Essay on surpassing others with practical actions instead of being jealous

For example, (e.g., I have always been jealous of the good grades of the girl in the neighborhood, and later surpassed her through hard work. In the middle, you can write that because you are jealous of her, you will oppose him everywhere and rectify her.

Later, my mother found out and educated me, I thought about it for a long time and figured it out. That's it, I just wrote it yesterday, and it was read by the teacher as a model text!

For example, you are not as good as others and are jealous of him or her. But through the teacher. The parent just said that it was good to make up their minds to find him (her).

There is a cartoon about a small flower being scalded to death by a pot of hot boiling water! What a novel idea! Savor it, it's really thought-provoking!

On the road of our life, we often encounter this situation, when a person has achieved certain achievements, like the little flower in the painting, when the first buds bloom, there are always some people to "water the water", as if the "little flower" is their rival, and they are restless if they do not die.

These "scalding water" people often do so out of jealousy. "The jealous suffers because it is not only his own failures and setbacks that torment him, but also others and successes! Aristotle's famous quote hits the nail on the head of jealousy, which is the root cause of such despicable behaviors as "pouring hot water."

When they see other people's achievements, they don't think, "Hello, I'm better than you," but "I'm not good, and I can't make you good." "If you are not as good as others, you must drag others and prevent others from moving forward, so as to satisfy your own psychology.

Jealous people seek trouble for themselves all day long, hold grudges for the progress of others, and try every means to dismantle other people's platforms and pull others down, instead of learning from others' strengths.

Throughout the ages, there have been many people.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhou Yu, a famous general of Eastern Wu, was young and promising, talented, but narrow-minded. When he saw that Kong Ming's talent was above him, he resented Cangtian angrily: "Since Shengyu is born, He Shengliang is born!"

He can't tolerate someone stronger than him! So, he tried to kill Kong Ming several times. The Wei army went south, the enemy was present, and Eastern Wu was in danger, but Zhou Yu, as the commander of Eastern Wu's resistance to Wei, was driven by jealousy to make things difficult for Kong Ming, who came to help him resist Wei.

In order to satisfy his vanity of "being the first in the world", he can even ignore the safety of the country! This is jealousy, which corrodes people's hearts, defiles people's souls, and makes people's morals low, so that many people like Zhou Yu fall into the quagmire and cannot extricate themselves.

However, jealousy can also be transformed into a favorable factor under certain conditions, and the key depends on how we guide and use it.

Lian Po out of jealousy, everywhere and Lin Xiangru against him, humiliated him many times, but Lin Xiangru can understand Lian Po every time, and finally Lian Po was moved by Lin Xiangru's overall concept, and realized that he had a small belly and chicken intestines, he asked Lin Xiangru for the guilt, and since then the two have respected each other like guests, and jointly assisted the king, making Zhao more prosperous, leaving a beautiful talk of "harmony".

Life is a long and tortuous road, if we can treat others from the jealousy, can from the jealousy of the heart of envy, and then turn into the pressure of our progress, and then turn the pressure into motivation, then it is not a blessing?

Writing ideas: You can start from the point of view that jealousy of others is meaningless, and jealousy of others is even more wrong, and the description should be clear, the language should be smooth, and so on.

Text: Instead of being jealous of others, it is better to surpass others with practical actions. Jealousy is useless, only practical actions can change reality and create miracles.

When I was in elementary school, I was jealous of other people's lives. There is a math genius in our class. Since his math score is very good, he gets a perfect score on every math test and gets it right every time.

Therefore, I think he is God's most favored child. At that time, I scolded myself every day: why are you so stupid, you can do such a simple question wrong, you can never surpass him, because he is a genius and you are a fool.

Every day I curse God: why, why are you so partial, why am I not a genius. As everyone knows, where did the genius come from in the world.

No matter how good the results are, they are all through acquired efforts, and they cannot be born.

There is no point in complaining, and it is even more wrong to be jealous of others. The only right thing to do is to study hard from now on and surpass others with practical actions.

Unfortunately, it wasn't until sixth grade that I understood this. I regret not being at the beginning, but there is no regret medicine in the world, people can only move forward and climb to a high place.

Since then, I have always reminded myself that I want to improve, and I don't want to be jealous of others anymore, otherwise my grades will get worse and worse.

On the road of learning, it is impossible to go smoothly. When I encounter difficulties, I remind myself, "There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts"; When I encountered setbacks, I told myself, "How can I get the fragrance of plum blossoms without a cold heart"; When I am careless about the things around me, I tell myself, "If you want to see what is going on, you need to pay attention everywhere"; When I am playful, I will remind myself, "Flowers have a reblooming day, and no one is younger"; When I look forward to tomorrow, I think, "I am waiting for tomorrow, and everything will come to pass."

After a long period of hard work, although I did not achieve the results I wanted, I was content. At least I'm in the top three and I've surpassed a lot of people who are better than me. However, I will not stop, I will climb upwards.

Because I always believe that only by standing tall can we see farther and the future will be brighter.

Jealousy and transcendence, I like the latter. Be dissatisfied with the status quo and continue to sail forward with the sails of learning!

Instead of being jealous of others, it is better to use your own efforts to surpass others.

The psychology of jealousy is something that everyone cannot control. People are often jealous of others because they are better than themselves, and always think: I am the best to do, why is he so easy to surpass me?

This bad psychology not only affects our learning, but also causes us to lose our minds and thus envy others.

I remember one time in a Chinese exam, I didn't score more than 95 points, and after my grandfather saw my results, he sternly said, why didn't I get 95 points, but I said disapprerovingly: I have tried my best! Grandpa asked

How many points did Ren Yushuo in your class (because Ren Yushuo's father is also a middle school teacher, so his grandfather always compares him to him every time he takes an exam)? I replied absentmindedly: I scored 3 points more than me.

When my grandfather heard this, he said to me solemnly: "It seems that you are still not as good as Ren Yushuo!" You still need to work hard!

After hearing my grandfather's words, my brows couldn't help frowning, and I thought silently in my heart: Next time I will definitely surpass Ren Yushuo, hum!

But in several consecutive exams, I have not taken Ren Yushuo, and every time there is always a difference of 2-3 points, after a long time, the seed of jealousy in my heart finally took root and sprouted. When I usually see Ren Yushuo, I always look at him with strange eyes, and I always think that he always can't get along with himself and deliberately embarrass me.

During a recess activity, I accidentally saw Ren Yushuo writing something, so I quietly leaned over to take a look and found that the paper was densely filled with practice questions. I couldn't help but realize that he was working harder than me! So in the next few weeks, I studied more seriously than usual.

A belief supports me, only by working harder than usual can I be able to surpass Ren Yushuo. After my unremitting efforts, in the final exam, I played unconventionally, I finally surpassed Ren Yushuo by 1 point, don't underestimate this 1 point, it is not easy to come by! I worked a lot to get it.

This experience taught me a truth: "Instead of being jealous of others, it is better to calm down and think about how to study hard to surpass others." ”

Jealousy is a deadly poison, and transcendence is a key to success. ☺