If you don t go through things, you won t be mature

1。Experience, but sublimation from one's own psychological literacy (everyone has this potential), few people will use it.

2。Experience has a certain relationship with time, but it is not proportional. For each person, the last moment of his life is the most mature in his own life.

3。Experience is something that no creature can get rid of and skip over, there are no shortcuts, no back doors, and geniuses will even turn around here a few more times than others in it, because they are too smart to see themselves.

4。Nature can mature, but oneself can also accelerate this process in spiritual sublimation, but it is really difficult for one to transcend this process.

5。Children may be measured by age, but maturity is not all measured by age.

People come out of the mother's womb, they are constantly experiencing, no matter how small things, the key is that you have to care, to experience with your heart, every conversation, every shopping, every walking, are different, the people around you, the environment is worthy of your attention, just have a long heart.

How old are you now?

Maybe the little ones are on the surface, if your heart will be considerate of others? Are your parents?

Maybe those things are not difficult from your personal point of view, right?

When you have a child, you are mature, a mother and a father.

Mature, more and more socially contacted.

Sometimes it's not like you have to experience it yourself, but when you have a lot of fans, if you try it, then you won't know the seriousness of the matter, and maturity is just an interpretation of the perception of things.

Trouble, thanks!

That's the case with most stupid people.

Yes, this is a very certain point, only after experiencing more can there be precipitation and stability: Generally, stable men have experienced a lot of things, carry them by themselves, and solve them by themselves, and they will become more and more aware of what to deal with: However, most stable men rarely have experience such as love.

People can only grow when they are constantly experiencing setbacks.

Beg. Do you still want to be with her?

Since he doesn't love you more than you, and he only comes to you after breaking up with someone else, this kind of man can't want it.

Some people, if they miss it, they miss it.

Find a man who really loves you, and it will make you forget about him.

Yes. It's an asset.

How can you grow up without experiencing things, and only by experiencing it yourself can you really understand!

Hello, friend.

Of course. Only difficulties and setbacks can allow us to truly grow.

If it is insufficient, please ask, satisfied, thank you.

No, I can only say that I have experienced a lot.

You have a lot of experience and have seen the world.

Noodles, that's not called maturity. Individual.

think, put people with people, people with people.

The relationship of the society is understood, and also.

It will be grasped according to the changes in things.

and adjust yourself in due course.

It's mature!

What is Maturity? Maturity refers to the change of people's thinking and concepts. The shift from naivety to a higher level and a more rational view of the team. And this process is often accompanied by changes in the surrounding environment. This includes the influence of other people, too.

In my eyes, maturity does not mean age, but a strong and firm mind. Mature people, charming!

Especially mature women, like an imitator altar of old wine, sweet and mellow, intoxicating!

I used to do less and more, naively thinking that maturity is an aura that represents excellence. As long as the time comes, when you reach a certain age, you can wear the halo of maturity and become a mature person.

The funny thing is that I am a middle-aged person with a simple heart, and simplicity has nothing to do with maturity.

And I had an accident in my life that caused me to fall from heaven to hell. I have exhausted all the flavors of personnel, seen all kinds of life, experienced the world, but learned to laugh at it.

It is not the years that make people mature, but the experience, and there are as many experiences as there are gains.

Zhou Guoping said: "True maturity should be the formation of a unique personality and the discovery of a true self. Spiritual results and a good harvest. ”

There is a rich experience to have a full life, in the face of pain to pretend to be old, difficulties, setbacks are the accumulation of life experience. Face it with a smile, don't dwell on the right and wrong of knowledge, only those who have experienced it are worthy of it. The more experiences we have, the more we accumulate, and the more mature we become, these experiences will slowly melt into our souls and become our true selves.

No, you can only mature faster if you experience more.

Maturity is divided into physical maturity and mental (mind) maturity, and the more you experience, you will have a deeper understanding of certain things and understand right and wrong according to the development of things, which is the process of accumulating experience. (This is the superficial analysis of right and wrong, more maturity of accumulation of experience).

The deeper maturity is the maturity of the mind, and your way of thinking is the process of thinking about the problem that determines your maturity, such as what the priority object is, whether there is a plan to implement it, whether to deal with it calmly, etc.

The more you experience, the broader and more lofty your horizons become, and the behaviors and experiences of the people around you will gradually improve your thoughts and values, but maturity is a positive word, that is to say, you can only perfect your thoughts when you experience a state of upward and positive and positive and not too negative energy to distort your psychology. The increase of experience and experience does not mean maturity, but the real maturity is the re-improvement of thoughts and thinking processes, outlook on life and values.

A former colleague of mine, when the company was still very small, basically stayed in the state of a small team, and there were only a few employees in the company, and no one got the same opportunities. My colleague started a business with his boss with another colleague, and the three of them were like brothers of the opposite sex at the time. So the company's colleagues also look at him very seriously, what about him, in the words of our northerners, called a thief, take the boss to take care of the good resources he gave him, at the end of the month when the salary is settled, the order rate is low and the performance is poor, the boss asked the reason, what kind of customer he is, the quality of the list is too poor, other colleagues are not well coordinated,,, in short, there is no reason of his own!

At that time, a female colleague who was recognized as heartless whispered to me: No wonder his performance is stupid and poor, it is because his mentality is too bad.

His change began with his father's sudden death, that day he had made an appointment with a customer to talk about cooperation, just about 10 minutes into it, his sister came to ** said that his father had a car accident, he left the customer and went back to his hometown. Soon it was learned that his father had died at the scene of the car accident! Listening to the proprietress say that when he called the boss for help, he cried heartbreakingly.

He came back to work half a month later, and he lost a lot of weight, because of his usual personality, coupled with his father's new funeral, everyone was careful about him.

Half a year later, he came out of the shadows, and the whole person gave us the feeling that he was indeed reborn. He has also become enthusiastic and responsible for his colleagues, and his performance has changed from the bottom of the company to the performance champion, and there are no customers in his hands. With a new attitude, he has become a real mainstay of the whole company.

He grew up. He used a fast speed to buy a house and a car, marry a wife and have children, support the elderly on both sides, the monthly salary has now reached an average of 20,000 yuan, the company has now expanded 10 times, and he is also the company's performance champion.

I once talked to him and asked him how he matured all of a sudden, and he said he didn't think so. I said, I've been seeing changes in you.

It's not that everyone has to be like him, at the cost of losing their father in exchange for growth. But everyone who grows up must have had a different experience that has taught them to be relaxed, tolerant and let go!