I ve been hurt by others, and I always feel that what he said is sweet words, what if it s fake

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Nothing is ever true, and nothing is ever fake.

    The real sometimes becomes false, and the fake becomes true.

    The important thing is not doubt, your current thoughts are just your own single thoughts. Sweet words between lovers are just a regulator; As long as he's serious on key issues, why should you care about his usual giggles?

    Influence him with gentle feelings, even if it is fake, it will become true. Don't you consider yourself a success? Because you have done the impossible with your own ability, what else can't be done?

    Try it, you should treat everything as real now, when in fact it may be true, but it just gives you a false feeling. Also, is he too good for you? If so, it's simply because he still genuinely likes you in his heart; It doesn't matter what it looks like.

    Isn't it okay if it's good inside?

    Like I've said so much, you'd probably think it's fake, too, but why not trust yourself?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Dare to love and hate, you still don't love him very much, you didn't let go of him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you feel it's real, it's real!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Kind people, to be able to protect themselves, to have their own principles, the rest to find a person from the details, in fact, I don't really believe in sweet words, the more you say, the more false it is, or look at his actions, not his words!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What did you find ? Judging a person cannot be based on just one feeling, a few words. What has he done for you? How much did you pay ? Wouldn't it be better to be willing to do it for you, and add something to say? Don't be in front of you and don't know how to cherish.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is a saying, I would rather believe that there are ghosts in this world than believe in the broken mouth of men!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's boring, it's old-fashioned, will you follow, but then again, that kind of man is reliable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's all the same, women use their ears when they fall in love, and men use their eyes when they fall in love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can't say good things, do you follow?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think maybe you should talk to him, the Cold War is not the solution, and you should think about it calmly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't matter if the sweet words are true or not, there are some things that cannot be given up.

    Life is precious.

    Love is more expensive.

    If it is for the sake of freedom.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Everyone has a low ebb on the road of love, and they won't get through it!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's up to 、...But also to believe in the other party, you can't generalize like this, there are many times when sweet words are not hypocritical, they just promise, and then they can't do it. Some love words are very.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's when you know it's betrayed you or deceived you!

    If you believe it, you won't think he's hypocritical!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Some people just like this, they pay more attention to emotional communication, and some people like to be righteous and pointed, not like meat and hemp, different people, different tastes!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's hypocrisy, but people are cheap. Knowing that it is a trap, you still have to be reckless like a moth to a fire. Don't regret it, hypocrisy is hypocrisy, then slowly bear it alone.

    Life may be like this, hypocrisy, hypocrisy, hypocrisy, hypocrisy, tiredness, tiredness, tiredness, tiredness, exhaustion, exhaustion, hypocrisy, hypocrisy, hypocr

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, because you've been deceived, you can think that way and kill all sincerity.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're right, it's really normal to not be in touch for half a year and say something nice to make you happy. But in fact, the key to the problem now is not whether the boy is sweet or not, in my opinion, I think it is your inner conflict, because you also said that your personality is relatively soft, so you may like that boy and are afraid of hurting your best friend, but you are not sure whether that boy really likes you. In fact, this is intricate.

    In fact, the problem is not difficult, you have to figure out your true feelings, if you really like it, then be bold It is not okay to have a soft personality Slowly open your heart But one has to have a test boy Time After all, I haven't seen him for half a year. Having said all that, I hope to help your question slightly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The past is unbearable, and the past is like yesterday.

    Rehashing old things will only evoke too much sadness and helplessness.

    If he really loved you, he should have made a choice between you and her.

    Instead of saying it after he had a conflict with her.

    Subconsciously I think: He doesn't really love you, but only thinks of you when he is frustrated, the reason why you are afraid is not because of the private party, but because of whether he really loves you and cares about you Once you accept his love, what if he is not sincere? How can you explain in front of the private party?

    You are very conflicted and confused, you are in a dilemma, you can't let go of friendship and can't give up love, you are too soft-hearted, I said that you first find out that if there is no complete breakup between them, you choose to let go, and silently bless them; If it's really irretrievable--- then what are you waiting for? Go and get back the love that belongs to you! In life, find someone you really love and love you.

    It's not easy! Once the loved one misses it, it will no longer be, and the broken heart will only be painful, and it will be difficult to find out where to go, and I hope you will think twice before acting. Okay, let's not talk about it.

    I sincerely wish you, kind girl, that you will be happy!886

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because he hurt her, she hated him in order to anesthetize herself.

    I think it's not true that you're afraid that he likes you?

    After all, sweet words!!

    You are afraid of his hypocrisy.

    I'm afraid he's false. Afraid that he will deceive you. Although you don't like him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's that you don't trust him too much, and mutual trust doesn't need sweet words. Sweet talk is used to deceive little girls. It means that you have grown up and matured.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because you don't like sweet talk, you like real, tangible feelings, so I'm sure he's not for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I feel like you're insecure. I always feel that he is not sincere to you, I feel that he has changed. And you're also afraid that your best friend will get hurt.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Dating with him, you always think about him to show that you like him, your friends are now out of town, no one can stop you from being together, since you like it, you will be together. Don't worry so much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is a choice between love and friendship, and love is actually very fragile. It's nowhere near as good as friendship, so I don't recommend losing a friend for the sake of this man. If it's really a good friend ...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It has nothing to do with love, it has something to do with loneliness! ~

    You must not have been in love for a long time, I advise you to find a suitable partner!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Some women are very defensive, so they will be afraid.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't think too much about it, it's better to be friends.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Fear? Is it because of your best friend that you are afraid?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You subconsciously want to separate again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Emotional problems are still better for themselves.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes, I don't have any feelings for him, or rather, he has already left, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, and you now think about him yesterday instead of now, so you should now analyze the current problem from the perspective of the whole, weigh it carefully, you should be able to understand how to do it, understand, what you should want, what will work for you, whether it is worth sacrificing part of your own emotional thoughts. That's all, take it for yourself!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'm afraid it's because you've grown up.,True love is a considerate question.,It's not a sweet word.,But he may be confident in his face.,You let his self-confidence drop a few times.。。 You may become a prince. However, it is difficult to change a person's personality.

    Is he really an introvert? Introverts are quicker to self-awaken.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because you don't trust him enough to trust him.

    So whatever sweet words he says, you will think, "Is what he said true?" , will he lie to me?.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Inappropriate, sweet words are used to describe conversations between lovers, and the teacher should be called earnest and instructive.

    It is inappropriate to be deliberate, the emotional color is derogatory, and the bad people are deliberate. Change the painstaking try

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Both of them are inappropriate, you can see it at a glance. Misnomer.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It was fought unilaterally.

    For example, if it is the sweet talk package I handled, I can set up a close friend and call him ** is to deduct it from 1000 minutes, of course, the business fee is only deducted from the handling party 10 yuan.

    As for you saying that the call fee is only 20, it may be that you have handled other businesses, and you have sent 0000 to 10086 to check what business you have handled.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Because it should be understood in this way, if the beautiful and beautiful words but cannot be realized in the end, this is originally true, and they are all hollowed out and felt in the heart, but how many of people's goals can be achieved? Remember your ideals as a child? Remember your promise to your parents, teachers, and classmates?

    Look at it a little, the words are sincere, but whether it can be realized is another thing.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Fake people say that no matter how much they say, it is false, and real people say that rhetoric is romantic.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think it's fake, but it's better than nothing!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Sometimes you will be confused by rhetoric, so you have to see how to behave in the world.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    No, the care embodied in some small details will seem sweeter. For example, when you are uncomfortable, he will be the first to notice. Another example is that if you don't have breakfast, he will go to the small shop and buy it for you. Wouldn't these make you feel happy?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It doesn't have to be sweet, but it has to be profound.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Sweet romantic, sweet talk. Let's say some sweet words to your girlfriend, cherish it.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Of course not.. What if it's a crush ... That's the pain of worrying the heart. At the same time, a little sweetness. Wowha... It's so sadomasochistic.。。。

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    First love is not felt, there is no time to feel, and it will feel sweet when you recall.

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