Why is this happening in my life, and does my marriage need to continue? 5

From your analysis, it can be seen that your husband is a person with no ambitions, and it is his dream to live a mediocre life.

Living with such a person is actually suffering for yourself.

I know you're reluctant now, but how many years of youth can you squander?

My opinion is: while you don't have children yet, while you're still young, leave and cut through the mess quickly.

I know you're struggling right now, after all, there is still an emotional foundation.

You can talk to your husband, talk about your ideas, talk about your ambitions, but I think your husband is a hopeless person.

No sense of responsibility, no self-motivation, I really don't know what you like about him, you are reluctant to let him ** sober up, when you have a child, you are old and yellow, even if you leave, it will be difficult.

A woman with a child is getting older, and it is difficult for you to find a new one!!

You can look at your husband's performance again and then decide if you want to have children or not, whether you want to continue or not.

Be sensible If your life is difficult, your parents will also be heartbroken!

Maybe in some corner of the world, a good man is waiting for you, give yourself a way!

He just didn't care, you guide him well. You've known each other for 3 years before you got married, and you must know each other better, but sometimes people think about his shortcomings when they are angry, and you should think about his advantages.

Poor woman, what can you do with such a man, leave it and find another one, you will live like this for the rest of your life without being aggrieved to death, any man must be good, don't ask him to feed you, you must have a heart.

After knowing each other for three years, you didn't understand it clearly?

Then why did you marry him in the first place?

Don't you have anything in common?

Life is like this, it can't be smooth everywhere, if you can't change, you have to adapt, look at it from a different angle, maybe you will have a different discovery, complaining and nagging that doesn't hurt or itch will only make you more painful and make others more numb!

One, humble love, without hope and light.

Love requires the contribution of both parties, and a marriage that only oneself adheres to and accommodates has long lost the meaning of marriage itself.

Humble love in marriage, without hope and light. You want to insist on this marriage and love, but he said that he and you are only family and no longer love you.

Under the pretext of family affection, I am not willing to give more to you, and I am not willing to take on a responsibility and obligation as a husband and wife. And you, in order to save his heart, in order to get his response, you are willing to pay again and again, humble to the extreme.

When you lower yourself again and again, the marriage does not have the meaning of lasting.

2. Can't talk together.

Weak feelings make people mediocre, the feelings between husband and wife continue to be cold and weak, and marriages are equally mediocre and boring. The main reason for such a situation is mostly because a couple of men and women have no common topic and cannot talk together. Sometimes couples who have more common topics and common professional skills are prone to arguments and fights over some kind of disagreement.

Relatively speaking, each has its own strengths and interests, but it is easy to get along with each other. But seriously, the specific occupation and professional aspects can naturally be different, but it is better for a couple to be in the same class in terms of spiritual level and ideological height.

3. Obvious dislike.

Once one party obviously looks down on his partner and obviously dislikes the other party, then it can be said that in addition to the feeling of love has disappeared, they may not even have the idea of treating each other as ordinary friends with the same status, but have become a state in which one party looks down on the other party and forces himself to endure and settle, and the relationship between husband and wife can be so good?

A good marriage, no matter how many bumps and bumps there are in the passing years, love will always become the strongest root. You love me, and I happen to like you, and we can only get along with each other if we are interested in each other.

Marriage is not a necessary experience in life, because some people can live happily without getting married, some people can live happily because they are married, marriage can be self-chosen, if you think it is necessary, then it is necessary, and if it is not necessary, there is no need, but I feel that most people are not married because they can't meet the right person.

In fact, in life, marriage is something that can be experienced, but it is not something that has to be experienced. Marriage is a great experience, but not everyone has to go through it. Because a lot of married people don't actually live the happy life they want, some people want to get married at the same age and then have children quickly and take care of them.

It is not easy for children to grow up, work, and start a family, and if you want to help Zhang Luo get married, have children, and take care of children, there will be countless problems and countless moments of collapse. Sometimes you wonder, what's the point of living like this? Of course, society nowadays, especially their parents, must be very concerned about the marriage of their children.

Of course, there are many unmarried children who are constantly experiencing the urging of their parents, which makes the children who are not nervous very frustrated and their parents are also very anxious.

Whether or not to enter into marriage is personal freedom. Different choices will have different results. Marriage is a system and contract, which stipulates that both parties form a family organization to have children and live together.

As women become financially independent, they become less and less dependent on men. In ancient times, women were like a man's private property, and a man could have more than one woman. The so-called three wives and four concubines are all part of a man's property.

In this way the lineage is determined and it is determined whether it is a child or not.

In modern society, marriage breaks this requirement. Modern people are more concerned about feelings, and if there is no solid emotional foundation, even if they are married, there will be conflicts and even breakdowns. Marriage is a formality.

With a diverse and inclusive society, choosing a lifestyle will be an individual freedom.

Personally, I think that marriage is indeed a must in life, because marriage symbolizes the fruit of love between two people, and marriage can allow two people to live together forever.

Of course not. Because marriage is not a necessity for us, as long as we are financially independent, we can live well on our own.

Of course not. Because now each of us is financially independent and has our own work and life, it is not necessary to get married.

Yes, everyone will go through marriage in order to get a person who loves them very much, and there will also be a good future to complete childbearing. It can be passed down from generation to generation.