What do you think is the hardest thing in your life?

In life, I think the most uncomfortable thing is death, especially in the face of your favorite relatives, closest friends, favorite lovers, death is such a painful thing, we face death, no one can do anything, even if you have a thousand kinds of good, see your beloved away from you, but you can't do anything, nothing can be saved, you can only accept these cruel results silently.

I remember when I was in junior high school, I faced death for the first time, and it was a relative of mine who died, and at that time, I didn't seem to understand what death was, I only knew that maybe I would never see that person again, but it didn't matter, wasn't there still **? It wasn't until I grew up that I realized that when I miss someone, ** can't help you solve anything, her voice, her movements are gradually blurred in your mind, but you hate yourself for forgetting.

You can't do anything, even if you really want to recall, the voice when she called you, think about it, the temperature when she touched you, but no matter how you remember, these things still leave you silently, you begin to feel the cruelty of this world, it turns out that some people really don't have it when they lose it, this may be the saddest thing in the world.

What is lost cannot be made up, and what is regretted cannot be turned back. I want to go back and say I love you to someone, say I'm sorry, it has become a luxury, the person who has died, I really can't see it, I can't come back, all the feelings I paid to her before, she can't feel it, only I still have the feeling that only I know, I miss her alone in my own world, I can't do anything, and no one understands my pain, so I can only be silently uncomfortable by myself.

Life is a long road, in this road will always see a lot of scenery, see the world, the changes, experience the warmth and cold, the ups and downs, and walk on this road, but can not stop, can only move forward, all the way forward.

The most uncomfortable thing in the world, some people say that it is waiting, waiting for that person to come into you, waiting for him to change his mind; Some people say that you like him, but he doesn't like your ......You can't meet the right person at the right time.

There are a lot of uncomfortable things, watching a TV series, I will be uncomfortable because the male and female protagonists can't walk together; Watching a **, you will be sad because a lover can't end up being married; will blame themselves and be sad because of a parent's words......But there are two things that I have the most trouble with right now, one is when I was in elementary school. At that time, I failed a math test and failed the math test for the first time in my life, which was also the lowest math score. After that, my mother helped me find a tutor, and I was there every weekend.

At that time, I also had a dog at home, and that dog was very well-behaved and had been in my house for two years. But once when my grandfather sent me to the tutor, he didn't close the door and the dog followed, and then we didn't send him back and left, but called him home and left. As a result, when I got home, I found that it was gone.

I didn't know where it went, I didn't find it for a long time, and I was looking forward to the day when it would be able to find its way home on its own. After going through this incident, I was very sad why I didn't send it back at the time.

All people, whether poor or rich, cannot describe one thing, that is, birth, old age, sickness and death, and in the face of these four words, no one can do anything. The hardest thing is nothing more than watching my parents grow old day by day and eventually leave us. Now every time I come home, I feel that my father's gray hair has a few more hairs, and my mother's wrinkles have deepened.

I just wish I didn't grow up so they wouldn't get old.

The saddest thing about my current life experience is that I have drifted away from my friends.

She, I haven't seen her for more than three years, and since I slowly got a distance, my heart is far away. I didn't quarrel, and I didn't have to complain, I just went to a different place naturally.

I met her when we were in college, we were roommates in a dorm, she was very welcoming and cheerful. I remember the first day when my parents sent me to the dormitory, she was the one who helped me with everything. She also organized a dormitory to be cleaned up, and in short, she felt very good.

At that time, she was also the type that the boys in the class liked more, and she looked relatively fresh, and her personality was also lively and cheerful. But she already has a boyfriend, and it's the boy she chases, presumably that's true love.

At that time, she and I were the best in the dormitory, and the two of us talked about everything. But it always feels like she's wearing a shell, which makes people very unguessable. Later, slowly, I don't know if she was too familiar with me, or what, I felt that the other side of her personality was exposed.

It makes me feel a little scared.

She told me about the relationship between men and women, including that she and her boyfriend often went out to open a room. I've never been exposed to such a realistic topic before, and I was a little shocked when I heard it. Later, she often went to her boyfriend, and I once advised her not to do too much.

Maybe what I said was too straightforward, and she had a big fight with me. In fact, at that time, her boyfriend had already split his legs and wanted to break up with her, but she just went to find her, and I don't know why.

One day she suddenly borrowed money from me, and then during class, she told the class leader that she had taken a leave of absence. Later, the class guide found that she was missing, and after she was discovered, she bit the squad leader instead. At that time, I knew all these things, and I was speechless when I heard them.

Later, it was really depressing to get along slowly, so there was no contradiction, and naturally they went away.

The death of the child, the death of the child, the death of my heart, the whole person is dumbfounded, and the soul is lost.

The loss of a loved one is undoubtedly one of the most painful experiences of life. I have also faced such a situation, and I deeply feel the pain and helplessness in it. According to my personal experience, the following points are needed to get out of this pain:

First, you need to give yourself time to grieve. The loss of a loved one is a huge blow, and grief is almost inevitable at this time. Give yourself enough time to cry, miss and reminisce, which can release the pain in your heart to a certain extent, and let yourself slowly get used to the loss of the most important person in your life.

Time can ** everything, including life's deepest wounds.

Secondly, it is necessary to sue with relatives and friends. Sharing pain with others can make you feel that you are not alone, and that you have people to cry and remember with you. The comfort of family and friends can temporarily alleviate the pain and make him feel that life still has meaning.

It's also an important step out of the pain.

Furthermore, it is necessary to get back into life as soon as possible. Although the shadow of the loss of a loved one remains, life still needs to go on. Keep up with the pace of work and life as soon as possible, and let your energy vent and divert.

The busyness of life can allow you to forget about your pain for a while, which can help you to relieve your emotions after the passage of time. The voids in life need to be filled with new things, and this is also the motivation to keep going.

Therefore, my experience is: give yourself enough time to grieve and remember, which can release the pain to a certain extent; Finding comfort with family and friends makes him feel that life still has meaning; Engage in life and work as soon as possible, and let the development of life promote the passage of time and the slow release of emotions. The pain of life collapse needs time to be diluted, and the important thing is not the pain itself, but how to keep your life moving forward in the midst of pain.

Everything will be fine! The pain of Sakura's spine needs time to heal, and the continuation of life is the key to truly getting out of the haze. The loss of a loved one is an inevitable blow, but life still needs to move forward, and this is the only way to move forward towards the sun.

After all, the meaning of life is to live, cherish the people around you, and live every day without regrets. I believe that as long as we work hard to live, even if there has been pain in life, we will definitely usher in new hope and dawn.

From a practical point of view, everyone has their own most uncomfortable time, I am no exception, I remember the first time I felt the most uncomfortable, it should be when I broke up with my girlfriend when I was in high school, at that time the hazy feeling made me yearn for love very much, so when I was in high school, I met the person I liked, after a fierce pursuit, the girl finally agreed to our relationship, but in the third year of high school, everyone studied hard in order to be admitted to a better university, At this time, my girlfriend offered to break up with meAlthough I know that studying is very important, but I think love is more important, after my girlfriend proposed to me to break up, I was very painful, I remember that I couldn't eat for a few days, and I couldn't sleep and lost a lot of weight in an instant. Of course, in addition to this incident, there are several other things in my life that make me feel very uncomfortable:

1. The accident of a college roommate

After going to college, I had a few very good friends, all of whom were friends in our dormitory, and we often exchanged experiences when we helped each other study in our daily lives, and slowly developed a lot of emotions, but when I was a sophomore, one of my roommates in the dormitory was forced to suspend school because of family conditions, which made everyone feel very uncomfortable, but there was nothing they could do.

2. Being punished at work

After graduating from university, I successfully entered a better company to work, at work, I was punished for a personal negligence, although the punishment was not very large, but I personally felt very uncomfortable, because I am a very self-respecting person in daily life.

3. When life is difficult

After I got married, although my wife and I did not have a very high income, but life was quite smooth, but there was a time when we were caught off guard and needed to pay a lot of money, I remember that my wife cried uncomfortably, I felt very uncomfortable holding my wife, and I was a man, I felt that I should pay more.

The death of a loved one, although it is said that birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable, but when it is really your turn, you still feel that you can't accept it.

Mentioning my child is the most heart-wrenching thing for me, because after I divorced his father, it really hurt the child very much, and I also felt that I ruined the child's life with my own hands.

The most uncomfortable thing in my life is that I didn't meet someone I really liked, because I got married very early, and it was arranged by my parents.

It is the most precious thing that can be together, but it is always the most precious not to be together.

You don't get what you want, but you get what you don't want.