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Tell her that life is actually wonderful.
You're going to have a good relationship with her.
But don't go too far.
When you have something to do, you can hint at it moderately.
If she's disgusted, then you can change your face and say something that is right to her.
Read more news, useful books and whatever.
I often go to play basketball.
Pay attention to hygiene. Don't get too close to other girls.
Just take your time.
Learn more about her hobbies.
Walk on the same road with her.
You have to take your time.
We must believe that Jin Cheng is open.
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Wait until it's not the age of puppy love to tell him.
You can be good friends until then.
That way she won't hate you.
You can study well, too.
We can still be together in the future.
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When she is upset, she will ask you what to do, which means that she has a crush on you and makes her happy.
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Make your academic performance much better than hers! You can tutor her (and for yourself).
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If grades are the most important thing for parents when their children are studying, then puppy love is the second most important thing for parents. I believe that during the study period, parents have repeatedly warned us not to fall in love. But people have seven emotions and six desires.
At the age of first love in junior high school and high school, children often have ignorant love. As parents, we should not abuse them, but guide them correctly. What are the dangers of puppy love?
What are the dangers of puppy love?
First of all, the impact on learning is very severe. The problem of early love has ruined the studies of many outstanding students and ruined the future of many children. There are many teenagers who repeat training, have excellent grades, and have excellent grades, but in the end, because of early love, they are too curious, too excited, too persistent, too addicted to the fantasy of love, and cannot concentrate on learning
Second, it affects the child's physical development. Adolescents are at the peak of their physical development and are not yet fully mature. Bearing this emotional burden on their immature minds can have a serious adverse effect on their physical development.
Since the mood of the baby finch will affect the endocrine, teenagers in a state of early love tend to control their emotions, have great mood swings, and are prone to inexplicable troubles, resulting in lack of energy, headaches, palpitations, insomnia, etc., which affects health. Physical development.
Third, it affects the psychological development of children. The psychological development of adolescence is the strongest and the most vulnerable. During this period, the development of imagination accelerates, sex hormones are produced and strengthened, stimulants of the nervous system are strengthened.
Lack of calm thinking, easy to get hurt. His immature heart often does not dare to bear a heavy burden due to the sudden change in the situation, how can he have the energy to bear the joys and sorrows of feelings. Therefore, adolescent love is extremely unstable and often ends in failure.
For the problem of early love in adolescent children, parents should guide and educate their children, instead of making themselves uncomfortable, it is better to focus on learning and lay a solid foundation for a better life in the future.
Fourth, it is difficult to obtain the recognition of family, study and society. For the adolescent child, there is no support and permission in all aspects, there will be a lot of stress and contradiction in all aspects, so that puppy love is a distraction, yes, there are changes in their own interests and goals, and most of these changes are affecting people. It is a negative effect that is detrimental to one's temperament, character, outlook on life, and journey of the worldview.
5. Affect normal love life. The reason why love is called a person's life's event is because it occupies an important place in life. However, because young people are not deeply involved in the world, inexperienced, inexperienced in life, and lack sufficient understanding of society, emotions are greater than rationality.
Adolescent boys and girls fall in love with each other, which can be said to be both physical and mental.
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The first is the traditional concept, and the second is the physical.
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Traditionally, when it comes to falling in love, it is generally believed that girls suffer losses, not to mention early love.
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According to the traditional concept, it is generally girls who suffer from early love.
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Girls, don't fall in love! When I was a student, everything was about learning! So I especially admire those girls who are very good-looking, beautiful, have excellent grades, and have talents, anyway, they are perfect in all aspects.
And they can really be alone and not fall in love, no matter how many boys there are, how good the boys pursue them fiercely. They will only do their own thing! Make yourself better and better.
I think they're so cool!
Don't fall in love! I really want to say to me in high school, don't fall in love! Because you really don't have a good ability to control your emotions, you don't have the ability not to be affected by feelings, obviously your grades are just a little colorful, and it is very likely to break through one book, why do you choose to fall in love?
Isn't it okay to keep your high aloof and mysterious?! Why does the high school homeroom teacher hate you so much for being in love, you know?!
Although now I have everything I have, I am very satisfied! But I really want to say, you might be better! Go to a better university, have a better learning environment, have a better degree, meet better people, get a higher salary, and live a more comfortable life!
Isn't it?
Yes, it does not necessarily mean that people with higher education necessarily have a better life than those with low education. But the reality is that people with high academic qualifications really get a lot of preferential treatment. Even if you do something together, you have to put in a thousand times the effort at this stage, and you may not reach the height of others!
Because that's the result of years of hard work that someone else has been working on!
Got it? Study hard!
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Not necessarily, in fact, it is also a kind of growth, whether it is love each other but can't, or everything like glue and so on, he will form part of your future self in life.
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It still depends on who you meet, and generally speaking, it's not that good. It's better not to give it lightly.
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Not all girls nowadays like early love and early marriage, and there is a certain bias and misunderstanding of this view. Girls' concepts of love and marriage are diverse, and different people have different choices and preferences.
However, some girls may be quick to start falling in love at an earlier age and consider marriage for reasons that may include the following:
Personal Emotions and Growth: Some girls may have met special people or experiences at an earlier age, have a stronger desire for love and marriage, or have certain expectations for building a family and developing personal emotional growth.
Socio-environmental and cultural influences: Certain socio-cultural backgrounds or regions may place greater emphasis on the importance of early marriage and family, which may influence an individual's choices and decision-making.
Social pressure and peer influences: Some of your peers are starting to fall in love or get married, which can put some social pressure on others and make them feel like they need to follow up.
However, there are also many girls who choose to put their love and marriage behind and focus on education, career, and personal growth in order to better develop themselves and pursue their dreams. Everyone's choices are independent and depend on the individual's values, experiences, and goals. It is important to respect everyone's choices and avoid generalized views.
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I think the girls I know who are getting married at an early age are not having a good time, they believe in love at first, but they lose in life. There are always some girls around me, who get married in a hurry, but they are the same age, but they choose marriage, and when asked about them, they only say "because of love". And the main reasons why they are not doing well are.
First, since a girl chose marriage in her early 20s, I think she must have the life she is pursuing, after all, this is her life, not something that others can control.
I have a friend around me, who got married early after zero, and was willing to live with that man, and she felt that she was very happy.
I have to say that the current post-00s are more anxious than the post-90s, just like pressing the accelerator button, some people are studying in school, some people are going to the workplace, and some people are in a hurry to get married and have children.
Second, no matter which choice it is, it is a kind of life, and there is no right or wrong in each one.
And those girls who are almost 30 years old and have not yet married have become a burden on their parents' hearts, and they have also become a group of late marriages.
In fact, early marriage and late marriage are both a kind of life, both good and bad, with different experiences and different feelings.
Third, girls who marry early will suffer more in the early stage.
Why do girls who marry early suffer more in the early stage?
Because girls who marry early, often just graduate, or just come out to work for two years, they get married in a hurry, every day is faced with firewood, rice, oil and salt, but also to experience the hardships of pregnancy for ten months, and when the child is born, they have to take care of the child, obviously they are all children, but they have to take care of another child like a mother.
I have to say that girls who get married early will really experience the difficulties of life early and suffer a lot of hardships early.
There is a girl next to me, for example, she was pregnant when she just turned 20, and gave birth to a boy, while other girls go home with her sisters every day to drink milk tea, she is bored at home every day with a baby.
Her youth has been given to the family, and all the time has been given to the family, does it feel very distressing to see such a girl? But there is no way Since I have chosen to marry so early, I must forget that I am a girl, and strive to be a good role as a mother and wife.
Therefore, although early marriage is very difficult in the early stage, and you can't enjoy your youth when you are young, it is also beneficial, such as being able to feel the happiness of being a mother, and the child is still very young when he grows up, because he gets married early, maybe he can work hard with his husband in his 20s. So be rational about your views.
That's not right, don't wronged yourself, a physical girl can be a psychological boy, maybe when you grow up and know the benefits of being a girl, you will remember how cute you were at that time. If you are really uncomfortable, you can do some mental correction, which is actually very easy. Don't pay attention to what others say, just be happy, life is just a few decades, it's too short to live for yourself, what do you care about others.
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