A detailed discussion on the confession of failure

You don't deserve to love someone.

Here are my thoughts.

I don't have the courage to face love.

How can you have the ability to strive for happiness.

Think it for yourself.

Excessive reserve. The scientific name is sullen

- what is called"Go back to yours"？？Is that what it means to refuse??

You are not stupid at all, you are not stupid at all, you go your own way of love, and there is nothing wrong with it; Since you think you know his temperament very well, you should know what kind of girl can impress him, then let go of your reserve and be brave... You must know that women chase men in the sand (although I generally discourage women from chasing men).

You're too little a girl!

You only like his personality, you like others to say that you are ambiguous, you can't tell the difference between love and friendship or what.

And look at the constellations, the height is too superficial, what can those say!

171 are quite short... Khan a...

Straight to the point. If you don't understand what love is, forget it, so as not to hurt yourself.

Hey, I can't bear to tell you because you're trapped in love.

Reality is cruel, you always see the appearance, don't look at the heart, don't really appreciate a person, say love or not, it will make people very disgusted.

If you really love someone, you have to accept everything he has, understand his sorrow and his happiness, if you really only say love or not, it's too superficial, you can slowly understand it

I can't stand you anymore!!

Do you think it's a Stephen Chow movie? Distinguish personality with socks?

In fact, what boys need is inner understanding rather than external, you will only make people think that you are a housekeeper, I don't think anyone will want a housekeeper, right?

On the other hand, if he needs someone to talk to, you don't understand, but you can only say something that doesn't hurt. If you can't understand a guy's heart, you'll never get into his heart.

It is a confidant and a lover. You get the idea

How many more points do you need? Hehe.

Just kidding, no matter how you deal with this, I'm going to take care of it. I guess I'm responsible for the problem.

In fact, this problem you encounter is very common. His attitude is like that because he only sees you as a regular friend, and you like him now. You have to follow what he likes.

First of all, you have to figure out his preferences and habits. Of course, these are all things to be investigated behind the scenes. You have to get a good sense of his temper to be able to whet his appetite when doing things, so that he will look at you differently.

Everyone likes a tacit friend, because sometimes it is very necessary to have a tacit understanding, if you have to put everything on your lips, it will inevitably be very embarrassing on some inconvenient occasions.

So, the first step is to get to know him.

The second step is to find out his habits and reach a tacit understanding.

Step 3 Let the tacit understanding be present all the time, so that he feels that no one can reach the tacit understanding between you and him.

Note that whether you play or do things, you need tacit understanding, which is a very important point, and it is a foreshadowing for cultivating feelings.

Secondly, men also have vanity, so when you speak, don't mention things he doesn't want to mention, don't talk about other people's privacy, such as being not tall. Actually, it's not tall, as long as you have a high brain, you say, right? I'm sure you don't like him either.

Maybe he won't care, but he definitely has a pimple in his heart. Therefore, be careful when you speak and do not expose his shortcomings. For example, if he plays a game, you talk more about the things in the game.

Tell him what he is most proud of and make him happy. He likes to hear what you say, and he's glad to hear it. Naturally, my favorability towards you has skyrocketed.

Finally, never lie and make him feel like you're an honest person. Not letting you lie doesn't mean you have to tell the truth; Say it all. Men also need care, and occasionally caring for him will make him very touched and warm.

And don't get angry less, especially don't get angry about things that don't matter... Don't let him have the illusion that he is difficult to get along with.

If you want to get his heart, you first have to find a way to make him accept you.

And he said that he treats you as a sister, which is just a pretext, what you have to do now is to understand him, and then conquer him!

Finally, I would like to send you two sentences: you must be brave. Love only cares about whether the two are happy with each other, and does not care about who chases whom.

Okay, I have to go out and do something, so I'll stop talking; I want to say too much about it. You'll have to figure it out. Remember to give me points!^

Confession can't be replaced

If you really like him, find a time to talk to him in person.

There is no stupidity or notness in this kind of thing, and it is best to stick to this love.

Since he is like this, let's keep the original relationship with him for the time being. The main thing you should do is to look at his reaction to you, pay attention to the details, and generally still have feelings for you. Maybe it was just rhetoric.

If there is really no progress, then bury the love in the bottom of your heart,......When things are at the worst they will mend.

Maybe I'm naïve and doesn't fit your heart's mind, but if it were me, I'd do it......

What I know from your description is that he doesn't love you, in other words, you are not the ones you love. So how can you and him make each other happy? If your love will not make him happy, why be persistent?

Maybe with him, you get happiness, but gradually, when you find that he doesn't have you in his heart, what are you facing? Have you thought about it?

It doesn't matter! Even if you are treated as a sister, then you can ask him directly, it is better than if you have been stuck here now! Go ahead!

Give me extra points! ~)

Height is not distance, age is not a problem, affection is the first! Hope for yourself.

I don't want to express my opinion, I'm stupid and naïve, so I can do it myself.

If you like it, chase it. That's the truth. One last question. Flashed.

Shunqi naturally retreats from the difficulty.

1.It could be a refusal.

Some people may believe that they don't know how to refuse by nature, and they are worried that rejecting others will hurt people, so even if they refuse in their hearts, they will not say it on the surface. Some people are accustomed to rejecting others in a silent way, because they feel that rejecting others directly will make the other party feel faceless, which is not good, so they do not reply to express their refusal and save some face for the other party.

2.Probably not a sign of rejection.

Some people may not know how to express themselves, or they are not good at communicating with others, they are worried about saying the wrong thing, or they don't know how to reply to a sudden confession, just like when facing an exam, their brain suddenly goes blank. If this is the case and the other party did not reply at the time, it is better to wait a few days and then try to confess for a second time, or buy a bouquet of flowers to express your heart again.

2. The reasons for the failure of confession.

1.The confession was too sudden.

If two people have maintained a good friend relationship for a long time, or a relatively stable relationship, it is not the feeling of boyfriend and girlfriend. If one day suddenly, you confess to the other party without warning, it will be very embarrassing. Regardless of whether the other party also has a crush on you, such a confession will change the relationship between the two, so it is very sudden.

And if the other party is not in the relationship between a man and a woman, and wants to maintain the relationship of good friends now, it will be a little difficult for a while.

2.Confession booth wheel informal.

Some people are organized and well-behaved about people and things, so the same is true in terms of feelings, once they identify the other party, they will not change. And if a person just says that he confesses that he likes you on WeChat, it will make him feel very casual, he must not be serious, maybe he is joking, or he just wants to deal with the object instead of investing more emotions in love, then usually such confessions are rejected. For confession, at least say it to your face.

Why is it embarrassing, the failure of confession is just a failure to chase a girl, it's normal, and I treat it with a normal heart.

It's just a failure, it's not a piece of meat, don't think I'm saying something ugly, after failure, you can pick yourself up again.

Give up when you fail? I advise you not to confess if you don't have a certain level.

What's this, it's a little embarrassing, you have good courage, which also shows that you confessed a little impulsively.

Some roads are very tiring, but if you don't go, you will regret it.

What else can I do, and then live,

Many people have experienced rejection of confession, in fact, it is not a big deal, and the following methods can be taken after a failed confession: Let's take a look at how a failed confession can relieve the uncomfortable mood.

How to relieve the uncomfortable mood by confessing failure?

1.Don't get tangled.

After the rejection of the confession, the boy should recover his emotions. He doesn't have to pester the other side or ask the other side why. Because this will only make the girl more and more bored, and the boy should understand and rationally solve it is best.

At this time, he doesn't have to bother you more because you need to attract her again. At this moment, you should sort out your emotions and allow yourself to return to your normal daily routine. You don't have to get caught up in the spiral of rejection.

Let the girl see your atmospheric side and your open side, and let the girl have a different opinion of you.

2.To live better.

After the rejection of the confession, you should no longer pursue the perfection of the other party, just for the sake of your own rationality for a while. When boys recover their emotions, you need to make yourself stronger, when girls see that you have a better life, it will arouse a certain curiosity, in this link you don't have to break up with the girl, you can be the other side of the thumbs, meaning that you are still there, but can not disturb her every day, let the girl make you the illusion that she does not care, so the girl will have doubts and feel that she cannot catch you. You need to make the most of your strengths and have your own highlights, so that the girl feels that it is not right to reject you, and that the girl has an uncertain state of mind.

3.Wash your heart and face.

In this link, you should improve your style, enrich your extracurricular life, and make yourself look better. After all, you can only attract others if you are good. You should understand that only confident and happy boys are more elegant.

The low-level pleasing that has been going on will only greatly reduce the value of your use.

Boys should understand that if they want to pursue perfection to the girl they like, they don't have to use humility as a form of attack and they don't have to try all kinds of warmth to impress her. They should understand that attracting girls according to their best selves is the best option. It is only when boys become better and stronger that they are not afraid of rejection.

If you fight back completely, you will become a new person and it will be even more mysterious to the girls. At this moment, you will once again strive for perfection. Only the pass rate can be improved, and you can get the most perfect love.

Respect the other person's choices and decisions, and don't rely too much on or expect the other person to change their minds. Respect each other's freedoms and give yourself a chance to accept and adapt to new situations.

Confess failure to do these few things.

The first thing is that everyone will encounter the failure of confession, and it depends on how the individual deals with it. If it is in a city, or the kind that we meet every day, we can face this problem with a generous attitude and show the best of ourselves. Man, if you can afford to take it and put it down, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, maybe there is a better one waiting for you later?

I know it's difficult, but after all, everything is difficult at the beginning, keep faith, be the best version of yourself, there is no obstacle in the world that you can't overcome.

The second thing is that confession failure actually depends on one's own mentality, to see if you really like the other person. If it's the first time, don't be discouraged, it takes a lot of courage to confess, don't worry too much about failing to confess, adjusting your mentality is more important than anything else.

The third thing, confession failure, I personally think it's normal, at least you have the courage to take the step of pursuing the other person, don't be sad. Confessing failure shows that people don't like you, learn from it the lesson of pursuing failure, and cheer up as soon as possible.

The fourth thing, it's okay, think about it, don't be too pessimistic after the confession fails. You have to think like this, keep the green mountains here, and don't be afraid of no firewood. Since the other person doesn't like you, it's okay, because you're still very young and will find a new partner in the future.

But you still have to love yourself and take care of yourself. You have to make yourself better, so that there will be more people who like you, and the hope of success in the next confession will be much greater.

The fifth thing, confession failure, you can rethink whether you and the other party are on the same platform, external appearance, internal three views, spiritual pursuit, etc., if it is similar, it may still need to be run-in. This matter cannot be rushed, it must be cultivated slowly and let it be. There may be opportunities in the future, but only if you work hard enough to be good enough.

If the external and internal are not on the same level, give up as soon as possible, such two people are destined to have no intersection.