Why do some people not see others praising others?

This is a mentality of many people around me. He just can't see that others are better off than him. It seems that someone else's good life is his opponent and his enemy.

Personally, I think this kind of person is narrow-minded and has a disease in his heart. To treat this kind of person, it is best to distance yourself from him, stay away from him, it is better not to have anything to do with him, and would rather suffer some losses for yourself and walk away in a natural way. This kind of person, once jealous of you, increases.

Let's be mentally unbalanced! If the conditions are good, you always think that you are the pride of the sky, and others should be inferior to yourself, and those who surpass yourself must be lucky or obtained by improper means, and it will not last long. The conditions are not good, the mixed is not good, I feel that God is unfair, I am just unlucky, I have the wrong birth, as long as I am better than him, I don't like it, this kind of person not only has a wrong outlook, but also has a distorted psychology.

This kind of person has only himself in his heart. As long as you are suitable, everything is right; As long as you are not satisfied, nothing is good. He felt that he should be part of the concession and tolerance of others.

I don't know how to be grateful, I only know how to ask for it. Adhere to the concept of being a person who is all for me and not for others, so this kind of person will not have a good interpersonal relationship.

This is what we often call red-eyed patients, jealousy, in fact, it is still a manifestation of weak ability, I am also the most unaccustomed to this kind of person, if the ability is strong, strive to surpass others, what is the use of jealousy, the result is still stronger than you, this is the inferior nature of people.

In life, when people see others being better than themselves in some way, they tend to think that others are better off than themselves. However, this kind of "good" is mostly your own guess, which is easy to make people feel psychologically unbalanced, which leads to jealousy.

Let's compare hearts. Just like now, our lives are definitely happier than those of our grandparents, because the food and clothing at that time were not solved.

When sharing a piece of cake, everyone clearly said that I only need to take my share, but in their hearts they thought that what belonged to me was not equal, so when the rules were formulated, the uneasiness experienced in the mother's womb became a rigid clause for the favorable distribution of the regulations.

Kill. Once praised by others, you will be raised by others, and others will have higher requirements, for this reason, Gao Hao will have to squeeze himself, self-transcendence again and again, in order to maintain the praise of others, once he can't do it, others will let Wang down.

This is how excellent people often collapse. I don't like to be praised by others, probably out of a self-preservation instinct.

For example, a person who often fails exams will be praised if he suddenly passes. And this person continued to work hard, gradually increasing his score to 90 points, and then suddenly failed the test and only scored 70 points, at this time, not only will he not be praised again, but he will also be questioned, how did the score get worse?

This is even more obvious for the top students who often get full scores, and the full score is deserved, but this time I only took the 90 exam, how could it be so bad, haven't you been studying hard recently?

Children who have grown up under this kind of stress for a long time will have a situation that borders on a post-traumatic stress response to praise, and the instinctive fear of being praised will be praised.

I was jealous or even maliciously hurt by public praise before puberty, so when I grew up, I had a biased perception of praise and felt that praise was something that could be harmful. If his situation is standing still, overwhelmed, his face stiff, his expression is unnatural, etc., then the situation should not be serious. But if he turns around and leaves, he feels that the praiser is a threat to him, and that praising him is to make him the target of public criticism, so he wants to flee from this threat.

Some people were chased and bitten by dogs when they were children and grew up afraid of dogs, even if the dog is tiny, it should be a similar truth.

Have self-knowledge, know very well where your own strengths and weaknesses are, what are the shortcomings, learn with a humble attitude, and collect the shiny places, sometimes let others boast and be at a loss It's better to be low-key, maybe you don't want your friends to gradually become disappointed in your first expectations.

Because of Qing Hunger, almost no one likes to see others better than themselves, especially among peers, I feel that when my peers praise you, he will definitely be a little uncomfortable, and let others praise you psychologically, he will definitely not be happy, and he can't like this feeling, but he feels very embarrassed. The praise from the elders felt a little better, but Changqing didn't feel meaningful when he heard it.

I'm such a person, if someone compliments me, I also smile and don't say anything about the reputation, and I feel a little uncomfortable. In fact, praise means that you need to bear the responsibility behind the praise, just as the famous saying "the more ability to answer the question, the greater the responsibility", the meaning of praise is to show that your ability is great, you have to take the responsibility of ability. Of course, behind the honey is the trap, and it is also the idea of some people who don't like compliments.

In fact, everyone has their own ideas, if others don't like it, don't praise it, just communicate normally.

I always feel that if I thank and praise you, some people will think, "Yo he, praise you for two sentences, you are still Chang Tsai is really serious", saying that you deserve it, and some people think, "It's really pretentious, and excessive self-humility is pride" Qi Jing. What's more, sometimes the praise encountered is not 100% sincere, at first glance, it is against the words of flattery or cool words, how to answer it, it is so difficult to be praised, it is better not to be praised, so most of the time it is good to be silent and not squeak.

Score people, first of all, I have self-knowledge, I know my strengths and weaknesses, so if others praise me for my unique excellent clan point, I will think that this person is more knowledgeable, if there is no reason to praise a non-level, of course, it is pure disadvantage prevention, see what tricks Suimin plays, what are the plans.

A lot of people probably feel embarrassed, and it feels a bit fake. I personally don't like to miss the feast like this. Moreover, in this debate society now, it will be praised at every turn, and it feels very hypocritical.

Also, do you know what a kill is? Infinitely magnify your subsequent mistakes, and I feel that when I see this person in the future, I won't be able to raise my head.

It feels fake.,Especially when it's praised for no reason.,Serry always feels like the other party has some purpose.,Always suspect that the self-perception is not very good.,I think it's okay to praise in a specific environment.,The kind that has no reason to do things.,It feels very uncomfortable.。 Rent positively.

Complimenting others without praising you is generally trying to get your attention.

Generally speaking, in this case, he wants to get your attention, he wants you to have some of the qualities that he likes Namin, he is embarrassed to praise you, he wants you to be the communicator to convey what he praises to the person who praises him. Of course, this is not absolute, and it is also possible that some drafts are stupid and not done well, so the other party will not praise you.

Introduction:

compliments, compliments; Praise. There are different ways to praise different people, because people have different identities and personalities, and what some people like to hear may be disgusted by others.

Wu Chengen's "Journey to the West".

Chapter 27: The cave tells the monster that it is in mid-air, and praises it endlessly: What a monkey king.

Eyes on it! I've changed like that, and he still knows me.

Summary. Good evening, dear [than heart].

Good evening, dear [than heart].

One is that he has a lonely personality and is relatively closed to himself. I never pay attention to other people's things, and I don't bet on my mood. Good or bad, none of it has anything to do with me.

The second personality is arrogant. feels that Wang You, who is in the world, is dust and sand in his own eyes, disdainful of the excellence of others, and completely holds the mentality of watching coldly. The third type is extreme inferiority.

I always feel that I am inferior to others in everything, I am always cautious about myself, I keep the good and evil of others about myself in my heart, and rarely share it with others. The fourth is jealousy. This kind of person has a dark heart, can't see the good of others, and is not convinced that others are better than themselves.

I take the kindness given by others for granted, and I lack the heart of gratitude for sleepy early huai. People who are better than themselves are either silent, or ridicule and sarcastic, always using various excuses, and never looking for shortcomings in themselves.

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There are several possibilities. For example, you are so bad that you are better than you when you pull someone out. Another example is that he has opinions, opinions, and prejudices about you, so he just doesn't praise you.

For example, you are so good that he doesn't think there's any need to praise you. In short, there are many possibilities, and the real reason is known only to him.

Why do some people boast about it? But you never praise me? This friend, I don't know if you are a man or a woman, and it's not just how old you are, is there any comparison in this matter?

This person is praised by everyone, which shows that he is very good in all aspects, strong in doing things, you should not compare, nor should you be jealous, you should learn from everyone who praises this person, see how others do it, how you do it, you must be very different from him in all aspects, otherwise many people praise him, why not praise you? That person is better than you in every way.

Because you're not good enough, you're not doing anything to boast about.

Probably trying to get your attention.