What do other people care about me?? What do you mean by what I do?

How to be the best version of yourself.

1. Discover yourself and redefine yourself.

Everyone in the world has their own advantages and disadvantages, has their own value of existence, we often can't find our own strengths and weaknesses and values, often magnify one side and ignore the other, I think this leads to some people can succeed and most people are just very mediocre, right? Discovering ourselves, making the most of our strengths, and changing our shortcomings in time is the premise for us to be the best version of ourselves.

2. Don't dwell too much on the past.

No matter who you are, you can't change your past, all you can change is the present, and the present in the future (that is, the future), take the past as a record of your own growth, a place to improve yourself, let yourself forgive past mistakes and past behaviors, and don't be as proud as the past. You have your reasons for them and decide that it makes sense at the time, so instead of using your past mistakes, let yourself learn from their lessons and constantly improve yourself.

3. Don't care too much about what people think of you.

Some of them may like you, some will hate you. Either attitude this can't be yourself, when you're constantly wondering, "Do they think I'm funny?" Does she think I look ugly?

Do they think I'm a restless person? Am I good, smart, popular, etc., part of their group of friends? "To be the best version of yourself, you should let go of these issues and only you think about other people's, not them.

4. Be honest and courageous.

Honesty and courage are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and they are also a bridge to build trust between people, and we should have a brave and upward heart to embrace, face and contend with difficulties, only in this way can we get rid of the sea of suffering and find a happy life.

Okay, isn't there anything unhappy.

Hello Ha pro girl said what is the matter with you, what does this mean, this shows that this scum makes the girl's attitude towards you very bad now. He doesn't trust or like you, and he still hates you very much. It doesn't matter what kind of relationship the two of you had before, at least for now.

It's best for you to be like a Zen game, and don't continue to provoke him. If you're good friends, then wait until you talk to him about it. Maybe a better result will be received.

But if the two of you are strangers yourself, I personally don't think there's any need to discuss it anymore. Since the other party has already said such things, it means that he does not take your opinion seriously. I'm still a little self-aware, so don't talk to him.

If, the premise is that the matter is complete, 100 percent, and has nothing to do with anyone else.

The environment in which each of us lives is not maintained by our independent self.

We need to drink water (water purification), eat (basic ingredients), sleep (a stable sleeping environment), and even breathe air (green vegetation) every day, all of which need to be obtained from the labor of others.

So, what this person does is likely to be irrelevant to others from the person's point of view.

But if you take a different position, there will be a connection.

Other people's affairs have nothing to do with us, and we don't have to ask too much and embarrass others. Writer Yang Daxia said that doing oneself well is the first priority.