I don t know if this counts as a cleanliness 20

It's not a cleanliness fetish, I also encountered such a problem, but fortunately, I don't live with my in-laws, and my husband often wipes his face with a foot cloth and wipes the table with a floor cloth! It's been two years since we got married, and now he occasionally makes this kind of mistake, it's a matter of his parents' education, and I almost divorced him because of this! I think it's hard to change him in your environment!

That's really hard to do! There are many things in the world that make people so helpless! I sympathize with your plight, but there's really no better way, you can't tell them!

So, you have to regulate your own heart! When I first got married, I went to live at my mother-in-law's house once, and when I brushed my teeth at night, I asked my husband which tooth jar was his, because it was impossible to prepare a new tooth jar for me, so I thought I would use one with my husband, and as a result, every two mornings, when I got up to brush my teeth, I was surprised to find that in the tooth jar where I brushed my teeth last night, I soaked a pair of dentures (the kind with the palate) in water! I'm dizzy!

You can't change the world, just try to adapt to it! Good luck!

If you can't change things around you, then you have to get used to it.

After all, you belong to this world, and you have to learn to adapt to things that you are not used to.

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky. I think it's really bad for husband and wife to quarrel, it's too painful! It's obviously a very small matter, and it has to be solved by quarreling. Men should be generous and let their wives be right!

Besides, I think you're doing the right thing, paying attention to hygiene, it's a good thing. Everyone has their own hygiene habits. I don't think there's anything wrong with you doing that!

But when you do it, don't be so obvious, and think about your husband's relationship with other people. For example, when it comes to drinking water, you can stop drinking it for a while, and when your husband is away, you can pour out the water so that he can't see it and you won't quarrel.

Husband and wife value harmony, and I hope you can solve this problem as soon as possible!

It's not your fault.

Every woman pays more attention to personal hygiene.

And sharing daily necessities is a very unhygienic thing.

You should talk to your husband well, after all, arguing is useless and will only hurt feelings.

First of all, I'm a southerner, and it's normal for me to have a towel, a cup, a toothbrush, or something on our side, which is hygiene, not cleanliness.

It's not a cleanliness fetish, right?

It's a good habit to pay attention to hygiene

Continue to carry it forward、Don't mind too much what others think、

Because you did nothing wrong!

Actually, it's not your fault, your husband should be considerate of you.

I see that you are also a literate person, and you know that there is no big problem - there is no need to worry about the contagion of diseases.

This is hygiene, many people are like this, it is your family who does not like to be clean.

There's nothing wrong with that. Don't be stressed.

What you said is very similar to me.

But my family has a towel per person.

I'm still a boy.

You are absolutely secluded.

...Our family seems to have always been a towel for everyone, a cup, a toothbrush, or something.

Do not copy:

I want to say:1 Your father is a typical obsessive-compulsive tendency.

2 If you don't want to see a doctor, then rely on you to communicate with him and solve it in depth3 Even if you go to the doctor, you won't take medicine, and you usually appease or carry out Morita **4 I suspect that your father had a painful experience that led to this Simple judgment: 1 He may have received strong accusations for unhygiene, 2 He may have been humiliated because of his obesity or oil problems.

Compulsive behavior.

But this kind of compulsive behavior may be caused by the loss of work, psychological and life imbalance, one is to go to a professional hospital, see a doctor and take medicine.

The second is to ask a level of psychologist to carry out psychological **...

It feels like the body touches it and it feels dirty.