Advance or retreat, I can t see the end?

<> you can't see the end in view of retreating, but there is a chance in this world that you won't retreat to me. In fact, in many periods, people are often in a state of confusion, we don't know what to do, we don't know where to go, no matter whether you advance or retreat, you can't see the end. But this world will have a chance to give us a refund.

We just keep going. so as not to be given up by this world. Retreat means giving up, it means cowardice, no one will give you the right to make you cowardly, no one will give you time to wait for you to grow.

The world is cruel, unless you have rich parents, even if you don't do anything, you can live a life without worrying about food and clothing. If you don't have these conditions, and you still think about quitting, then you have no way to survive.

Don't always think about retreating, look at the world, there are people who are better than you. When you see your former classmates getting into a better university than you, finding a better job than you, and getting a higher salary than you, will you still let yourself go backwards? No!

You must be thinking about how I can improve myself, how to catch up with the footsteps of others, people have to keep improving, only progress can have the meaning of your existence. I don't advocate a negative life, although I know that many people really want to relax a lot of times, but the meaning of relaxation is that you will only relax yourself after a busy life, and the relaxation of life that has been relaxing will lose its own meaning. People must be positive, you can be bothered by negative emotions, but you can't be defeated by negative emotions.

Even if you can't see the end, you can't go wrong with the progress of the moment, the efforts of the moment, and the doing your part of the present. Don't wait for you to retire, and then look back, if I had worked a little harder, wouldn't it have changed the outcome?

<> can't see the ending, but still have to make their own choice, why? The dilemma will only stop you from moving forward, and what will happen to you will not happen. In other words, you don't want to face the back, but what's the point?

It's already like this, you can only move forward, although you can't see the ending, but what if the ending is good? Although you can't see it, it doesn't mean it won't happen, if you retreat, you not only lose your courage, but also lose the chance to fight the last time, this is the breakthrough, although the ending is not very good, or the end has not yet come, but I believe that the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge.

I especially like the saying that no matter what you encounter, if you follow the time, it will always be solved. So how to solve it? One is to be forced to accept, and then in the passage of time unconsciously overcome the problem, solve the difficulty, maybe the ending is not good, or there is no end to this matter, you will feel defeated, depressed, but with the passage of time, you will gradually forget such unpleasantness, a person should remember that things are limited, should be left to good things.

The second is to take the initiative to solve, if it is the same problem, it may end the same as passive acceptance, but there will always be a glimmer of life, and there is that you have worked hard and do not regret it, so identify a choice, carry it to the end, whether it is sunshine or wind and rain, acceptance is always an attitude, isn't it? Life is a stage, everyone has to play a lot of roles, maybe you didn't play this role well, but there is always a role that suits you, waiting for you.

Advance or retreat, I can't see the end? In fact, I have really encountered such a thing, maybe I am a little different from others, I encountered this helpless thing in my own feelings, that is, my first love made me feel that I was in and out, I couldn't see the ending, I couldn't see the future with her, I was really irritable.

My first love can be a little late, it was when I was in high school that I had my first girlfriend, and now I feel that I was really naïve, naïve thought that I was good to her, and I could have a good result, but this is not the case, although I have been good enough for her, but she still hurts me the most, I thought that the two of us would not go to any intersection again, after all, we have graduated, and the university is not the same, so I thought to myself that we might end up like this, but what I didn't expect was, In the first semester of my sophomore year, she added my QQ again, and I didn't forget her at that time, and I always had her shadow in my heart, so I missed a lot of people who loved me. I still remember the first sentence she asked me, asking me if I still like her, after all, I am not the same me I used to be, no longer the simple boy, I have experienced, so I know more, I said what if I like it or not, and then the two of us chatted when I was free, and then we went to Harbin to play for 3 days, just the two of us, at that time I thought she might be trying to reconcile with me, but when I went home to chat with her, I said that there will be me in the future? She said again not to talk like that next time.

At that time, I was really a little irritable, I didn't know if I should let go completely, or continue my persistence, and then I gave up, because with her, I can't see the future, and now it may be okay, but I did hesitate for a long time at that time!

I don't know what specific problems you have encountered to choose to advance or retreat, but life is an unknown, and how can you see the end until the last second? There are clouds in ancient times, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, the boat goes straight to the bridge, and you will find that there is actually another village with bright willows and flowers. What you say you can't see is because your heart has been covered by love and hatred, which causes you to be confused and hesitant for a while, but when you try to empty yourself and meditate and listen to your feelings, you will come out of another ending.

I remember that there was a chess game called Zhenlong Chess, and many middle and high masters couldn't see through it, because they were too concerned about the current gains and losses, so they couldn't see through it. was broken by a rookie-level figure, and the next step he took seemed to be self-defeating, but in fact he was put to death and reborn. Now it seems to you that advancing or retreating will seem to be doomed, but maybe you will see a beautiful situation when you take that step.

Anyway, the worst is to lose everything, and if life is a big gamble, you can also lose vigorously. When you lose them all, isn't it just another new beginning? You can start over with nothing, and some people only see the end of losing everything, but they don't see the beginning of starting over.

Retreat and advance are relative, they are symbiotic, they can be converted into each other, you can retreat for advance, you can also advance for retreat, why do you have to insist on advancing or retreating? There is no predicament in the world that cannot be unsolved, only the heart knot that cannot be dissolved, so I think the most important thing to let go of in this game is your obsession. Bodhi has no tree, and there is no mirror, leave it to your heart to choose, and put aside the short-term pros and cons analysis in front of you, I believe you will see a different scene.