Because of the burden of my family, I am in a dilemma

It can be seen that she is a very family-oriented person.

But the love that has just begun, you start to waver because of this.

If you really want to marry her, then she will definitely ask you to take care of her brother.

Do you imagine that if you were really together, would his brother really affect you? How much will it affect.

It's up to you to weigh it up.

You like her, but when you hear that she has a mentally retarded brother, you hold back, but if you don't stay with her, you will feel embarrassed, afraid that others will say that you are afraid to take responsibility. But that's just the way it is.

For your own sake, then you don't want to be with her.

That's how men are

It's up to you to decide.

First of all, you have to think about it... Is he going to marry you? Is it worth it for you? If it's worth it, of course you should carry it on your shoulders, and it will also be your motivation... There's nothing you can't do, only the unthinkable. In love, no one is sorry for whom... If you are not in love, how do you know if it is suitable, if you are not in love, you will not know how much patience you have, how much ability you have, how wide your heart is, in other words:

Her brother is your second motivation. You don't want him to be a burden to your success now, and you're not fit for love. This depends on whether career or love is important in your heart.

It's a man who provokes your list.,No matter how much pressure you have, you can't boast of a man who stands up to the sky.,If you love someone and don't want to pay, then you don't love.。。 Responsibility comes first.

May I ask you, if the other party's family is in the countryside, but they are very rich, will you not be in a dilemma?

This question depends on what perspective you look at, from the perspective of your parents, it is to take care of you, not to suffer too much and tiredness outside, so as to live a relatively comfortable life.

From your point of view, you have dreams and want to work hard for your dreams, and there is nothing wrong with both parties in nature, but they both pay too much attention to their own ideas and ignore each other's feelings.

For young people who want to be free, the idea of flying alone is understandable. But you also have to analyze rationally, whether your dream is really important, or whether you really have the conditions to realize this dream, for example, you want to become a singer, but your voice is not good, you don't know music theory, you don't know musical instruments, you can't read music, and you are in your twenties, which is basically no possibility of realization.

Several "messy ...... of parents"It means that they don't know about you, but as a parent, it's normal to worry about you and hope you're okay, can you survive away from home? Can you get the life you want? When you are not able now, this home of your parents gives you shelter and safety.

So avoiding doesn't solve the problem, it's still the right way to communicate with your parents so that they understand what you want and you understand what they're thinking.

Your question is very similar to that of my best friend. But alas, she compromised. What's even more a pity is that the man's age experience is too young (in his twenties) to be too competitive.

What can you do after you leave home? Will it be better than at home? It's better not to be rash, my girlfriends are just using a lot of energy to make money to repay their kindness, and then they can only be quiet in the future.

Just go with the flow and grow up.

Filial piety is expensive to help at home, and then go out to start a business when the family is fine, entrepreneurship is not a day or two, nor can it be achieved with two hearts! It only takes a little time to do things at home, and it's not a lifetime of sleepiness! It should be given!

Sometimes it's hard to choose between this problem, but I firmly believe that men can afford to let go, you have to work, you can't survive without work, and the family needs to be taken care of in a timely manner, and I personally think so.

Of course, I went, and the advantage was to accept my mother's opinion and fulfill her hopes. You can also make more money to make the family happy.

Happiness is selfish, but selfishness will not make you happy.

Biologically, if both parents have genetic diseases, then the next generation is determined, but the next generation may or may not have it. Moreover, it is divided into implicit and explicit, which may not be reflected but passed on to the next generation.

I think if you want to have children, don't risk letting them suffer that. Of course, if the disease is not life-threatening, it should be fine.

Tell them that you will not regret it, and make sure that the illness is okay, and tell them how good he is for you and how much you love him. If you really love and love, then how can you not do it? Two people working together!

Don't ask for face"It's best if the two of you work together to convince them. After a year or two, I will definitely agree to it after I have feelings.

Fooling around, don't be so stubborn, otherwise you won't have time to regret it, the words are not good, but the medicine is bitter, watch it yourself.

If you are sure that no matter what will become of him in the future, you will still love him, and you will be brave enough to fight for your love.

No one can predict the future when people are alive, please forgive me bluntly, even if you find a husband who is very healthy and does not have any underlying genetic diseases, no one can guarantee that he will be safe for the rest of his life, and you can tell your parents about it.

I wish you happiness.

Remember, no matter whose love it is, there is a give.

My love is also !! A lot of tribulations!! My dad.

Mom didn't approve of us being together.

Because his family is rural.

My home is urban.

What should I do?

I'm depressed and sometimes I really want to.

Secretly went to get a marriage certificate.

Forget about giving birth to a child.

Mom and Dad can't help it.

But my parents are my only child.

I really don't want to worry about them!!

I'm so uncomfortable.

I often cry secretly alone.

I really love him.

Really, really, really love him.

In my heart, in fact, what you think now is just an imagination of beauty. I'm also a married man, and frankly I've had what you said, because good things stop in your brain, so all you think about is the beautiful moment. In fact, when you lose something, you also gain something, and on the surface you seem to be a little unwilling to lose something, but you gain far more than you lose, don't you.

Only by standing in place can people look to the future. Reality is cruel, but reality is the future, the foundation of beauty!

Now that I know it's not suitable.

Moreover, they are both married.

What else is there to say.

If I were you, I would get out as soon as I could.

I know that there is no result.

Why bother yourself?

Does your current husband love you? Now you are a person with a family, no longer the era of the pursuit of love, although I yearn for love, but how many people in the world really have lovers who eventually become married, if you suddenly leave your current family, do you think this is fair to your husband, your children? Try talking to your current husband.

He could leave everything behind if I wanted to, but I couldn't.

There is always one party that lets go.

Because the gap between family and status is too big, they have to break up.

- Has this changed now? If not, there is no need to think about it, and we can't be together.

- If this situation changes radically, I have no objection to you considering it carefully.

Why can't you have both?

It must be love, it must be. Career can start at any time, and love will regret a lifetime. If someone tells you that if you have a career, you will have love, but it will never be the kind of love you want.

True love can stand the test.

Since you said that you are dependent on him.

If you don't love him in your heart, just depend.

Then you can leave.

But you have to speak up to your conscience.

His unconditional devotion to you.

And you left him in his most difficult time.

Even if he says he doesn't care.

If you do.

It's tantamount to giving him a double blow.

How? No need to ask anyone.

You have to learn to listen to what your heart is thinking.

Don't hesitate.

Alas, I said, as long as you love each other and want to be together, no one can stop the six-year relationship, not that you can give up Sometimes it's time to be selfish, you're not a child, sometimes you can ignore your family, you can go out and create a home for the two of you.

If I say that if I love him, I have to tolerate everything about him, but it will inevitably be unfair to you, I think you will also have this thought, I don't want to speculate whether you will go on hand in hand, I have only one answer; Love is to make each other happy, not to mention that it is rare to find a good man who loves you and he loves you even more!

You can't believe it, you can't believe it all.

If you say that if it is credible, then why can't you go to the books and let everyone learn it, the key is to see whether the relationship between the two people is good or not, don't say anything if the relationship is good, if the future can be predicted, then we are really gods!

I [friend's daughter's dog, his husband's chicken, it stands to reason that it should be a chicken dog restless, the two of them are old and loving, we are all envious! Don't believe those fallacies.

Hehe, your mother also cares about you, if you believe in this thing, you don't believe it, and the most important thing is that the two of you get along.

I also believe in horoscopes.

But this kind of thing.

If you believe, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, you will not.

Let's just say that in the past, people with the same surname were not allowed to get married.

My boyfriend's mom and dad have the same last name.

I'm very happy now.

You can't believe it all, but you can't disbelieve it, in fact, happiness is fought for by two people, supporting you.