Hello! Ask me a question! What if I don t have a topic between my girlfriends? 40

Then I want to ask you:

What are the personalities of the two of you? Is she an introvert? Or are you an introvert? Or are you usually more silent?

If it's because of personality, they can only run in with each other, and the one who loves to talk mobilizes the one who doesn't like to talk. You can be open to talking, for example, how do you usually talk in front of your friends? Why can you let go in front of your friends?

Because your heart is open, there is no burden, and of course common interests and hobbies also play a role. You can talk to her about topics that interest her or talk about her feelings

If you are both talkative in front of your friends and family, and you don't have anything to say when you see each other, then your personality is not introverted, and that is not the reason for your personality. Then I don't think you have opened your hearts to each other, or that the two of you haven't talked about everything. The direction you should work hard is to connect more, stay together more, and draw each other's hearts closer.

Only when the heart is closer to the heart can we communicate well.

Depending on whether you have personality or psychological reasons, improve the way you get along with each other for different situations.

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The two of them sit and stare dryly, there is definitely no topic, go out more, play more, stay together for a long time, naturally there will be a topic, don't deliberately look for a topic, the more you look for it, the more you don't.

Paying attention to each other's lives, eating, sleeping, breathing are all topics.

There is a saying that "when two people are together, they won't feel embarrassed even if they don't talk".

I hope you will find this feeling soon.

Sometimes it goes without saying it, just doing what everyone knows.

Find a topic, or don't contact so often, and talk about it when there's a topic.

Is it that you don't have a topic or does he have no topic??

1. Go to the books or variety shows recommended by the other party.

There is no need to force an awkward conversation with your girlfriend, ask her what her favorite movie, book, or variety show is, find a quiet time, take a look at the things she recommends, and you will naturally be able to communicate about something in common.

2. Set goals with your girlfriend and ask each other about their progress every day.

Setting goals with your girlfriend can arouse a strong desire to achieve your goals.

You can set goals to play together, play a game together, and play ranked together.

You can also set the goal of growing together, read and write, see who writes more words, and see who has the fastest fans.

It is also possible to set a goal for money, save money together, whether it is to buy a house, a car, or go on a trip.

Then, around the common goal, there are many topics to talk about with each other, what difficulties have been encountered, and what joy is worth sharing.

3. Do something new regularly.

If you go to dinner and watch a movie every time you go on a date with your girlfriend, it will become boring, and you can regularly try something that two people have not done together before, and you can do anything.

For example, we can go shooting together, ski together, ride the Ferris wheel together, play rafting together, or make travel plans together.

If you are both literary and artistic men and women, you can go to different exhibitions and museums together on a regular basis, have new experiences, and have new topics in the process of chatting later.

4. Discuss some controversial topics.

Some of the more controversial topics that you pay attention to in your daily life can be sent to your girlfriend to chat with them and exchange each other's views. It's a bit of a debate, but don't quarrel The two sides have an ideological confrontation, and they can know each other better.

5. Do fixed things together at a fixed time.

The sense of ritual between couples is also very important, not necessarily someone else's sense of ritual, it can be your own, and do a fixed thing together at a fixed time. For example, take a walk together every night after dinner, read the same book together before bedtime, or watch a movie together every week.

These tacit and mutually agreed things will make you have a closer connection, and when you become intimate, the topic will naturally not worry.

6. Maintain an appropriate sense of distance.

Sometimes the two parties have no topic to talk about, it may really not be that the love has faded, and each of them must have their own time, and when they really don't know what to say, don't waste time chatting awkwardly. There are many things you can do besides love. Do more interesting things, constantly improve yourself, and share a more vivid you with her.

To sum up, it is necessary to establish new experiences with your girlfriend that belong to the two of you, and at the same time continue to enrich and improve yourself.

If there is no topic to talk about, just go to the topic to chat, usually two people date more, more together, nothing to go to watch more movies, the relationship between the two people is very familiar, naturally there is nothing to talk about, if you usually meet once a month or two, then naturally there is no topic to talk about, watch movies, talk about what type of movies each other like, what kind of movies will be released recently, etc., who is your favorite actor, usually two people are cooking together, as long as they are not strangers to each other, and the feelings are deep, there will naturally be a lot of topics to talk about.

1. You can talk about what you have done with each other, for example, you have just watched a movie, you can talk about the plot in the movie again, interesting places, touching places, etc., you have just been to a place, you can also talk about your feelings, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment between each other, but also deepen the communication with each other.

2. Take the initiative to find topics, boys can take the initiative to find some topics at this time, but it should be a relatively broad topic, because after the topic is too narrow, girls may not be interested, or you don't know what kind of topics girls like. Of course, boys can also talk about things that happen to them or something interesting, which can not only set the mood but also keep the conversation going.

3. Let's talk about what I have eaten before, the best places nearby, and how to make those things delicious. I think in fact, everyone is more or less sensitive to eating, but some people are obvious and are called foodies. And you can invite you to go to dinner and date together by the way.

4. You can talk about what you have done with each other, for example, you have just watched the movie, you can talk about the plot in the movie again, interesting places, touching places, etc., you have just been to a place, you can also talk about your feelings, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment between each other, but also deepen the communication with each other.

5. Find common topics in communication. The special thing that God has given to mankind is communication, which is an important foundation for human progress. Only in continuous communication can we understand each other, and call each other their confidants, so that the feelings between two people become stronger and stronger.

In communication, be sure to pay attention, look for common topics, and pay attention to each other's preferences.

6. Have common hobbies or things. It is very difficult to have a common hobby, or to do something that interests both of you, and it is also very helpful for the two to get along with each other. This can give two people more opportunities to communicate and have more things to say to each other.

If you don't have anything to say to your girlfriend, it's best to care more about him, and you can ask him how he's doing now? It's best to send a red envelope or buy some gifts, to be considerate of your girlfriend, two people are in different places, not just by talking, but by your own gentleness and thoughtfulness and practical actions. If your girlfriend likes something, it's best to buy it for him, and then go to see her more on vacation.

That can develop the same interest as her, see if she likes it, and you like it at the same time, and this is not a topic.