I went on a blind date today, do you want to agree?

I think that if you have physical defects, you don't necessarily have to match someone who is also defective on the other hand, and it is possible to find someone who is normal or even excellent in all aspects, and you are only 21, which is quite young, and it is not enough to get married legally. As long as you are willing to work hard, spend a few years, break through, have a certain economic strength, be more mature, have a better personality, and be responsible, it is quite promising to find a wife that you are satisfied with.

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Marrying someone you don't like is irresponsible to yourself and to each other, the thoughts of your family are only for your reference, and you have to be a person who can think independently This has nothing to do with the physical situation, modern times are not primitive societies, and now the emphasis is on mental power rather than physical strength

You have been talking for a long time, and you have put forward so many conditions, yours and hers, I ask you:

What do you think of her heart? Have you looked her eyes closely? Did you ask her about her husband's requirements? Have you asked her outlook on life? What kind of life do you want? Do you think that if you marry you, will she stay with her for life?

After all, your own life is ruined in your own hands willingly, and you are swayed by others, even if you live a good life, you will be unhappy for the rest of your life.

Can you be in more contact with the career important? Life is not only about career, but also about love and family, as well as your possible wife and your hard-working parents, people are so ambitious when they are young, and finally find that many people who are smarter and more capable than themselves are just like this, but not as good as themselves.

Mentally problematic? If you decide to marry her, treat her sincerely, you can see that she is also quite introverted, if you don't want to, politely refuse, don't hurt her self-esteem, you can't find any good girls, because you yourself have polio.

i am the master of my fate, the captain of my soul.

I agree, not because I have flaws, you too, not because I pity you, not because I am afraid that if I miss it, you will not find a better one, but when I first met, I really liked you.

What's wrong with having a problem with intelligence? Will she hurt you? Will you split your legs?

What's wrong with a physical defect? Are you sure she's mentally retarded?

Let's get along for a while. As for such a decision.

Personally, if it makes you unhappy, you just don't say anything to me.

If you don't feel for him, say no, and if you feel it, agree.

Yes, it's not easy to touch once, it means that the two of you are destined!

So do you think you can find a good wife?

Think for yourself about your future plans.

Isn't your disease curable?

On a blind date, if the other party puts forward their own requirements or expectations that you are not willing to meet, then you need to consider the following:

1.Rational thinking: First of all, you need to think rationally and evaluate whether the other party's request is reasonable, and ask yourself if you can accept it.

2.Open communication: If you don't feel like you can meet the other person's request, then you need to be honest with them about your thoughts and feelings. At the same time, listen to each other's opinions and feedback, and respect each other's choices and decisions.

3.Find common ground: Even if you have some differences or differences, you can find some common ground to connect and communicate. For example, you can talk about hobbies, career development, and other topics to improve the understanding between them.

4.Be polite and respectful: Be polite and respectful in all situations and avoid using aggressive language or celery behavior. This is how you can build a positive relationship and a good impression.

In conclusion, it is necessary to maintain an open and positive attitude when dealing with the situation, while focusing on communication and understanding to find the best solution. If you really can't meet the other person's request, then be honest about your thoughts and look for other possible solutions.

Hello, in a blind date, sometimes there is a situation where one or the other can be chosen, which may make one party feel very embarrassed and embarrassed at this time. Let's talk about what you should do when you find yourself choosing one of two on a blind date. First, calm down.

Regardless of whether you are selected or eliminated, maintain a good emotional state. If you are chosen, of course you will be happy; If you are eliminated, you may feel lost, but you don't need to be too depressed. After all, blind date is an attempt, success and failure can happen, and there is no need to take it too seriously.

Second, reflect on your own problems. If you are eliminated, you can think back to the process of the blind date to see if you said the wrong topic, or when you lost your temper. Whether you choose a blind date or choose your hobbies and interests to make friends, you must learn to self-reflect.

By identifying your own problems, you can better improve your friendship skills. Third, accept the unexpected. Sometimes, you may feel that both parties are in love, but the other person does not.

At this point, there may be some upset, but it's best to accept the situation. If you are arranging a process and the other party is not willing to participate, you should give the other party more understanding at this time. On the way to finding love, we should learn to accept the unexpected results, rather than over-fantasizing and expecting.

Fourth, a positive mindset is key. Whether you are selected or eliminated, you must maintain a positive attitude. The blind date process is both an experience and an opportunity, and we can learn a lot from it.

Learn to absorb these experiences and constantly improve your ability to make friends, even interpersonal skills. Finally, don't forget that there are some things that are unpredictable. In the process of courtship, we cannot always succeed.

However, we can control ourselves and work on the way we deal with this "frustration". If we can face all this positively, then we will have a good life. Therefore, you must stabilize your mentality, keep your eyes open, and find the most suitable person.

To be honest, I actually don't think it's a big deal to be chosen one or the other on a blind date, because many times we are making choices and being chosen in life. It's normal to have a two-choice situation, because not only do you have to do the screening, but others also have to do the screening, and you think it's appropriate, but others don't necessarily think it's appropriate, so it's the result of two people choosing each other. I wish you a successful blind date.

Yes. Blind dates are not terrible, and you don't have to be nervous, just deal with it normally, go on a blind date with the mentality of making friends, and you will play very well. There are many ways to find a partner, and blind date is one of the most direct.

In real life, there are many opportunities for men and women to come into contact, but who can directly tell each other the words of admiration? will only bury this love deep in my heart, always hoping that the opportunity will come, but if I am thin-skinned and do not take the initiative, where will the opportunity come. But the blind date is different, from the moment they meet, the nature is set, if they match, it is their boyfriend and girlfriend.

This method is convenient and fast, and it is not easy to miss a good marriage. If the blind date fails, there are no regrets, and don't be disappointed, you should make more friends, so why not have more friends? Correct your mentality, regard blind date as another channel to find a partner, the phase is very good, the match is not in the fall, and like-minded people can also make friends.

Knowing that blind dates are also beneficial, some people can't step out of that hurdle in their hearts, and feel that they are incompetent when they go on a blind date. I just want to prove that I can do it, and I can find someone who is satisfactory on my own. This kind of idea is good, there are many people who have this idea, but the reality is very cruel, and few people can get their wish.

The reasons for this are none other than the following: aLack of initiative, partial belief in fate B

The circle of life is narrow, and there is little contact with the opposite sexThe criteria for mate selection are too high, and a suitable d. cannot be foundThe other party is too good, and I don't have the confidence to chase after it, in order to reassure my parents, I should usually communicate with them more.

You can take the initiative to tell your parents about your positive thoughts, so that they can understand that you have indeed put your life's major events at ease, and let them know that you have indeed put into action, so that they can rest assured of you and will not frequently urge marriage. For blind dates arranged by parents, they should actively cooperate. Even if you don't want to, you have to pretend to be happy.

If you are not satisfied with the other party, you don't have to make compromises, just explain it clearly to your parents, and when your parents are more stubborn, you must have the patience to talk to them and try to persuade them.