How can I be a good person who is kind and principled?

Some people are good people in order to be perceived by everyone"Okay"Some people just do what they think is worthy of their conscience, but they are not necessarily a good person in the eyes of others. Everyone has a different standard in their hearts to measure the good or bad, and there is no ISO9001 thing to judge. In society, sometimes you can't help yourself, you don't like the things you don't like, do it in moderation, don't get involved in things that hurt nature and reason, help others if you can, but don't make yourself or others too embarrassed, no one is perfect, you don't have to always be angry.

Justice is at ease in people's hearts, and knowing how to spend time thinking about how to be a good person is a good person.

As long as you look at a person's heart, as long as you do more good deeds, and you can help others when they need help, I am a loving and kind person, but I have no money.

Self-discipline. As long as you think it's right, why bother with others (but good things still have to be done) so that you don't have these troubles.

Please consider my words carefully.

What is a good person and what is a wicked person, I feel that the richer the life experience, the more ambiguous the view, I don't think there is any need to be a good person, there is no standard for kindness, sometimes it can be telling the truth and hurting people, I think it is the most normal to be yourself (if you want to do it, be a kind person according to your own standards).

I don't know if you have ever had such a few classmates in your college career. He has a good temper, he is very kind, and he always only cares about what others think, no matter how others ridicule and joke, he never gets angry, he only laughs, and it seems that anyone can make a few jokes on him.

The consequence of such a "good" temper is that slowly no one will care about your thoughts, no matter who encounters any trouble, they will immediately think of pushing you for help, because you don't know how to refuse, and you are the best one to speak. Your presence around classmates and roommates will be less and less. You will always be the one who suffers.

The so-called goodness of being bullied by others is this truth, thinking about the degree of neglect of oneself for the sake of others. If you don't care about yourself, others won't care about you.

I'm not saying that we have to go toe-to-toe with others in our lives and not let ourselves suffer at all. Just say, don't be a person who is so kind that he has no principles and bottom lines.

I almost became such a person, and when I first entered the normal school, I started to contact my new classmates with the principle of being peaceful in social interactions. After a casual tease, they found out about my "good" temper. So teasing me became their way of making fun.

Slowly, their teasing words began to thicken, and the holes became more and more trembling, and they realized that I didn't seem to be angry no matter what. Some of the things I heard were starting to get uncomfortable, and things were starting to get out of control, and it would not be okay to continue like this, so I took a little bit of action.

I also started teasing them the way they teased me, telling them that it was a bit too much and that I was uncomfortable. Let them know what the bottom line is acceptable. In some favors that you don't have the ability and don't want to help, you know how to refuse.

That way people will care what you think. In fact, it is normal for friends to tease each other, but this ridicule must be moderate, otherwise the ridicule will no longer be ridicule.

I have only one attitude towards some people who I have expressed and are still unscrupulous: if you are willing to tease me, then you are free, but you must not think that I ignore it because I am afraid of you, I am just too lazy to pay attention to you, and don't be naïve to think that I am a kind person and easy to bully.

It turns out that sometimes it's good to have a little temper. It's okay to be peaceful, but you can't be peaceful from beginning to end without a little temper, which will only make others habitually ignore you. But you can't lose your temper every day, so no one wants to contact you.

To sum up, kindness is okay, but don't let others use your kindness as the capital to bully you.

In real life, I am a kinder person, and when others encounter difficulties, I will do my best to help others, because sometimes helping others is just a gesture, but I can help the other party to solve the confusion, and the person who is helped by Chang Rui is very happy, and he is also very happy.

If you don't help others when they are in trouble and you have the ability to help, then your own psychology will be morally condemned, and every time you think about it, you will feel uneasy.

In this world, we must follow our own hearts in doing things, there is an old saying that the house of good must have afterglow, and the house of evil must have aftermath. Doing good deeds is the process of constantly accumulating virtue for oneself, and it is the process of constantly placing one's own life.

A kind person, a person with a strong heart, his heart is full of light, and the real light exists in his own heart.

When you continue to contribute to society and others, you are accumulating your own benevolence and morality, and these will allow a person to be sheltered and protected.

A person with a strong heart will insist on doing his own thing, and patience does not lie in what others say, not in what others think of you. A kind person, his words and deeds will also form a positive energy, affecting the people around him, especially his offspring, so that his children can also become a positive person.

Each of us lives in this world, not only to make our lives better, but also to make the lives of the people around us better, as long as everyone gives a little love, our world will be a better world. So when you do a good deed, you don't have to worry about what might happen, because what you do is good, something that is beneficial to others, and you will definitely get a good reward.

The reason why we want to do good things is the most important thing is character, to be kind, a person has a noble character, in order to carry greater mistakes, that is, to be virtuous.

We should insist on being a kind person, but doing good deeds also depends on the situation, not that all people need us to help, we will help if we are worth helping, because while we are helping others, we should also consider whether this person needs our help, we will help others, not help others, and let others misunderstand themselves, so many times when we talk about helping others, we should also be selective to help some people. Not all people want to be helped by others, of course, others refuse, we don't have to be a hateful person, because giving love is a kind practice, since others don't approve, there is no need to do this, let others hate themselves, of course it's not good, so many times we have to insist on being a kind person, but to do good deeds also to pay for those who deserve it, to pay for those who need help

2.Kindness is a choice, a choice for yourself not to regret and to live openly. Therefore, kindness is not for people to see, but also for oneself.

3.When kindness is blasphemed, of course, we must continue to be kind, there are so many bad people and things in this world, do you mind minding it? Be firm and be yourself, and only talk about your own heart is the best way.

4.To be a man, there must be a moral bottom line and principles, kindness is just an adjective, once the bottom line is broken, this line will be low and low, especially if you taste the sweetness of not following the rules, it may cause greater problems later. I believe in cause and effect.

Yes, what you plant is what you reap, there are actually no fools in this world, everyone understands very well, if you do something bad to others, in the end others will return it to you in various forms, which is what is often said to come out and mix it sooner or later. The mother-in-law is not kind to her daughter-in-law, and she sees her mother-in-law in the first ten years and her daughter-in-law in the next ten years, and you can see it in the future; The husband is not kind to his wife, and in the long run, he will lose a true lover, and the wife will not be very good to the husband in the future.

5.The human heart is made of flesh; If you don't treat your friends well, you will lose a friend and lose a part of your heart.

It's just that there is a degree of kindness, and beyond that degree, it may not be kindness, but stupidity. For example, to sympathize with child traffickers, empathy for scum is very inappropriate, the most important thing is that if others have been hurting you, you must stop spreading your kindness in a timely manner, after all, repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue, so when we help others, we also hope that others can be a kind person like themselves, a caring person. The world will be full of love.