Knotty! When my boyfriend s grandfather died, should I go to make a salute?

Question 1: If I do it, since you are both going to get married, you should go to place C and pay your respects directly, and your identity will be according to your granddaughter-in-law, so that their family will definitely be satisfied Their family will not let you go mainly because it is a funeral, and it is not good to ask you to come to a person who has not passed through the door, but if you go to their house, how satisfied do you say you are? Since the c place did not go to the b, it was necessary to go to the b place, as for the gift?

You're both getting married, don't you think it's vulgar to do all these things in society?

Question 2: It depends on the situation, if he insists on going. You can also think of it this way When his grandfather dies, his heart will definitely be gloomy for a while Take him out for a walk It's okay to stay away from the sad place of home for a while, and try to make him happy on the way What do you think of this?

The above are all personal opinions, and the hard work of typing give it to me.

1.You should go, because both of your parents know and almost agree to the matter, and his parents are also willing to let you be his daughter-in-law, so his grandfather is also yours! 2.

If he insists on letting you accompany her on a trip, I think you should go, and you have to take good care of him, because no matter how strong a man is, he will not be able to accept the departure of his relatives for a while! Yes, what he needs most is your comfort! Don't quarrel with him, let him do more in everything, now he is like a child, the most vulnerable time!

You know what I'm talking about?

I still hate, I don't hate long enough. Even if there is.

If you agree with the statement upstairs, you can go to place C.

Learn to resolve conflicts, tell him what filial piety is, what love is, what care is, and tell a story.

I also don't think it's necessary, it's just a boyfriend, and it's not a fiancé or husband, don't embarrass him.

After all, you're not married yet, so he still doesn't feel the need to do much.

He's your boyfriend, not your husband, I'm saying that someone is your boyfriend now, and it won't necessarily be your husband in the future, and you can't force him to do it, people don't have to do it if they don't want to.

The rules are too famous, and it seems that you don't take this relationship very seriously.

You're there, you're not married, there's so many rules, and your boyfriend can only be counted as a guest now.

That can only be blamed on your selfishness, don't you want to think about the two of you getting married? Why did he give your grandfather a paper money gift again!

It's a little thing that is noisy, it's boring, you both are almost calculating, just forget if you don't go, he's just a boyfriend, but then he said that, it means that he doesn't call anything, he doesn't love you very much, you are also a very calculating person, you should find the person you want to find.

Your boyfriend has a bad temper and should give a paper salute and is not sensible

No, if you're engaged, then you should be. He is your boyfriend now, not necessarily your husband in the future.

Don't get excited, be patient with him.

I know this matter best, what kind of grandfather you are, is it your uncle's or your own.

It's my grandfather, my grandfather is my own grandson, I'm afraid I'm mistaken.

Are you single or what, anyway, I didn't understand three kneeling and nine knocking.

1. Observe three minutes of silence.

2. Bow to the body three times.

3. Pay respects to the remains and bid farewell to the remains.

Personally, I don't think you need to get involved in this matter, if it's your best friend's grandmother who dies, it's just a salute, but her husband's grandmother doesn't seem to have much to do with you, so it's better not to go.

Take this opportunity to cultivate feelings as well!

People are private. Can we not afford a courtesy?

It's none of your business, it's too far.

When my grandmother died, my aunt stayed in my house for a long time, and it was also necessary to help with the entertainment of relatives and friends, and the woman generally did not pay for the funeral, but it also depends on the situation, if the economic strength is better than that of the elder brother and brother, it should also be a little, but after all, the daughter who married out spilled the water,

It's okay if you can't get out, and the girl who marries out doesn't want her mother's property, but she can't get out.

If it were me, I would be my own parents after all, and I would have nurtured myself. In our family, parents go to the hospital and die! will pay for it.

They don't need to be married.

You can give more gifts to make up for you!

It's his business how much money to pay.

To the elder, show your respect for him and your grief for his death. It's better to be like your grandfather, kneel when you should kneel, bow when you should. And said to his coffin, "Since I have married your granddaughter, I will definitely love her very much, please rest assured".

Personally, just follow your daughter-in-law and salute. If you don't feel safe, just ask the elders in the other party's family first, and be sincere.

If you belong to the grandchildren's in-laws (the deceased's grandson's in-laws), there are three ways for your reference: 1. You can do what the in-laws of other grandchildren of his family do; 2. You can do what the other generations of his family (whether they are grandchildren or sons) do the same; 3. At that time, there will be a special person (similar to the nature of the master of ceremonies) on the scene to teach you how to do it, because different regions will have different customs.

There are wood and peers, and it's OK to follow!

The line is the line, but the old man died, there are customs and habits in various places, these have become a part of the national culture, if you don't kowtow, it seems out of place with the surrounding villagers, everyone will not be happy.

Generally in accordance with the local customs and habits, we here because we are an old factory, the workers are all accumulated together, there is no kinship, so generally there are old people in the family who have passed away between colleagues just with the courtesy, and the nearby farmers are not, because their relatives are even relatives, most of them are a little related to each other, so they generally kowtow. Different customs in different regions.

Not a direct elder.

Up to the bow. The rest is usually just a gift.

If it is a relative, you can kowtow and burn incense. If it's not a relative, it's just an old man from a friend's family, and you don't need it.