The child s problem is very powerless to help.

Good communication with children has become the most headache for parents nowadays, but from the child's point of view, the child is the same.

Because the starting line of children and parents is different, coupled with the lack of spiritual communication, there is a psychological estrangement. Therefore, parents will feel that the child is disobedient and ignorant, but in fact, it is not necessarily bad for the child to have his own ideas.

The best way for parents to communicate with their children is to grasp his preferences and not get to the point. If you really don't like this girl, you can talk to that girl first, just want to chat like small talk, not too formal, which will make the other person very nervous and stressed. Tell her about what you're thinking about, what your son's future plans are, all sorts of questions.

If both parties really like it, then I hope you don't break them up, after all, their future is mostly their own.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to the point of water and milk integration. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is originally a replica of marriage.

If you love your child, respect his choice, I am sure that he knows what kind of partner he is looking for and does not leave him with regrets because of your particular thoughts.

First of all, please understand that it is your son who will live with the child for the rest of his life, but the uncle and your two elders, everything is subject to the child's choice, of course, if the woman's moral character is a problem, just tell your son directly. The so-called lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, as long as your son takes a fancy to it, if there is nothing wrong with the woman's morality, you still follow the child's opinion!

Old man!! Ay!

What more could you ask for?

Wouldn't it be nice if my son was happy?

Suffering is also a kind of life.

Look at people, men look at courage.

The woman looks at the control. "The ugly thing is to be in charge" and "being in charge is also a kind of business".

Hehe, I don't have the courage to do it myself.

Don't believe what I say, just pull points.

Understandable, huh?

I don't pay much attention to academic qualifications, and it seems that the higher the academic qualifications, the less flexible they are. And Dora is treacherous.

Let's talk about entrepreneurship. It's hard to pull, but you can get it.

1 year can't, I have to pull experience. If it doesn't work for 2 years, I can guarantee when it will be pulled. "Let's just watch the joke".

Finance says that white la is like pumping popcorn ==

Experience, just money can't do it.

I think finance is usury. Ha ha!!!

Don't talk about it. 88

If I still know the age of marriage, I should call you uncle, listen to the child's voice, I think he has his own gradually, and he will not let you worry about it in the future, after all, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, if that girl is self-motivated, can she endure hardships or can you consider it? Her family and the environment in which he grew up are like that all his life, and no one can change it, and I will understand to your son that you care.

The child is unable to solve the problem on his own, so he turns to his parents for help. ......Specifically, the words and deeds of children asking their parents for help include taking the initiative to ask questions or ask for help from parents, telling parents about their grievances, and taking the initiative to get close to and communicate with parents.

1. Some children will go directly to their parents to ask their own problems, or ask for help directly.

When a child encounters a problem that he cannot solve, the most direct way to ask his parents for help is to ask their parents questions or Jian Jiling to ask for help directly. ......Children who adopt this behavior generally have a relatively simple and direct personality, and when they find that they are unable to solve the difficulties they encounter, they will go to their parents for help instead of beating around the bush. ......Since parents can get their children's help information in the first place, this situation is most beneficial for parents to help their children solve difficulties.

2. Some children will tell their parents about their struggles.

Some children will also seek help from their parents when they encounter difficulties that cannot be solved, but their methods of asking for help are relatively tactful. ......Specifically, these children will go to their parents to talk about their struggles in order to get their parents' attention, and then get help and support from their parents. ......This type of child is more introverted, so it is not so direct to ask the parents for help, so the parents can only understand the situation and provide help after communicating with the child.

3. In addition, there are some children who will not ask for help directly, but will take the initiative to get close to and communicate with their parents.

In addition to the above two situations, there is another special situation, that is, some children do not directly seek help from their parents after encountering difficulties, but take the initiative to get close to and communicate with their parents to win the help of their parents. ......Such children do not communicate much with their parents in normal times, but when they encounter difficulties that cannot be solved, they will take the initiative to approach their parents more actively, and the relationship with their parents will be much closer. If parents feel the difference, they will communicate with their children, understand the problems they are experiencing, and offer help.

But if parents are careless, they may miss out, which is very detrimental to the child's problem.

Recommend reading a book "Discovering Mother" to your child.

This book is a monograph on maternal education that the author has worked hard for ten years. From the perspective of mothers, the author has seriously and deeply thought about some nuclear problems in human society, and put forward a series of major propositions related to the fate of the entire human race. Its systematic, forward-looking, profound connotation, and the construction of human culture at the turn of the century will make this book have an outstanding enlightenment status in the century-old wave of humanities.

It's a unique voice that we have to listen to.

At present, the education that human beings emphasize is "explicit education", but they do not pay attention to the more essential and important "latent education". Morality, courage, responsibility, etc., do not work through the "teaching" of educators, but can only achieve their goals through the "doing" of educators. In the past, the pedagogy was the pedagogy of "teaching", and the pedagogy of the future will be the pedagogy of "doing".

The detailed examples and delicate and sincere reasoning in this book all lead the reader into a new realm of motherhood.

I'm a secondary school teacher, I wonder how old your child is? What grade are you in? The estimate is relatively small.

Don't be impatient with your child's education first, many parents will be very anxious, for example, poor habits hope that he will change tomorrow, poor grades hope to rely on full marks tomorrow, in fact, this is impossible, you have to give him enough time, educate him to know the reason, move with emotion, and persuade many times if it doesn't work. It's okay if children under the age of 10 are punished appropriately, such as hitting the palms, because they can't remember what you said.

Educating children is more important than words, parents must pay attention to every word and deed, and you must do it yourself first if you want him to do it.

First of all, if the child is young, pay attention to the language you speak, he may not be able to understand, then the effect is very limited, second, you must have enough patience, third, you must have a bottom line, the child cannot be perfect, give him time and space to change, fourth, it is very important to do it yourself.

Most of today's children are only children, and their sense of self-centeredness is relatively strong, and it will not work to use the past set, so you husband and wife must work together, discuss, one pretends to be red and one pretends to be white, when the child makes a mistake, he or she must be severely criticized first, and then even if he (she) cries, ignore him (her) but there must be only one present at that time, and then the other one will come out after a while, first say that the one is not, and then dissuade and enlighten the child, I believe the effect will be much better

My child has a similar situation; It has improved slightly in the past six months. My approach is: when he does something wrong, he warns him in time, explains the harm, clarifies his own views, and provides a method for reference.

When he is not focused on doing things, stop him in time, let him play for a while or do other things, especially if he is not focused on learning, and resolutely do not let him learn.

When the child is crying urgently, I shut up and let him calm down before guiding him.

It's just a little bit better after half a year, so take your time! We all feel the same way, so please let us know when you find a good solution. Thank you!

Empathy, a deep sense of powerlessness. Give up, can't bear it, don't give up, can't see the end.

The love of his family may have also given him a certain amount of pressure, such as his mother fainting several times.

He was suddenly sick, dangerous, and under a lot of pressure, and his mother was also very weak, on the one hand, he felt that his condition was terrible, and on the other hand, he would have thoughts of self-blame, feeling that he was not good - but he was not willing to be sick.

And in terms of age, 16 years old was also very rebellious, he is now mostly a bit broken, your education methods are more traditional, like to say "repay your parents" ah "sensible", if your parents can't communicate with him, it's best to ask a psychiatrist to counsel him, so that he understands that illness is a test in life, he has won the fight against illness, it is a medal in his life, and he should pay attention to maintaining his body in the future, and don't have too much pressure, people don't know what will happen in their lives, It's good to carry it.

In terms of education, don't be too utilitarian, he will say that the love of relatives is hypocritical, which may be related to the fact that parents like to say "repay", originally children of this age are out of a semi-mature state, on the one hand, they want to embody themselves, on the other hand, they do not have enough understanding of society, and they feel that adults are hypocritical and dirty is their mantra, and only when they are truly mature and sensible (some people have children themselves to be considered really sensible) can they understand the distress of their parents. Children at this stage are indeed very annoying, ignorant and manic, but the natural physiological stage, when everyone came from, is just because of various reasons, the state of performance is different.

Don't surround him too much, it will put pressure on him, and at the same time, it will make him arrogant, and subconsciously feel that you are pampering and spoiling him, and you have to do whatever you want. To keep calm, you can physically take him to the doctor for follow-up visits every once in a while, so that professionals can communicate with him, but when describing his exercise situation next to him, you can't talk in a complaining and complaining tone, you should try to describe it objectively and seek the doctor's advice. If you really don't feel comfortable playing basketball, you can watch it, but don't let him know that his mother is watching him, for reasons stated in the first sentence of this paragraph.

If it is possible, as I said earlier, ask a professional psychological counselor to guide him, and try to communicate with him sensibly if there is no condition, don't cry or be too tough, and don't always chatter. Children at this age are actually ignorant, and they understand all the big truths, but they don't really understand them.

Youth is a wonderful movie, and everyone is their own director. The only thing that can really change is time ...

Tangled, just in time for the boy's rebellious period, raise a little pet he likes, even if he follows to watch and play basketball, don't let him find out, let him feel that the love of his parents is selfless, not hypocritical, communicate with the school teacher, let the teacher talk to him, now the child can listen to the teacher's words, but is unwilling to support the parents, at this time a big sadness, I hope your child will be ** as soon as possible.

This psychiatrist helped him understand that he had changed because of his illness.

When I feel helpless, I think of my family and friends first. They are the closest people in my life and the people I trust the most. Not only were they able to provide me with moral support, but they were also able to help me solve my problems and find solutions.

1.I would think of my parents first. My parents have been the strongest and most reliable pillars in my life.

No matter what problems I encountered, they were always willing to listen and understand me, and gave me the most sincere and practical advice and support. They were always there for me when I needed them and gave me courage and confidence.

2.I also think of my friends. My friends are the loveliest and funniest people in my life.

They were always able to bring me laughter and joy and reached out when I needed help. They are not only my partners and confidants in life, but also my spiritual pillar and inspirational strength.

3.When I feel helpless, I usually share my feelings and thoughts with my family and hidden friends. They were always willing to listen to me and gave me the most sincere and practical advice and support.

Their support and encouragement gave me the courage and confidence to face difficulties and challenges.

In short, my family and friends are the most precious treasures in my life. They are not only the closest and most reliable people in my life, but also my strong backing and spiritual support. When I needed help and support the most, they were always there for me and gave me courage and strength.