How to choose the crossroads of love? Please high finger point?

Dude, first of all, if it's not sincere

If you just have a good feeling, you can have a relationship with cuteness

But go deeper into the future

Then you have to choose the one that will help you in your career

Don't be cute

Cuteness will only add to your burden and resentment

Maybe at some point the cards will be scattered

Think about you first.

How infatuated you are that I would rather be against it at home

Be with you too

What about you? Do you want to be a negative man?

Dude: It's not our men's doing

Wake up for yourself

Nothing matters, happiness is the most important thing.

Anyway, it's good to be happy together.

A common goal is happiness.

What happiness is is carefree and unfiltered. Happy.

You have two questions, and you're just talking about money or not.

So what, are you happy when you have money?

Are you unhappy if you don't have money?

If you really love it, it is also fragrant for two people to eat a steamed bun.

You go to die, big carrot.

Pick the first one

It's useless for a woman to be just cute

It is important to have rich connotations

Since you have loved one before, continue to love

Give up that detour

Friend, seriously, I was a little angry when I saw your question, how can you love two people at the same time? But I believe in one thing"Bystanders clear"I'll tell you, it's right to cherish what you can't eat if you like what you can't eat. Since the person who went to school loves you so much and supports you, what more do you want?

Don't go to sing Liu Ruoying's later and be sad alone!

If you choose the latter, it is equivalent to betraying the former, love must come first and come first, and a man must shoulder the responsibility! Think for yourself, but if you don't have a chance, I'm 100% sure that the girl who went to college will dump you, but can't a man make an effort for the woman he loves?

When you stand at the crossroads of your relationship, it is most likely that your relationship with your other half has broken down. Faced with a choice, do you choose to stay or leave? If it were me, I would choose to leave.

has said that feelings are their own business and should be decided by themselves. In that case, it is already about the individual, and we should be selfish and think more about ourselves when making decisions. After all, the relationship in front of you has been shattered, the so-called broken mirror cannot be reunited, in the face of reality, you can no longer expect more from the other party, because he can't take care of you anymore, and he will no longer consider all aspects of you like when the relationship is good.

Indeed, in the world of love, we are accustomed to giving for each other and making sacrifices for each other, but we forget to pay more for ourselves and be kind to ourselves. Now, the relationship is on the verge of collapse, and we know that it is too late to redeem the endgame, so we choose not to love. Since you choose not to love, please turn around and leave silently, leaving no thoughts, just like Xu Zhimo wrote, "I wave my sleeves and don't take away a cloud."

When leaving, make clear to that person that you are firm in your position, never waver, do not have illusions, and do not leave the other party a chance to redeem. But remember, hold back your tears, smile, and resolutely cut off your love even if you are reluctant to give up. Don't let him see your weakness and hesitation, because your slightest hesitation will give him the illusion that he wants to get back together.

Don't get too excited, calmly read all the prepared lines, don't be too aggressive, as the so-called "be a man and leave a line, and see each other in the future".

After turning around, don't look back, don't look at the other person anymore, they don't belong to you anymore. Hide all the past experiences, no longer evoke the memories of the past, even if there were all kinds of good things before, they all turned into scattered dust at this moment.

After leaving the crossroads, you have to start a new life that belongs only to you, and the road of life is still very long, and you have to plan your future well. You have returned to your life as a person, and you need to take responsibility for yourself and do what is meaningful to you. The things of the past are no longer worth remembering, we need to turn our grief and anger into strength, use this power to inspire ourselves to move forward bravely, continue to learn new things, arm ourselves with knowledge, and meet a better future with a progressive attitude.

Reality is cruel, but only by experiencing the devastation of reality can we grow. Only by learning from emotional frustrations and summing up lessons and lessons can we continue to move forward in later life. What you can't get is always in turmoil, and if you get it but don't know how to cherish it, then, don't get entangled if you lose it.

Standing at the crossroads of feelings, if you don't love anymore, please break up peacefully, never see each other again, and be safe with each other, which is a good destination for both parties.

Personally, I think that looking for a boyfriend is older than myself, and it is not suitable for the same age, and the men's conference is more caring for girls. What happens between you can feel that the love is not real, it can't stand the test, the union of husband and wife is not a simple union of two people, but also a union of two families, please think twice!

163 is still too short, his parents took his son as the emperor, girl, they have a high vision, you haven't married, if you marry, you have to be bullied by them every day, you are the only daughter loved by your parents, and your boyfriend is a person who listens to his parents, they don't know to speak for you, this kind of in-laws still don't want it, you will be bullied in the future, your parents will cry.

Go on, give her spiritual help.

See what the difficulty is. Only in adversity can we see the truth.

Calm down for a while. The main question is: does she love you?

Peach blossom luck is often uncertain, sometimes when you are single, there is no right boy, sometimes, when you have a boyfriend, but there are three or four suitors to pursue at the same time, maybe God is joking with you, maybe many things are so destined, sometimes when you have that friend, but there is the right person, at this time you can only helplessly wave goodbye to that person, after all, you are late, I am already someone else's person, sometimes the order of appearance is really important.

And sometimes, you will meet two boys at the same time to chase you, at this time you stand at the crossroads of feelings, and begin to struggle with which one to choose, looking at it seems that both of them are very good to you, both of them seem to be true love for you, today this one invites you to dinner, tomorrow that one also says to invite you to dinner and watch a movie, he says to send you home, and the other one also says to take you there to play. At this time, you need to keep your eyes open, every boy is a person with superior intelligence and omnipotence when chasing girls, and when chasing girls, he is probably the most handsome and powerful time in his life, everyone must not be confused by the appearance of coaxing you, but to see how he treats you when you are together, chat more with two people, see if your three views match, but also look at his friends, the people around him, so that you can see the most real him, standing at the intersection of choices, must not look at the material conditions that you have now, but look at the heart of the place, and your heart, follow your heart, choose your most correct person, fate will let you meet, and you will eventually meet your other half.

If you are at an awkward crossroads right now, you must follow your heart's choice. If you choose a path you don't like, it's hard to turn back. Once you have chosen a certain path, you have to finish it on your knees. Now when you choose, you must carefully analyze.

Ask what the situation in the world is, and teach people to live and die. Love is an eternal topic for human beings. So when emotions are facing a crossroads, how should we choose?

From the traditional form of coexistence in our country for thousands of years: male outside, female inside. In the new society where women can hold up half the sky, it is not new for men to dominate inside and women outside.

So what kind of model should we have to get along with our lovers?

It should be a happy thing that an old friend I haven't seen for a long time is coming, but I am a little embarrassed, and I don't know whether I should accept this invitation, because I was estranged from her in the first place.

Let's call her L, I have known L for more than ten years, and for a while, the connection was very good, but it didn't take long for me to gradually distance myself from her, and then she resigned from her position and left the city, and we never met again.

In fact, L people are very good, they don't have any hearts, they are very brief, and they are quite willing to pay for their friends, but she has one of the most ungood shortcomings: she likes to lose her temper, she catches who she rushes when she doesn't go well, and her words are particularly hurtful, although she will be sorry in the future, but this kind of compensation after one or two is acceptable, and if there are many times, everyone will mind.

I just learned this temper of L, and it was incredible to be a punching bag a few times, although she later explained to me that because her parents quarreled all the year round, she lived in a family full of aggression, so her temper was not good, and it was difficult to control her emotions, and I tried my best to understand her, but after all, no one likes to be someone else's punching bag, I said that there was no contact, but in my heart I had decided to gradually alienate her.

This incident also made me understand a truth: how important it is to control your emotions, otherwise it will still hurt your feelings to apologize and remedy it later.

In such a prehistory, I don't know whether I should see it or not, so I have to drag it out first.

Feelings are something that cannot be given in life, it is difficult for the giver to make a move, and the giver will not be grateful because of you, but will have hatred, and then it will be a big loss because of a small loss. What's more, you see how many middle-income people in the world are also living well! Pride is two-sided, and the feeling is one's own.

No matter how much money there is, the important thing is to have the right mentality, money can't buy pride!

All in all. feelings, pick yourself to find comfortable and pleasant methods. Our moments on earth are short, pride is an important memory and wealth, do not be burdened by it, but live in harmony with it.

As for the elements of the standards of other outsiders from the outside world, it has nothing to do with it. Pride can be hidden and simple. Pride is first and foremost to respect and cherish it.

At the crossroads of feelings to choose so, of course, it depends on yourself, no matter what others say, and how others follow you this way, this is not your own choice after all, you still want to listen to your inner thoughts, and when you love someone again, you find that you can't be with him for a lifetime, maybe it's more painful to say it, you want to pursue your true love, but find that the two of you are fruitless, why pay too much, you will think that I will not have no harvest in the future, no result, Then you will be very confused, and you will not know where to go. Personally, I think that first listen to your inner thoughts, and then according to your inner thoughts, to think about whether this road can work, if it works, you will do it, after all, this is what you want to do, if you feel that your idea is not going to work, then decisively give up, because in the face of real life, even if we want to, to do something we want to do, if it is impossible, we still have to face the reality, to live our own real real life. <>

Brother distressed, I read the question you said, and I was a little touched, so I will talk about my opinion. Probably you are now in a state of wandering, with your family's requirements on one side and your personal pursuits on the other, as if water and fire are incompatible and difficult to choose. Both sides are important, but it's hard to give up on either side.

Family affection, blood in water; Love, sacred and noble. In fact, your family and you are at odds when it comes to the criteria for choosing a mate. Historically, due to improper doors and wrong households, there have been countless love tragedies.

I think you're also caught up in such a problem now. Personally, I believe that young people's views on love are sacred, pure and inviolable, and they often regard money, status and other mundane things as the greatest stain on love, which is also the biggest attraction of love for thousands of years. But, after all, we are living in a real life.

Love can be something that can not be considered, life needs to be considered. Maybe your family hopes that your shes should also give you some help in other ways, not just love. You said you've been dating for four months, and that's in love.

As for whether the two people really get along, it will take time to test. So why are you in a hurry to get a name? If she's really what you want, even if it's another four months, or even eight months, the temperature between you won't go down; If a lot of problems are slowly exposed in the future, and your mind changes, I think you will personally have your own way of dealing with it.

So I think, don't be in a hurry to do anything, for your family's attitude, put it aside, let's deal with it coldly, if you are persistent, I don't think your family will interfere strongly. Relying on your gentleness and virtue, she will be able to slowly conquer the hearts of your family and prove that your choice is impeccable; If you feel that your choice is still to be considered in the future, then it is too late to do anything, do you say? The above is purely personal opinion and is for reference only.

It's up to you to decide exactly how to do it. I wish you to find true love soon.