Don t people who have a happy love quarrel with each other?

In fact, if two people are together, it is inevitable that some normal contradictions will break out because of some small contradictions in life and the different small habits of two people in the past. Although there are quarrels. But it will not have any impact on the relationship between the two parties.

And even if both parties are happy. It doesn't matter if there will be some minor contradictions.

People who have a happy love don't necessarily don't quarrel! For example, it can often be seen in the news. An old couple quarrels every day, quarreling over trivial matters in life, arguing about unpalatable meals, arguing about which TV program to watch, etc.

They have been husband and wife all their lives, and they have quarreled for a lifetime. But on the other hand, if they can't see each other for a while, they will be worried, and they will go to each other; When I make a delicious meal, the first thing that comes to mind is the other person; In ordinary life, I am afraid that the other party will be tired, and I will rush to do housework and other loving pictures! They have a happy love, but the way they are a little different from others, but they still love each other and are still each other's dependence. ‍‍

What I want to say is: marriage is not love, and love is not marriage. If a couple of people who have a happy love can easily wash away many unpleasant conflicts through sweet words to each other, they will create all kinds of romantic feelings and add poetry to the happy love.

Of course, people in happy love also have unpleasant times, after all, people's emotions are fickle, and it is inevitable to bump and bump, but quarrels in love are not like quarrels in marriage, revolving around firewood, rice, oil and salt. Quarrels in love are because of different emotional orientations, it is easy to quarrel over trivial things, and it is difficult to put down their faces and face the contradictions of emotions frankly, even if they keep struggling in their hearts, they have never been able to stretch out their hands to repair their feelings, so that two people go further and further from happy love, and they have chosen to pass by countless times in a limited emotional time, not because they have no each other in their hearts, perhaps it is precisely because love is too happy, and it is so unforgettable after quarrels. And this scar in the heart will forever be branded in love. ‍‍

Not necessarily, the more you love each other, the more you care, the more you care about that person, there will be an argument, there will inevitably be a difference in will, and when the difference does not reach the unification, there will be a quarrel, that is what people call a quarrel, in fact, quarrels sometimes feel reckless, but you can quarrel out a clear, as long as you don't take the other party's quarreling opinions as malice, quarrels are not a bad thing, it can unify and solve the problem, plus love is originally from shallow to deep love, Some quarrels are bothered to love that person more, otherwise they are too lazy"Ignore you"。‍‍

is a person who is happy in love, after all, they will still have some sincere opinions, and if they are sincere, they may quarrel. People who have a happy love sometimes quarrel with each other.

How is it possible not to quarrel? Not only will it be noisy, but it will also be noisy until its voice is hoarse! People who have a happy love are also ordinary people, and there are times when two people disagree.

A boy once said to me, even if you quarrel, hold hands and argue! Romance! I was moved to tears.

When he became my husband, I realized that his so-called holding hands was simply afraid that I would run away! At that moment, my tears of regret were also gushing, and my brain was in water! ‍‍

Personal opinion. As a person who has come over, you can reap love and happiness, but you will also inevitably quarrel. It's just a matter of how much.

To this day, there are still occasional quarrels, quarrels are a process of mutual running-in, is the way to solve problems, and love and marriage without quarrels do not exist. Unless she is not in love, unless she is a passerby. ‍‍

No, in life, there will be some small contradictions, no matter how happy a couple is, there will be disputes, but their solutions are better and will not affect the relationship.

As the saying goes, husband and wife fight at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed! Therefore, in daily life, even if two people have a happy love, they can't avoid quarreling, or this is a manifestation of loving each other! Moreover, there is a person in your life who is talking to you, how can it not be a happy thing! ‍‍

This is too absolute, in fact, quarrels are also a way of communication. It's just that after the quarrel, what kind of attitude will the two sides face each other? Is it a cold war, or is each side understanding the other?

Whether in love or marriage, some people have a happy life, and some people have a strained relationship, the main reason is the art of communication between the two parties. Some people have strong self-esteem on both sides, and after a quarrel, they are indifferent to each other and have a long-term cold war. The result can only hurt each other, and the relationship can only get worse and worse. ‍‍

A perfect relationship will not exist, no matter how happy the love is, it will inevitably be touched, and no matter how sweet the marriage is, there will be quarrels. Therefore, in happy love, relax your mind, try to communicate more with each other, and care more. ‍‍

Two people have different points of view, and quarrels are sometimes inevitable.

I think it's very common for two people to quarrel, not because they don't quarrel because they love each other, but because when the two of them quarrel, your tolerance and take a step back, only in this way can the two live a happy life.

There are usually some small conflicts between two people, and it is normal to have skirmishes.

Some couples never quarrel, why is their relationship so good?

First: two people because of mutual appreciation, mutual recognition, and mutual trust, will choose to be together, many couples in the process of love will quarrel because of some big or small problems, which itself is inevitable, because two people come from different families, growth environment is different, natural perspective will be different, in the process of getting along, there may be a difference in a point of view and quarrel is reasonable, However, some people have reported that some couples will never quarrel, and their relationship has always remained the same, this is because they are relatively mature and can correctly look at the development of feelings, and two people understand that the relationship is good or bad and needs to be maintained by two people, and can correctly view the differences between two people, and understand that they are independent individuals from each other, so they can correctly accept each other's differences, so that they can get along in better harmony.

Second: In addition, when there are some problems between couples, it is not only through quarrels that can solve the problem, because quarrels are sometimes easy to deviate from the track, especially women are more sensitive in emotions, especially pay special attention to their boyfriend's attitude towards themselves, sometimes, they quarrel because of one thing, and finally they quarrel when it comes to unfriendly attitudes, which will affect the development of feelings, so for couples who never quarrel, After all, quarrels are not the only way to solve problems, and some problems occur in the process of getting along, the best solution is to be able to communicate effectively, only communication can make the love between two people flow, and at the same time, the misunderstanding between each other can be solved, so that the feelings of two people can also be reconciled as before, and can also sublimate the feelings between couples through effective communication.

Couples never quarrel because they understand each other, one of them must be particularly tolerant, and they all tolerate each other with love, sometimes there is a little misunderstanding, and they will not quarrel right away, and they will definitely ask each other for reasons.

All couples quarrel, light or severe, more or less.

If they don't quarrel, it means that these two people don't care about each other at all, or they are both saints who look down on everything.

You know they don't quarrel, it's just that they don't tell you, and the ugliness of the family is not publicized.

Occasional quarrels can actually have a warming effect on feelings, specifically to be more understanding and tolerant.

Communicate more, communicate better!

Less hypocrisy or suspicion, and more sincere interaction.

Good luck!

Couples never quarrel, which shows that the characters of both people are the kind of gentle and gentle hearts that are as calm as water, so it is definitely impossible to let the two of them go to a good price, they all respect and love each other, which has a lot to do with people's personalities.

Because they support each other and understand each other, they can't quarrel, and their feelings will always be warm because of understanding and tolerance.

Because they like each other very much, they will tolerate each other, be humble to each other and accommodate each other. Because quarrels will hurt each other's feelings, they don't want to do things that hurt their feelings, and both of them are easier to coax, the kind that is good for coaxing.

That's because they know how to maintain their relationship, how to warm it up. So they won't quarrel even for years. A woman is a good wife and mother, while a man is a gentle and considerate person. Then such people will not quarrel when combined.

It is precisely because of the good relationship between the two people that they never quarrel, which shows that the interests and hobbies of the two people in all aspects, and the topics of the three views are more compatible, so there will be no contradictions.

Maybe both of them have better tempers, and then they usually communicate more. The personalities are also similar, and the three views are compatible, so there is basically no contradiction and nothing to quarrel about.

Because two people know how to tolerate each other very well, such a couple will never quarrel. In fact, there will be friction between two people, but two people handle it very well.

It's not that they never quarrel, but they never quarrel in front of outsiders, and they will deal with this matter as soon as they quarrel, not that others will not have such contradictions, but when others have such contradictions, they can deal with this matter.

They never quarrel, because many times they will let this emotion dissipate and will not explode, the two of them are very harmonious in life, and they try to communicate about anything, and they will not quarrel.

Lack of interaction. Communication, quarreling is also a way of communication, when quarreling can understand each other's problems, can adjust each other, but it is not recommended to communicate in this way.

Because the two of them can understand each other and tolerate each other, so that the two of them are not easy to break out a lot of contradictions.

It may be that two people know how to understand each other, or it may be that two people have a better emotional foundation, or two people have been together for a long time.

That means they both know what each other's edges and corners are? So they never touch their edges and corners, and they will avoid such words, they will not quarrel, and they will be harmonious.

In life, two people can tolerate each other, and they will take turns to bow their heads, so the relationship between two people will get better and better, and they will not quarrel often.

The personalities of two people must be complementary, and there will always be a particularly good way to solve some problems when they encounter them, so they can make the relationship so good.

Generally speaking, there are couples who do not have disputes, but they are very rare. Unless it's the kind of person who has a particularly gentle personality and is not easy to argue with others.

In the relationship, we all hope to be able to get along with each other, usually live happily, less quarrels, less contradictions, such feelings are enviable, but we often find that there are many people who love each other, always can't control themselves, and misunderstandings with each other, two people who love each other, why do they quarrel?

1. I hope to make the other party love me more, if I feel that the other party is doing something bad, I want to vent it, and there will still be quarrels.

The more people who love each other, the more they demand perfection, they hope that they are also his only ones, and they also hope that others will see their other half good to themselves, which may be a kind of vanity at work, but we can also understand this kind of vanity, after all, in reality, we all want to sublimate our feelings, and we also hope to let our feelings be blessed by others. If the other party is not doing very well, I want to let the other party know that the other party can't do it immediately, and I will be very disappointed, although I love each other very much, but this sense of loss will be expressed, so it is particularly easy to quarrel.

Second, everyone will have excited emotions, and in the process of running in with each other, this emotion is easy to vent.

Everyone has joys, sorrows, and sorrows, these emotions are accompanying them at any time, we should control our emotions, learn to manage emotions, in order to be able to make ourselves grow, whether in work or in love, manage their negative emotions, play their positive emotions, in order to make themselves more popular with everyone. Often two people in love need to run in with each other, in one thing, find the point of convergence that two people are easy to achieve, after having a normal, there will be a long time to get along, maybe after a while, the two people are not so tacit, they will communicate through quarrels again, small quarrels are pleasant, harmless, whether it is a husband and wife or a couple, the quarrel must have a degree, so as not to affect the feelings.