How do you think about the behavior of college students going to travel to make their parents pay?

It's not right to be accused of asking too much, by whom, if it's a parent. I think that the first thing to look at is the wishes of the parents, after all, the educational concept of each family, the thoughts of each pair of parents, are different. You can't just find the answer from other people's judgments, the answer lies with your parents.

If you bring up the question of you want to travel with them, they are very happy, they think you should go out more, see more, open up the world, and will ask you "is the money enough, not enough for Dad to give you money" and then the money comes immediately, it means that they really agree, and think that travel can bring you growth.

Speaking of myself, as soon as I talk about travel, my parents will be very happy, and they will also give money, saying that they will take more good-looking ** to show them, but I will be modest, basically going out with friends, and it will not be too extravagant and wasteful, basically a poor tour. When I got older, I found out that why didn't I bring my own family with me when I traveled by myself, and I used their hard-earned money for myself, but only for myself, and I didn't think about whether they also wanted to go out with me and see. Later on the journey, I will organize my family to hang out together, and that is really meaningful, happier, and can produce the most effect.

It is normal that a good family relationship is about providing a better environment for the child to grow up as much as the parents are able to do (before the child is financially independent). Family members give to each other without expecting anything in return, which is a manifestation of love. As long as you don't take or give (you must have spent or will spend money for your parents, will you), such a family relationship is extremely happy.

Of course, these are based on the premise that parents are willing to spend money for their children, if they don't want to, then they can't force it, their parents' money is their hard-earned money, and they have the right to decide how to spend it. Either persuade them well, or find a way to borrow it, and make sure you can pay it back. If this tour is important, you should be able to work hard and take responsibility for your own expenses.

Personally, I don't think it's too much. But everyone has a different opinion, and if your parents think it's too much, then you probably can't do it. After all, their obligations are basically over, and the university must be 18 years old and above, and they are still supporting you to study in college, and the living expenses are paid every month.

Although it is said that it is possible not to give money for travel, it is normal in terms of feelings and children's personal development. Broaden your horizons, and when you are young, you should really go more. Maybe they are more frugal and understand each other.