How do you see through yourself? See through others, see through yourself

You can write a journal and talk to yourself.

You'll understand when you experience it.

People live in society, if you want to easily deal with all kinds of social relations, I think you must do two things, one is to see through others, and the other is to see through yourself.

First of all, to see through others, that is, in the process of long-term contact, you must know what kind of person the other party is, whether it is honest or cunning, honest or treacherous, if it is treacherous and cunning, his treacherous and cunning will show in which aspects, if you must deal with such a person in life, you have to have a long heart, on the basis of not harming others, how he treats you, you will treat him, probably will not be wrong.

Secondly, to see through yourself means that you want to be what kind of person you are. Be very clear that if you are upright, you should not deal too much with cunning people, or that you do not deal with them in areas where they should not be dealing so that you do not allow yourself to be harmed.

Knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent is not only applicable in military affairs, but also in life!

After experiencing the ups and downs of life, I think I have seen many people clearly and seen through many things.

In fact, while you feel that you have seen through some people, the opposite god may also feel that you have seen through you. Some people disperse when they walk, some things fade when they look at them, it's enough to live a life, and friendship is gone when they talk about it.

We are accustomed to staring at the shortcomings of others, and when we let go, we often infinitely magnify the shortcomings of the other party to hide our ruthlessness and determination. Lovers are like this, husbands and wives are like this, friends are like this, and partners are the same, but this is not the case, the person is still the same person, the thing is still the same thing, although it is not as good as before, it is not as bad as it is now. People and things have not changed, what has changed is the closed eyes of people and things.

When it's good, it's not flawed, and you can't see any shortcomings at all, and when it's bad, it's completely the other way around. Therefore, the so-called seeing through is just a reversal of one's own heart, and it cannot truly reflect the original appearance.

Besides, when you are not strong enough, you can't cater to people's instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and it is inevitable that everyone will betray their relatives. At this time, what can you do if you see through it? At this time, the more you die trying to win the favor of others, the more counterproductive the result becomes.

Instead of beating your chest and complaining, it is better to re-examine yourself, really see yourself through, and then calm down and think about it, and then understand yourself thoroughly. Find out where you fall short, make up your mind to change, change your magnetic field, and you will re-engage the people and things you want to attract.

Of course, it is not for you to compromise and seek perfection, it is also necessary to decisively break off envy and give up, arrogance is indispensable, arrogance is indispensable.

Tell yourself that from now on forgive everyone and everything, and forgiveness just means that I won't care about it anymore, and it doesn't mean that I will be as good to you as ever. It's just that I don't want to continue to bury some irrelevant people and things in my heart to disturb my mind. I will correct what I have done wrong, I will bear the evil consequences I have caused, and no one can replace the fruits of my cultivation.

The world is constantly changing, and no one is insignificant in the vast universe, and the so-called seeing through is just a glimpse, nothing more.

Before I talk about "seeing through", I would like to thank a person for saying something to me, even if it was said inadvertently and even a little perfunctory, but it was very useful for me: learn to ignore!

Strictly speaking, these four words are not a sentence, but they generate great energy in the process of my work and life! In the coming time, it may continue to be used by me, and continue to extend more meanings! Because I still haven't seen through it, I haven't let it go!

The ideological baggage is still heavy!

At the level of my understanding, people who have "seen through" will be very free, happy, and open-minded! It's a bit of a saint's feeling, he doesn't care about everything, he doesn't get anxious when he encounters things, and he looks at everything very lightly! But then again, if you are so indisputable from the world, or even isolated from the world, then you must have something you like to do, otherwise what's the point of living?

Why live?

Maybe my confusion is the interpretation that I haven't "seen through" yet!

Message: In the coming days, live each day slowly and treat everyone around you well! To yourself!