If I don t make an appointment, no one will come and talk to me

Maybe he is a not so enthusiastic person, with a slow personality, don't be too hasty, feelings are accumulated bit by bit. It's like wine, the stronger it is, the longer it lasts, the more fragrant it is, it's not a problem, don't think too much about it.

It's not entirely without problems. It's normal to talk to someone of the opposite sex. Because there is not much contact with the opposite sex in life (only a stylized life is faced every day, and the only familiar opposite sex is his boyfriend and girlfriend), there will be a great need to prove that he is still a normal young man, and the ability and need to chat with girls.

It is a need to affirm self-worth and should not be taken away. This matter can be big or small, depending on how you deal with it. First of all, you don't have to be too disappointed, and you don't have to deny your boyfriend's character because of this little thing.

However, it should not be taken lightly. Because the boyfriend is not out of line now, it doesn't mean that if the boyfriend is let go, the boyfriend will never be out of line. It is necessary to be honest with each other to prevent these little things from developing into uncontrollable conditions and affecting the relationship.

For these situations, you must establish your own bottom line, make this clear and declare to your boyfriend, everyone must abide by the norms. If you really want to solve these problems, you can try to make a little more mutual friends. Even if it's just a friend of wine and meat, it's important not to stuff yourself in your own little world, so that people's mentality is easy to be unbalanced.

Poor child, if it's college, go to school, find her, if it's middle school, let that little girl go.

Make sure the other party is a woman first.

When we communicate with girls, we will find that the conversation is very good, and then when you ask the girl to come out, the girl will reject you. This will make many boys very distressed and depressed, and it feels like when she dates a girl, she seems to be a different person. In fact, girls usually talk to you very well, but as soon as they propose to meet, they refuse, which is nothing more than these two reasons.

People who don't know how to chat should go on a date, and the more times they go on a date, they may be able to chat slowly. The more you don't date, the less likely you will be able to speak, and this needs to be forged silver to refine Hu Boyu.

It's supposed to date, and I'm not very good at chatting in my daily life, but in the process of actually getting along, I will give each other some warmth.

People who can't chat shouldn't date Huiqi, of course you can date, if you can't chat, it doesn't mean that you won't fall in love, and some envy people can't chat but it's okay to fall in love!

Hello everyone, this is an emotional trivia, I'm Xiaobai. Today we are chatting, why is a girl willing to chat with you but refuse your invitation? In fact, when we communicate with girls, we will find that the conversation is very high, and then when you ask the girl to come out, the girl will reject you.

can't give up, the test period for girls is half a year long. Maybe she's introverted and protective. Since she asked her out, she didn't come out, so she didn't think about this for now.

I really want you to bask in the food and go to the Weibo to play. When she asked, she said that it was a pity that if you had gone, it would have been this tune, and that my brother wanted to see you, because I miss you a lot. Anyway, don't be in a hurry, don't mention these frequencies too often, and don't deliberately.

After a long time, it's fine. Now let's not talk about meeting, let's talk like before.

After analysis, there are several possible reasons for boys to make such a move:

1.I have a crush on you, but not to the point where I like you. It seems that he should have a very good impression of you, otherwise he wouldn't have chatted with you often.

2.You're his spare tire. Talking to you often but not asking you out, it is very likely that you have been put in his spare tire. Of course, there is a high probability that he has an object.

3.You're the person he confides in when he's bored. He may really be in a window period, very bored, so he talks to you every day.

4.The boy is extremely introverted and doesn't have the courage to ask you out. Maybe he's a very sensitive person, and because of his condition or situation, or maybe because of your condition or situation, he has to do that.

If this is really the case, and the woman also has a good feeling, she can try to be braver.

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This is a plan to get away with it! Those who can make this plan either half a bucket of water, only know how to start, and may be shy if they don't understand ,,,. Otherwise, it is the so-called old driver, according to your description, it is the old driver who is the most suspicious.

Use WeChat chat to win favor first. When you get used to this way, feel that you can't do without it, and want to develop further,,, then he will shirk it for various reasons,,, first make you want to stop, and then ,,, remember that curiosity kills the cat! Don't pay attention to him first, because if he really likes you, he will continue to look for you, if you ignore him, he will be anxious, anxious and afraid of losing you, he will desperately explain the reason, and then according to his description, then calmly make the correct judgment of the wheel, and then consider whether to continue.

Vice versa! According to Zhumu's own judgment, this driver's self-confidence is overblown, and you can create some frustration for him and help him vent a little. Leave him to dry for a while, and then observe how he behaves,,, first turn passive into active, and then make corresponding adjustments.

Just remember to believe that you are the best and that you are not afraid that no one will appreciate you. If you are not confident in yourself, men will not cherish you very much. Because only confident women can exude unique personal charm, men will not be able to control it under normal circumstances!

If he doesn't make any further moves, you should die as soon as possible! The second is that the drunkard's intention is not to drink. There may be other uses in you, such as your family background, such as your girlfriends or female colleagues.

He may want to use your family background, or he may want to use you as a matchmaker. Or maybe the people around him have taken a fancy to you and don't dare to confess to you directly, so please ask him to come to the front station first, although this possibility is not very ruin, it cannot be completely ruled out. Your situation is only known to you, and you can make appropriate and accurate judgments according to your own situation!

It could be something else! But it's less likely. I hope you are strong, optimistic and confident, and always believe that you will definitely find the ideal other half.

Maybe he thinks it's not time to meet yet, don't worry, talk and wait to see, if he really says that he won't meet you in a month or two, then think about whether he really has a change with you and the person who is there?

Maybe the girl just likes your humor, or likes to chat with you, or likes the atmosphere of talking to you, but doesn't want to fall in love with you, or has no desire to fall in love with you. But I like the good you bring her, so you can't make an appointment every time.

In this case, it means that the girl does not trust you, and may say that she likes you more. Maybe you're more eloquent, or maybe you're a lonely girl and just looking for someone to spend time chatting.

It may be that the girl thinks that she is very chatty with you, if she makes an appointment to meet, she is afraid of disappointment, maybe his heart is empty, and he just wants to find a friend to talk to! When you encounter this kind of thing, don't worry, continue to talk to him, slowly cultivate a good relationship, and then talk about it.

The girl only talks to me, and she can't make an appointment every time, I think this girl is more conservative, and she is also very cautious, so if you don't ask her out, don't ask her out for the time being, and wait until you trust each other before asking her out.

I'm going to prove that the girl you're talking about is certainly not ready. So you need to work harder to catch up.

I guess it's not in place yet, just talk more about the sensitive topics between the two of you!

This may not be the right time!