If you have nothing to do, come in and talk about everything

1. Focus on the chat itself, not the topic of the chat.

A lot of people don't know how to talk to girls, and often there is no topic to talk about, and I think: you don't need to prepare a topic at all!

Topical chat:

When we chat, we always want to revolve around the topics we have in mind, and we don't pay attention to the conversation itself, so we often have the following situations:

Example: Me: Have you eaten? (Raise a topic) MM: Eat.

Me: What are you doing? (Bringing up another topic) mm: surfing the Internet.

Me: Is the weather good for you? MM: Okay.

Me: Have you been busy lately? (Bringing up another topic) MM: Not busy.

Me: ......There's no topic to talk about, because there's always a time when the topic is finished) Me: Oh, that's it, I just want to ask what you're doing, so you keep busy, bye mm: bye.

Because all that's on your mind at this point is, what should I say? What are you talking about with MM? This often leads to a dead end, and when you finish talking about the topic you prepared in advance, you will find that you are dumb!

And the correct idea of chatting is: to pay attention to the chat itself, not the topic of the chat, not the question of what to talk about, but the question of how to talk about it.

Then why didn't the family agree to go and chat?

We can't talk about a topic that we can't talk about when we fall in love, and we can talk about a small thing for a long time. It's not enough to just greet each other when you fall in love, you have to learn to share everything in your life, cultivate the same interests and hobbies, do one thing together, penetrate and understand each other's lives, friends and relatives who live with each other, etc., and find that you can't finish talking every day.

My boyfriend and I have been talking for three years, and we still chat when we have time, and if he is not busy, we can talk for a long time. When you meet something, you talk about anything, big and small, small things, small talk, jokes, news, etc., a lot.

One is that they are too familiar, the second is that they have no common interests, and the third is that they are not sexually interested, and that's nothing more than that. Hope it helps, take it, right?

I'm in the same situation as you! At first, I thought it was nothing, but now it's been nine months and it's still like this, and I feel like it's boring!

My husband and I will talk nonsense about everything we have to do. Say whatever comes to mind

There is nothing to say during the relationship, in fact, the relationship between the two is not deep enough, and they should consider breaking up and finding their own happiness.

Find more people to talk to if you're interested, are you in a long-distance relationship?

Seeing each other more means that you just know each other and don't have your own story, and you will have it when you meet more.

A person is carefree, where can there be so many things.

Chat, chat, talk about news hookups.

That means you don't have any common language.

How can I have something to talk about?

Listen to him first, see what topics he likes to talk about, and then do what he likes, or take a look at Haikan to see what topics he likes, and then the elderly are generally more lonely, first ask the people around him to see what aspects he is more sensitive to, try to enter his heart first, and then soothe his wounds.

There is also a try to make him trust you first, the elderly like to nag, perhaps the most important thing is to confide in others, when listening to him you listen to it, don't interject.

In fact, it is the same whether you are chatting with the elderly or the young.

Just find a topic that interests him.

The average elderly person is not convinced of old age, so you can talk about some great things when he was young, and let him talk endlessly, in fact, you just need to listen, and he will feel happy to chat with you.

Before my grandparents died, I used to chat with them. Grandpa likes to talk to me about ***, I just listen and then ask appropriate questions to make him think I'm interested. Grandpa also liked to talk about his siblings, grandma's brothers, and their 5 children, and then about the 5 children, but not me.

Grandma loves to talk to me about her past experiences, about my dad and mom, and about me.

I don't know old people, I think back, all of them love to talk about their grandchildren! Even grandchildren who are about the same age as me also like to talk about their past, work experience, strike experience, when they were young, they were bold and did a lot of things that they don't think about now, etc., and they have never met someone who likes to talk about their current life and future plans, or about social events.

Whether it's an elderly person in the family or an unknown person, the most important thing is patience, so that they feel that you are happy to talk to them, very interested, you don't need to talk about anything, all you have to do is listen, ask questions, and add expressions (surprise, admiration, etc.).

Family chores are an important topic for the elderly, and you can pay more attention to their daily life.

When they were young, they all said that young people were looking forward to the future, and the elderly were reminiscing about the past, and they were in contact and conversation with them very well. It's best to report the admiration of the eyes, and the expression that I think is interesting and listening carefully, is very easy to get along with.

I don't think there's a need for a topic, because usually they have a lot to say to you young people, that is, just follow the old people's wishes.

Talk about the past.

It's better to be interested in something.

Chat sincerely and communicate with your heart. The elderly have generally gone through vicissitudes, and they need our care more.

I think no matter who you are talking to, you should talk about their psychology or share what they like to listen to, so that they can be happy!

Every old man is different, he likes what he likes, he talks about what he loves, and the average old man loves to reminisce, talk about his past, and like to brag about himself.

Chat with the elderlyYou can talk to him about family life, or about his relatives, and you can also talk to him about things that he is interested in, such as opera!

That's right, everybody's right.

Actually, it's very simple

;And the elderly should talk about life, health, exercise,

Learn about their lives, care about them, and make them feel your heart!

Try to talk about the topic in line with the appetite of the elderly, so that the elderly are happy, so that it is easy to communicate with the elderly.

I think that by communicating with the heart and telling them your own experiences and stories, they can tell you a lot of feelings when they look back on the past, and most importantly, they can resonate emotionally!

When he quarrels with his husband, he always says what to do if he divorces, it is normal for husbands and wives to quarrel, husband and wife have no overnight feuds, the head of the bed hits the end of the bed, and what should I do if he wants to divorce after quarreling with my husband?

1. Don't refuse to argue and face it.

If there is a problem between two people, it needs to be solved, quarreling is a way, some things are hidden, and can not solve the problem, only after the dissatisfaction and anger erupt, the mood can be released, only by saying it, let the other party know, is the primary condition for solving the problem.

2. Don't take the angry words of the two seriously.

When the other party says cruel things to you, don't take it seriously. Because experts say that what people say when they are angry is not credible, and that is the most ruthless side of people. You can calm down first and listen carefully to what the other person has to say.

Then, whether you complain or not, at this time, admit that what he said about you is not right.

3. The quarrel between husband and wife should be about art.

If you talk about the art of quarreling, and make good use of the "secrets" of quarreling, a good quarrel may become a catalyst for the relationship between the two people, so that your relationship will be more stable and solid than before after experiencing "conflict". How to "noisy"?

The first is to choose the right time and make an appointment for each other, so that both parties have enough time to discuss and communicate, relieve the emotions of quarrels, and make the conversation easier to understand and accept.

The second is not to hurt the innocent, and the quarrel should be carried out in response to the problem to be solved, not to involve a large number of innocent people and things, let alone to hit the other party's family and friends, etc., otherwise it will only intensify the contradiction and make the situation more violent, while the real problems that need to be solved are getting farther and farther, and finally cannot be solved.

The third is to retreat as advance, men often eat soft and not hard, therefore, when quarreling, they can overcome rigidity and retreat, and do not point to his nose to make "Hedong Lion Roar". nor did he angrily open his eyes and "covenant three chapters" with him.

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It's good that he does this I don't want to keep the unhappy things in my heart I don't want you to keep it in my heart When nothing happens, it's just over If he is a little belly chicken intestine and still talks to you about these things every day after that, then you would have been separated a long time ago Depending on the situation, the two of you feel very good Don't always talk about divorce or something in the future Don't always talk about divorce or something It's not good to talk too much Everyone's tolerance is just average Once you say too much, he really leaves you and it is not good for anyone.

Fuck, my wife and I both went to the marriage registration center, and we didn't leave.

It's okay to quarrel, it's okay to fight, don't get divorced as soon as you quarrel, one day you will really leave.

Decide on the topic according to the habits and preferences of the other party.

I think we still have to talk, but you can learn the skills of speaking and how to express yourself humorously, after all, not being able to speak is really hard, whether it is in love or at work.

Falling in love is because of love, and chatting is about letting each other understand each other better. Therefore, finding a topic in love can be an interesting thing in life. For example, in your career or family, as long as the interesting things that happen in your life are related to you, they can be a good topic, so that the other party can integrate into them, and you can also learn some of the other party's habits.

Chat is one of the most important steps in interpersonal communication, you don't know how to talk but also learn it, understand more, you can pick up what others say, and talk about topics that the other party is interested in.

Awkward conversations are because there is no common language, and if the two of you have a common language, there must be a lot of fun to discuss.

That's not it, not liking to talk doesn't mean he's bad, it's just that he's introverted, not good at expressing himself, maybe he's better, it's just that he doesn't like to talk.

Because you are more introverted, you are not good at chatting, in fact, when you fall in love with the opposite sex, don't say something boring, just say some parents in a short introduction, you yourself first familiarize yourself.

As long as two people have fate, they will be happy.

Practical actions are better than all sweet words, as long as it can make girls feel warm and caring, silence equals reliability.

There are too many topics to talk about in the workplace, such as debt, private life, career planning, gossiping about colleagues, negative energy, etcIt's okay to cover a little bit of these topics, but you can't talk about them in depth, except that these topics should be avoided as much as possible, and the following topics are never talked about as much as possible.

1. Salary topic

Many people are in the same position, but they are not paid for the same work. And the topic itself is very sensitive, and most people know that this topic is to be avoided as much as possibleBut some people knowingly ask questions, causing a very embarrassing situation for everyone, so this topic can be avoided and not talked about.

2. Family topics

Everyone's birth family is different, whether your family is good or bad, try to avoid talking about it, if it is a poor family, everyone may look down on you, if it is a rich family, everyone may compliment you, and even let people with intentions approach you and use you, this topic is considered personal privacy in the workplace, so you need to try not to talk about it.

3. Company secrets

Depending on the position, the access to the company's secrets is also differentSome employees never have access to company secrets in their lifetime, but some people have high positions and are open-mouthedWhen it comes to the topic of company confidentiality, you should not participate at this time, otherwise it will only affect you, and the protection of company secrets is a matter of personal professional ethicsThis topic is to try not to talk about it, and it cannot be said casually.

4. Career planning

Personal career planning can be said to be something that must not be discussedBecause if others know that you are going to leave or change jobs, you may be called to the leader to talk, and you may even be excluded.

Don't talk about the open and secret battles in the office, and don't speak ill of others behind your back at any time. Even if others do unreliable things, don't criticize others easily.

Your true situation, sometimes they will talk about your own situation when they talk about it and quarrel, so try not to mention your shortcomings.

Try not to talk about the shortcomings of some leadership colleagues. Because they will mind, and their relatives don't talk about it, they don't like to talk about their relatives.

As for this problem, first of all, the leader, try not to talk about your own leader, and the other is not to talk about your colleagues. Then, don't talk about other people's relatives or anything.

The first is about your privacy, the second is about the small friction between colleagues, and finally about who is saying bad things about whom behind your back.