Twists and turns with your boyfriend? Help!!!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It can only prove that his desire to possess is too strong, and it cannot be proved that he just cares too much about you and does it, whether it is a husband and wife or a couple, both should have relative private space, and too much possession of each other's space will only bring the opposite effect or even rejection. Therefore, it is recommended that you communicate or think about it, and a long-term solution is not a good solution.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He doesn't believe you anymore, so it's better to sit down and figure things out. Otherwise, it will be more difficult to deal with after a long time, and the two people find a good place to talk to each other about what they think of each other. If things are going badly, it's up to you?

    But the most important thing is to see what he thinks in his heart, this matter cannot be delayed! I wish you all harmony and old age! Please give a point!!

    Hee-hee.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Wow, should I say that he cares too much about you or is possessive to the point of almost bt (sorry, to use such a word), and super machismo....If that's the case, I don't think you should say that he loves you too, this kind of "love" is no longer normal....Aren't you tired with him? You should reconsider your relationship, your relationship, if you really want to live with him in the future, then you should also ask him if he really wants to live a good life with you in the future, if yes, he must change, otherwise you should separate...(The above is just my personal opinion, the key is still in yourself).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Divide it with him! Come to me, I will love you so much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He belongs to adolescent love syndrome, it is recommended that you communicate with him more, talk to him, let him come out... Everyone in love is selfish It would be bad if it was too late Your friend is in this situation I hope he will get out of the predicament as soon as possible I wish you happiness...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your friend is naturally stingy and suspicious, it's not your fault, it's not because you don't, he won't treat you like this, you have to learn to get used to it, if you can't get used to it, then plan to change boyfriends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Communicate well with him, let him learn to respect and know your bottom line. Therefore, when looking for a boyfriend, you must find a confident real man. There are limits to the desire to control. If it's still like this, break up early. It's not about making Qiong Yao films.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since it's the end, don't send anything to commemorate it. Can you tolerate him living happily with his new girlfriend with what you give? Can you imagine your novelty ending up in the dustbin?

    Did what you were willing to give yourself end up being the trigger for his future emotional discord?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is recommended that you find a thing that the two of you once had in a very good time and give it to him, so that he can see things and think about people in the future, and bring back that happy time, on the other hand, it is also a kind of testimony of your good life, and everyone is friends for many years to come, and this gift is also a symbol of friendship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Send the block table, high-end atmosphere and grade.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Give him something he likes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, a lot of boys are like your boyfriend, at some point in a game, they will ignore some of the things around them, and even some things have slipped around him, he doesn't know, but after playing a game thoroughly, he often regrets that he was so obsessed with the game in the first place.

    All you need to do is calm down Your boyfriend is still good Don't pay attention to it If he wants to play the game, let him have a good time You can choose not to disturb him playing the game At first he will feel a lot more relaxed, but after a little time, he will feel something It is likely to take the initiative to communicate with you So that you will be the main customer.

    You're a smart girl, you should know how to do it

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hey, playing games is a common problem for boys, and there is no way around this. Unless he realizes that if he doesn't feed himself, he will end up on the streets. Just tell him that you want you to have an official ending.

    I hope to have a home with him in the future, but it will be very bad if there is no one at home to work! Tell him that a man should start a business. It's not about pursuing the so-called sense of accomplishment online every day!

    My boyfriend used to play games, but after I got engaged to him, he started to mature! After thinking about the problem of future work, I began to quit intermittently. Either you two save up for a trip.

    Look at how beautiful the mountains and rivers are, life is just a few decades, there are so many things to do, you don't have time to waste! Tell him these things when he's in a good mood, and if he's not that stupid, he should think about them! Then step by step, set out the ideals in his heart and make a plan!

    Maybe he just couldn't realize his ideals in reality and escaped in the virtual world

    A man's maturity is forced out! If his parents didn't know, you were the only one to be the wicked person! Tell him what you think! If you don't want to see your own man, then unmotivated addiction.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think this man is worth your effort, first of all, he is not motivated, a man who does not go to school or class, does not want to support his family, and is only addicted to the game, do you think he can give you happiness?

    If he really loves you, he will change all that!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Just be nice to him as the is good.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People, don't be afraid of any shortcomings, if you're afraid, you're afraid that you know that there are shortcomings but don't change them, he can change some for you, it's already good, give him a chance.

    Also, believe that he can!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The landlord is uneasy because she is afraid that she will meet other people in online games Or do I feel that no one accompanies me Actually, men like to play this I think your boyfriend is doing okay It's just that I think you should urge him to go to work It's not okay to stay at home all day. It's not a question of how much money you make, it's mainly about reaching out to the society and improving your abilities.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    How old is your boyfriend? Are you also a student? What you care about is that he is too addicted to online games, and you want him to pay more attention to you, but he has long been accustomed to nature, and his life will lose its light without games; You will feel that the game is more important than you in his mind, and his life will not only affect his own body and mind, but also affect your feelings, so you have to help him, if he really cares about you, you have to help him get out of the shadow of the game, if he has social work skills, then he has to work, because he has to live.

    You can't give up when you encounter this little setback, there is still a long way to go. Act a little bit a day, he will always understand your hard work, but the most important thing is that you have to let him know how much you care about him, how much you care about him, in order to make him change his ways, you must persevere! I wish you success!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Isn't it playing dungeons? What are the districts?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Always realistically find something that attracts him, or adjust his schedule, such as when to go online, etc., this emotional thing is not easy to say, just a suggestion.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Think about what you like about him and what it's worth your effort, otherwise you have to think about it later.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Break up, you still want something that is not as good as this beast.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think you should talk to him and see what he has to say!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How can a boy who is not motivated give you happiness in the future? You know best whether you should be with this person or not.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    He doesn't go to work, so what is the economy? What do you like about him when he says this to you? Think about the future for yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    How old are you?

    It feels like a child falling in love

    In today's society, it's too little to want a love that is all given by others, don't think that you will be rewarded for your efforts!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If she's not around there, it's fine! He's used to your measurements, so play your cards in a different way!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After a long time, the love between two people will slowly evolve into family affection. Just like you and your family, if you have just left home, you will think that they will call ** often, but once it is a long time, you will not be so homesick, because you are used to this kind of life. The relationship is the same, you should change more new tricks between you, go out for a walk, see, and communicate.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't always blindly tolerate it, although it is said that the two need to be tolerant and tolerant together, but also on both sides, you just make unilateral concessions, which will only make him feel that it doesn't matter, and it may be more inch-inch, I hope it can help you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You are pampering him, and the more you pamper him, the more he will be like this.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If he makes you angry next time you quarrel, he still ignores you, and you don't pay attention to him, and he still hasn't moved after a long time, so eat him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What a problem.

    That's still your own problem, of course he has to live first, it's impossible to be full of love and water, or you still have to look at it yourself, he also promised you, don't ask too much,

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You are a girl, I advise you to be cautious, you must first determine whether your boyfriend really loves you, whether he is willing to lose some for you, he has a more cowardly character, not the kind of person who is stronger, I advise you to break off the relationship as soon as possible, so as not to have an unsatisfactory life in the future, between feelings, women are always the one who is easy to hurt!

    I'm a man, so I know very well what I should bear, not only love, but also my parents and relatives, which are my own responsibility! Think it out for yourself!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you give each other more strength and confidence, the other person will trust and rely on you spiritually, and your relationship will be closer. Love is mutual, and trust and support are the foundation and guarantee of love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This kind of thing can also be announced like this! Watch your back.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Trust is like a credit card, you can go bankrupt if you keep overdrawing all the time. Give him a little more trust and you will be rewarded.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's enough for the second ancestor! With such good conditions, do you feel worthy of your parents when you go outside to study and do some such b things? When I see you, I want to scold, Lao Tzu, these unconditional people didn't go to school in the past, and then went to work, and they went to take the self-examination by themselves, how much effort did they put in to get a college diploma, and they are still in graduate school.

    You've lived days like this, and you know what you have to do.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A long-distance relationship is the most dangerous.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Look at the size of the problem, look at the aspect of the problem, what is the specific problem?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Some people say that the person you like is a mirror that will reflect the side you are missing! Personally, I think it makes sense! You say, the person you like is 30 years older than you, if you are 18 years old now, your boyfriend is 48 years old, basically about the same age as your father, of course, this is another question, I can only say that you may think that mature people will become mature when they are with him!

    However, in fact, age is not necessarily proportional to maturity, so, crush, this is a question worth thinking about! Again, you say that you don't know how to reject a boy who is 20 years older than you, because he likes you, and you don't know how to refuse In fact, if you really love someone, you will know that your mind and body belong to him alone, no matter how many people like you outside, you will not waver, you have to settle down first You will know what to do Direct rejection is the best way, and tell the other party that you have a boyfriend and love him very much, so, sorry, you don't have a chance, this is one of the easiest ways! Another way is to ask your friend to spread the word, of course, this friend is not a person, let alone someone who will not add fuel to the vinegar Ask him to tell the man, you already have a boyfriend, please don't cause trouble to each other This is also a method!

    Also, it's a good idea to ask your boyfriend to appear on occasions where both you and your admirer will be there, so that he can see you and your boyfriend sweetly! No matter what the method, you must first strengthen your mind, and when your heart is settled, you will know how to go next good luck

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I want to say what you plan to do in the coming days.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    That's because he is unwilling, if you ignore it, you will naturally feel bored. Can't you hide if you can't be provoked? It's not because of weakness, but there's no need to entangle with this kind of person anymore, the more angry you are, the more energetic he becomes.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Keep a certain distance from him, China is so big, are you afraid that there is nowhere to go? Just ignore him.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Some people are like that! If you can't be with him, he's not good to be rebellious, scold you or something! This kind of person should break up with him!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You can choose to ignore him, endure it, endure it until you can't bear it anymore, and fight back. (This is just my personal opinion).

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    No way who made him your ex-boyfriend.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Communicate with him more when he is a little more relaxed at work. How can feelings be deep without exchanging feelings? Talk about some of your thoughts, and find out what he thinks, so that the two of you are not closer?

    And communicate with him more, you can understand what he likes and what he doesn't like. You have to learn to do what you like. A girl should also learn to sweeten her mouth, he is happy, he is in a good mood, and he will naturally find you to do some other activities.

    I wish you all happiness!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    loves him silently, and the career is not his alone. No one is a fool, you just need to love him silently, and he can feel it if he is good.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Communicate more, express your thoughts about each other, and it's best to listen to each other's opinions. (I think, make so much money, time is in a hurry, cherish the time, enjoy the enjoyment, when you are old, there is no point in earning money).

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