What should I do if my boyfriend is not available with me and feels guilty and wants to break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Your boyfriend is not available to accompany you, by the way, your boyfriend is very busy, he may be busy with work, busy with studying, you have to give him full understanding and full affirmation on Monday, you can cultivate a hobby to pass the time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can comfort your boyfriend and let him understand that it's nothing, everyone is busy sometimes, after all, it's just a boyfriend, and you can't delay your business for me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Sometimes if you are in love with your boyfriend, you can tell him that you don't care about that, and you care about whether he really likes you, because you can refuse his request and continue to be nice with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's better to break up in this situation, because if your boyfriend really likes you, even if he is busy, he will not break up with you under the pretext that he is busy with work, and the only explanation is that he doesn't like you anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If our boyfriends are not available, we have to be considerate of them, they want to break up, we have to deeply consider each other's feelings, and we should not lose a big deal because of a small thing. Affection is a process of mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and mutual proximity.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can talk to your boyfriend well, talk to him about your boyfriend, and then see what he has to say before deciding what you want to do further. It's not child's play after all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel very guilty that my boyfriend is not available to accompany me, but you shouldn't break up at this time, because you must ask her for reasons and then slowly understand him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this case, it feels like you shouldn't ask this question, because in this case, he doesn't want to continue this relationship with you, so it's better to look away a little bit and then separate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It makes me very sad that my boyfriend is not available to accompany me, but at this time, you must ask him what the reason is, and don't just break up, because it will cause the two of you to no longer have such a harmonious relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As long as you always pretend to be me, and you can send me a ** text message to greet me after work, I feel very happy, and now you are busy with work, I can understand you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your boyfriend thinks he doesn't have time for you and wants to break up, you can try the following steps to get him back:

    1.Understand his feelings: Let him know that you understand his feelings and that he is thinking about the future of both people.

    2.Show plans for the future: Let him know that you have some plans in place to balance your time and show that you can make some sacrifices for him.

    3.Communicate: Communicate with him and let him know that you want to work with him on this issue and that you are willing to support him in his time of need.

    4.Express your love: Tell him about your love and let him know how much he means to you and how much you are willing to make some changes for him.

    Keep in mind that everyone has a different perception of time, and it may take some time for him to get used to and accept the situation. Showing your love and commitment and letting him know that you are willing to make some changes for him may help you win back his heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Give him some time to buffer first, it can be seen that your emotional foundation is still very deep, and it is impossible for a person who has been together for two years to say that he doesn't love or doesn't love.

    There are two types of male personalities, one is the face personality and the other is the avoidance personality; More than 80% of the world's men belong to the avoidance personality, and they will choose to withdraw and escape after facing things that they can't handle.

    Therefore, if you really love him, please give him more relief and don't put too much pressure on him. Time is the best medicine, and after a while, he will feel your true love and sincerity, and will regain joy with you. Wishing you happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In this case, you don't say anything why he proposed to break up, you don't dislike this kind of life, you boldly tell him, ask him if this is the real reason, if you tell him that you can bear it, if he can't bear this life, or if he has any other ideas, ask him to tell you directly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love can't be forced, you may not be the person he wants to find, the twisted melon is not sweet, there is no time to accompany you that is not called a reason, you can see that he does not love you, let go, start a new life, and you will find your happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Pay more attention to him, instead of being in a hurry. My boyfriend's work is so busy and motivated, I can't pull him back, it's boring to go home by myself, it's better to work overtime to earn more money. In fact, my boyfriend is very motivated, but being motivated is not an excuse to ignore his partner, and it is still very good that he can realize this matter now. Knowing will estimate your thoughts.

    Nowadays, some men don't care about each other's feelings. Now there is a term called "widowed", such as: "widowed" marriage, "widowed" parenting, is this "widowed" love?

    When you fall in love, isn't it just to talk and get along? If you don't even like to be tired of being together with each other when you're in love, how can you expect to be old. Love that doesn't understand companionship is not real love at all.

    You raise a flower, you have to water the flower every day; To have a cat, you have to feed, clean, and play with it. When we fall in love, we also need to feed love, with time, energy, money, and heart You will not say to a flower

    I'm busy, you take care of yourself, I'll water you when I'm done with these two months. In this case, wait until two months later and the flower will die.

    You also don't say to a cat: I'm in trouble, I'll come to see you in a month. As a result, after a month, the cat doesn't know you or it's gone.

    It's the same with love, if two people don't spend time together, understand and care about each other, love will fade or even die. If you ignore me for a week, my enthusiasm will diminish a little; If you ignore me next week, my love will be a little less, and in the long run, no amount of love will be consumed. For those who don't want to spend time with their girlfriends, God will grant their wishes by leaving them without a girlfriend to accompany them!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can half-jokingly ask him to make up for you later, or occasionally lose your temper and let him come to accompany you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It shows that this boy is still very considerate, and told him that it is just for us to have a better life in the future, and I can understand your hard work.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Patiently tell him that you can understand him, and now his career is also planning for you in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can pretend to be angry and ask him to write down the missing time and make it up to you later.

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