What do I mean by saying this, what would you do if you were her, what would she think?

I think you have to figure out a few things :

1. Do you love her so you live with her?

2. Did you live together to marry her?

3. Do you want to get married because you love her?

4. Do you love her because you want to get married?

5. Does she love you?

6. Does she want to marry you?

7. Are you the one she wants to marry?

I think you have too many questions to talk to her about. First of all, let's make sure what she's like. You can't make plans until you understand what she's thinking.

You don't even know what she's like now, it's just that she's bothered, so what's the use? No matter how hard you try, you can't figure it out. So I suggest you sit down with her early and have a quiet talk.

Ask her about her thoughts and intentions. Then let's make plans!

It seems that there are a lot of people who are emotional.

Let me start with a few words about my colleague.

My classmate is the same as you, he and his girlfriend have known each other for 5 years, got along for 3 years, and the woman has been to his house several times, but the man has never been to the woman's house, and no one in the woman's family knows about the man's existence, so my colleague also broke up with his girlfriend, but in the end they are still together, and there is no result until now.

I think there are three main reasons for such girls: 1. The woman feels that the man's conditions are not good and cannot meet the requirements of the woman's heart, which may be manifested in the economy or the man's face, 2. The hometown of the man and the woman may be too far apart, 3. The woman has other people in her heart, or. The woman is afraid of getting married.

There are many reasons for this, but the most important one depends on the personality of both men and women.

Of course, if it were me, I wouldn't do it, since I decided to be together, I would definitely think about getting married, there must be a reason for the delay in getting married, I think, first of all, you have to understand the reason why she doesn't want to get married, if it's an economic reason, you can talk to her, if it really doesn't work, just divide it.

Emotional matters can only be followed.

You said those words = breakup speeches. It hurts a lot for a girl who loves you. On the contrary, it is liberating that since she has already cohabited, she is leaving herself to you, and as for his family factors, you should try to understand and not speculate.

Be more understanding.

If she loves you very much and hears about you, she will be nervous and should think seriously about your future!

If she still has some uncertainties in her heart, talk to her and untie some ......knots in her heartIf she has a lot of uncertainty in her heart, let's separate for a while, so that both parties will be clearer and more ......rational when they can see the relationshipOr a little more emotional......

Actually, I envy your girl's ......

If the balance of her love for you and some of her own reasons cannot be distinguished, then ask yourself why you came together in the first place, and after coming together, is it because she is used to being with you all the time, or is it for true ......love

I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.

Upstairs. Are you sure you love her? Then put up with her. Does she love you? If love. You still have to put up with her.

Don't be impulsive. If you break up easily. I promise you'll regret it.

PS: A woman has a change of heart. Don't try to impress him again. It will only make you lose your dignity.

I think the personality issues are the most important, and the others are minor issues

A woman who really loves you is happy to go to your house and is even more happy to take you to her house, if not, she has a problem. It's simple

I shouldn't say that, I really don't have to care too much about what others say? The key is to strengthen your self-cultivation and cultivate self-confidence!

What others say you really don't have to care too much? The key is to strengthen self-cultivation for yourself, cultivate self-confidence, be optimistic and open-minded, and have temperament Any woman wants it.

Of course not, it means that this B was originally talking, but he got along with A's boyfriend and slept together.

Women scold women for being unconfident and self-contemptuous.

I read the content, and I didn't see B saying that A was ugly, but she was tired of being played with by the previous degree, and no one wanted it anymore. If you want me to say, as long as there are women who want men, the key is to be confident and believe that you can. I believe that I can do it.

Oh, I'm sorry. I can't stand it, it's too messy, it's confused.

What else can I do apologize first.

She doesn't have any difficulties at work and needs help. You subtly treat her as a girlfriend, she shouldn't be used to it, let's confirm the relationship with her first, otherwise the girl will be uneasy, and whether you are interested in her or not, it will not be good for people to misunderstand.

Most girls will let the boys guess their words at ease, especially if the relationship has not been clearly determined, it can be regarded as a girl's reserve, and the boy needs to be careful and slowly experienced, if you really like her.

It's just my personal opinion, and I haven't been in a relationship, so I'm actually here to cheat on points.

You're interfering too much in her life......She felt that there was no relative freedom ......