What should you do if you find out that your boyfriend is secretly contacting your ex girlfriend?

If I find out that my boyfriend is secretly contacting my ex-girlfriend, then I should first have some evidence so that I can confidently ask him: Why did I contact my ex-girlfriend? <>

When I ask him why, if he is willing to explain, I am willing to give him a chance to explain it properly. Whether or not his reasons satisfy me is another matter. Maybe he has something in his life that intersects with his ex-girlfriend, then I can choose to forgive him, but I will remind him that I am very unhappy with this matter, and let him pay attention to it a little bit so that he doesn't do it again next time.

If when I confronted him, he was very flustered, and it was obvious that there was a ghost in his heart, then he would choose to break up. Because I take relationship issues very seriously, I can't stand my boyfriend, and when I am dating myself, I still break ties with his ex-girlfriend. If he insists on continuing like this, then the long pain is better than the short pain, and he can simply let go and make his life easier.

And I don't think life has to be anyone's errand, it's just a little sad when we just broke up. With the passage of time, our hearts will slowly mature, and we will be more open to this aspect of things.

If I had found out that my boyfriend had secretly contacted my ex-girlfriend, I probably wouldn't have had a seizure right away. <>

Because this will only make him feel that he has an excuse to think that you are vexatious or something, you must figure out the cause and effect of the matter before making the next judgment.

If there is no ambiguity, I will just knock on the side. Because every girl doesn't want her boyfriend to be disconnected from her ex-girlfriend. Normally, I can unlock my boyfriend's phone, but I don't deliberately look at his phone, which is also a kind of trust.

And it is inevitable that I will meet my ex-boyfriend at an embarrassing moment.

If there is an unknown relationship between two people, or I suspect it. I'll be open and honest with him. It's a sure thing to be angry, and if I can explain it, I'll give him a chance and believe him. But I would ask him to end their conversation as soon as possible.

However, I will be very unhappy with the secret conversation between two people, and it stands to reason that I should not contact each other if we break up. Although I don't want to cut off all contact, this one will still be angry.

When two people are in a good mood, I will directly ask him if he is still in contact with his ex-girlfriend, and when I ask this sentence directly, I can watch a movie of this type or news in front of me, and then ask him casually, pretending that I don't know anything.

If he is not more panicked, you can further ask, "Look at your appearance so flustered, you won't really contact your ex-girlfriend behind my back", if he confesses at this time, it is estimated that he has something to say to his ex-girlfriend, don't worry too much.

If he is very calm, don't mess around and say I have seen it, I know it, why don't you admit it, are you still disconnected from her, do you not love me anymore.

These things sound very vexatious, and as a woman, I hate women who say this, and it sounds really annoying.

You just follow him, "Oh, I knew you wouldn't, and if you secretly contact your ex-girlfriend, there's no need, just contact you openly, and I won't blame you, it's nothing." But ah, I personally hate people who lie to me, I say that I can say it openly, and I have to contact secretly, that is to deceive me, you say yes".

Smart people understand, if they are not very smart, they can also hear seven or eight points.

If I find out that my boyfriend is secretly contacting his ex-girlfriend. I will definitely not show mercy and break up immediately.

I think it's a disloyalty to the relationship, and since you're with me, why do you want to contact your ex-girlfriend, and it's still secret.

He contacted his ex-girlfriend in only one situation, that is, the old love is not dead, and he still wants to rekindle it. Because if the two of them are normal, then why avoid me and hide from me to contact me secretly?

Well, maybe he has a reason, he can say that he is afraid that I will think too much, and he is afraid that I will be sad, but fools know that this is all an excuse. <>

If that's what he says, I'll secretly contact my ex-boyfriend. It's okay, you don't have to think about it, it's definitely not okay. So these words are completely disguised.

He contacted his ex-girlfriend, how could he only pretend to be alone in his heart, love is selfish, how can you share it with others.

Since he misses his ex-girlfriend, let's go to his ex-girlfriend. Anyway, I can't bear it, if you love me, you can rest assured, and if you don't love me, don't be with me.