's habits and spend a lot of time together in class and dinner, we have never felt that we have become inseparable friends, and many times we don't tell the truth.

I've also thought about why other people's roommates can travel together, and I get a big head when I think about going out shopping with my roommates, which is probably the so-called mismatch.

First of all, our consumption outlook is different, my roommate is from the countryside, of course, I don't have any sarcasm, but the consumption outlook is really too different, and many times there is no way to communicate. For example, in cosmetics, my roommate said that he wanted to buy a bottle of foundation, let me recommend it to be easy to use, I said that the RMK I was using was not expensive and easy to use, and a bottle of foundation liquid of more than 300 yuan was really not expensive in the cosmetics market, but my roommate may not know that there are more than 10,000 foundations in the world, and began to say that I am trenched, spending money lavishly or something, I am really wronged, I am still a slum girl.

In addition, the roommate prefers to discuss social news with everyone, but her views on the news are always too shallow, often believing what Weibo says, and what she says is simply the truth. Sometimes I point out that this is not necessarily the case, and that society hides a lot of things, and she thinks that I am playing tricks, and that I am showing that everyone is drunk and I am sober. How do you say I have a roommate like this?

Now I am relieved that not everyone can be friends when they stay together, and some people are destined to keep their distance, and there is nothing to regret.

It is said that people will have feelings for a long time together, of course, it may not be love, it may also be friendship, but some people may not, for example, in the workplace, we deal with these colleagues or partners every day, but they are still strangers inexplicably, and even have the possibility of becoming enemies, so why do some people stay together every day, but still can't become friends? I don't think I can escape these reasons:

The company may be our own choice of applicants, but colleagues are the staff selected by the human resources department, and will not be interviewed because of our likes and dislikes, so we are all a service staff in the entire workplace, all we need is this platform to make money commissions, but it is likely that everyone is not a type, and even there are opposing concepts, which is an inevitable possibility, we have no choice in this circle, we can only adapt to ourselves.

So those greetings or smiling faces are just polite responses, it doesn't mean that you really appreciate and recognize each other's words and deeds, to the greatest extent you are just colleagues, once someone leaves, it's just a stranger, and after many years, the maximum is just to remember that person is called a "former colleague", so although such a person is with us every day, it can't upgrade the friendship at all.

The workplace is like a battlefield, in the working environment it is inevitable that there may be a conflict of interest or competition for positions, each with their own ability, ** also scruples about what face and scale, everyone is not because of like-minded people to get together, but through work in exchange for the cost of living, let yourself live a better life, is the so-called know people know the face of the concept of not knowing the heart, so everyone instinctively has a heart of self-protection and defense, full of their own goals and profits, people are self-interested, when their interests are threatened, How can you have a good impression of this person and have the possibility of becoming friends.

Making friends is about like-mindedness, like-mindedness, and gathering like is the inevitable connection of the circle, but the workplace is different, although everyone gathers in this circle, but only because it is a money-making platform. Perhaps we will be polite and tolerant on the surface, and we will not have the same bad temper as our friends and relatives, because we understand that any words and deeds with strangers will have a price, so we will be cautious.

The difference in the three views under different backgrounds, different backgrounds, and different education levels makes it difficult for us to meet and communicate every day, but it is difficult for time and distance to match them into friends, because we have too many spiritual differences, and we can't integrate together at all.

Sometimes it's not that there is a problem in the circle, but that the way of doing things and communicating with them is not appropriate enough, don't care who you are, don't know the boundaries, and often say some inappropriate words at inappropriate times, you will always offend people invisibly, especially in the workplace, there will be more taboos, so the workplace is not that you can't make friends, but that there is a problem with your own value and way of doing things, most of us will define it as this kind of person with low emotional intelligence who offends others, even if you really pay, you can't become a friend.

Because they don't have a heart-to-heart, to become friends, you need to get into each other's emotions, and people who don't have a heart-to-heart can't become friends.

Because the personalities are incompatible. Being together every day doesn't mean anything, good friends should be suitable in all aspects.

I think the main reason is that such people don't know how to communicate, so they will have a gap between each other and can't make better friends, so they can't become friends.

Being together every day doesn't mean anything. The key is to see why you are together, what you do together, and what you say. It also depends on the other person's age, gender, job, and social status, because these factors determine the purpose for which he or she chooses to be with you every day.

Every human action is purposeful, whether it is for the pursuit of spiritual enjoyment or material possession. It's the same with making friends, either you feel the same values and pursue a sense of identity; Either pursue material gains; Either pursue emotional resonance. Learn to discern with a prudent eye before deciding how much you want to associate with him.

Hope it helps!

Being together every day doesn't have to be friends.

In fact, friends are a very wonderful existence, not family affection, not love, but friendship. Everyone needs friends. Being together every day is not necessarily a friend, just like if I am in a classroom with someone every day, together, but we can't be called friends, some introverts don't even say a few words, so those who are together every day are not necessarily friends.

As for the possibility that it is nothing, it depends on the situation, I don't know what you are referring to, and I don't want to talk nonsense here.

However, allow me to speculate wildly, are you nice to others or what, and then the other party doesn't take you seriously?

If so, I hope you can see it as soon as possible, in fact, the relationship between people is difficult to deal with, and if you leave it to time to wait and see, sometimes you will get unexpected surprises. Communication is also very important, there may be some misunderstanding, some people do not know how to express their feelings truthfully, pay more attention.

Hope it helps, and I wish you no more troubles.

Listen to Zang Tianshuo's "Friends".

Nothing is for a lifetime, because no one knows what will happen in the future, what I can do is to cherish what you have in front of you, take care of this friendship, no matter what the final result is, at least there will not be too many regrets in recall, I believe that true friends will always accompany you :

1.The one who gets you out of the trough when you're sad and sensitive.

2.Someone who laughs with you when you're happy.

3.Remind you of people who are not proud when you are successful.

4.Someone who gives you confidence when you encounter setbacks.

5.Someone who helps you in time when you need it.

6.and those who do not forsake thee when thou hast been rich or poor.

Remember: a true friend is generous, and the person who accompanies you all your life is your lifelong wealth.

You can play together, make trouble together, take responsibility and share together, and don't account for too many gains and losses.

A true friend is someone who can share your pleasures and responsibilities, who can think about what you think and who you reach.

Remember to cherish and be grateful.