Falling in love with someone twenty years older than me, how do I continue!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yang Zhenning found someone who is 50 years younger than himself, and they think that having a love age is not a problem, so your story will not be more scary than theirs

    The problem is that there will be ideological contradictions in the age gap, for example, I will tell you a very simple example, at night your friend asked you to go clubbing, and he wanted to listen to ** at home, out of love he let you out, but there is a difference in your interests, this gap will gradually show up as your life continues, and when everyone feels tired, you will regret that you should not be combined

    This is the most common problem that people with a large age gap encounter together, you want him to let you do everything, he wants you to worship and respect him all the time, and when you choose to change, the other person will think that you have been deceived or have chosen the wrong person

    As long as you can understand each other and be considerate of each other, family affection can certainly make up for the conflict, and you can be intimate with your grandfather

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The point is that the parents don't accept it, do you think your father can accept a man who can call him a brother as a son-in-law?

    And you love him so much, but you can't grow old with him, how should you live the rest of your life?

    The long pain is better than the short pain, give up, after all, our strength alone is weak, we can't fight social common sense, and we can't fight the years.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What you see now is only the beginning and temporary, you will have too much disharmony, not because he is big, but because you are too young, you have not experienced many things, and you don't know that reality is always more helpless than ideal.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You first think about whether you like his money or his people? And by the way, liking has a price, I think you're a little unbelievable together, but true love always works miracles.

    To put it simply, you two still don't feel like it's right to be together, whether you like it or not, this is my feeling.

    Add a word: From today onwards, I will take a lot of random actions, and if I am not convinced, I will also pick my problem! ~

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If I was the one who would choose him! Because only you know what it's like between you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Cool, the old cow eats tender grass.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's for money, you can go to him, and nothing else.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The light sees the good, not the bad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    For the sake of future happiness, please think carefully!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as you really love each other, your family can accept it, he can accept you, and he really loves you and loves you! What's the problem?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're about the same as me, and I don't like to grow up on my own, but only at the age of 5-7, you can be fierce.

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