Is it worth it to do things you don t like in order to fit in with your surroundings and become some

It depends on what kind of environment you are in. If it's an environment that is immoral, or if it's seriously inconsistent with mainstream values or your own values, then it's definitely not worth changing your principles.

You can change your environment and find a place that aligns with your values. 、

If you really can't find it, you might as well survive in this environment from a different perspective, no matter what the environment, or things are man-made, you have the right to live as you want, maybe you will become a role model in the eyes of others!

Although you have to talk about principles, you also have to be at peace with what you encounter, as the saying in my hometown says: Eat a loss, get a heap. As long as it is not a violation of national laws and regulations, it is okay to accommodate others!

I think it's best to be myself, doing things I don't want to do, it's too tiring. Maybe you have an inevitable reason to do it, but the heart returns to the original wish, life depends on the waves, sometimes, some things do not like the same, but also try to do, but, after the thing is done, just be yourself, maybe this is very tiring, but it is unavoidable, because this society is too dark, do not hide their purest side, can not gain a foothold in this society.

Of course it's not worth it, people have no obligation to please others, but they have the right to please themselves.

I don't think it's worth it.

Each person is an individual and has an independent personality. There are no two people in the world who are exactly the same, and the twins have different temperaments.

When you're young, you hate people who are flattering and flattering. You don't like all kinds of faces, and you can't agree with them giving up their dignity, even their faith, and doing whatever it takes to achieve their goals.

You were thinking at the time. You will definitely not be in the company of such people in the future, because you disdain. But then you didn't expect that you would become the person you disdained to be. Have you ever wondered why?

Society is a big dye vat, and if you don't want to be the person you hated, you either succeed or settle for the status quo. In fact, society does not force you to change, but you yourself want to get too much, and you are not satisfied with the status quo.

If you want to work your way up, you're going to have to pay a price. The people around you like famous brands, they like luxury, and if you want to fit in with them, you have to like that.

But why blend in with them? Isn't it good to be yourself? Why change your mind in order to go with the flow?

Just be yourself, don't deliberately please anyone, and don't embarrass yourself. Life is your own, and you should enjoy it.

Do what you love, listen to your favorite songs, and love the people you want to love. Don't care too much about other people's eyes, life is your own, not for others to see.

You are living for yourself, not for others.

My answer is no, I don't think it's necessary, and if you do, you'll regret it later, in the future. You will definitely regret why you were so stupid at that time, and actually did things you didn't like in order to fit in with your surroundings, and thus became someone you hated. If you hate yourself, who will like you then?

At that point, it will be irretrievable, so don't think about it.

I have always felt that whether in college or in society, as long as you do your best, do what you like best, and don't deliberately let yourself fit in, then you will be very tired, very tired, and you will not be happy. And it will also hurt yourself physically and mentally, so do what you like the most, let your interests be raised, and slowly you will find people with the same interests as you.

If you blindly cater to others, blindly adapt to the environment and adapt to the environment, change yourself, and make yourself a person you hate. Then there will really be no one who likes you anymore, you don't have your own character, you don't have your own characteristics, what's the use of you like that? What is there to rejoice in?

At that point, it's too late for you to regret it, so follow your heart's thoughts.

In fact, you will find that when you are doing what you like to do the most, there are many like-minded people who will fight and work together with you, and will give you more things that you can't think of. As long as you stick to your nature and stick to your original dream, one day you will find people who are like-minded with you, you will find your own partner, and become your best friend, so you will naturally blend in with your surroundings. So don't be too attached to everything, that will only hurt you more.

For example, you don't want to go to a small event like going out to eat and go shopping with your roommates. It's not just that it costs money to go out, but also because you don't like it. But there is no way, I don't like it in my heart, but I still have to pretend that I like it very much on my face, and I have become a person who hates that kind of worldly person.

If you don't actively integrate into their lives, they will definitely find a way to isolate you.

People are such a reality, every time they are with our roommates. If they don't change their special naivety, they can't fit into their lives at all. The problem is that I hate this type of girl, so I usually choose to say no.

Moreover, we will all find that in reality, it is often such people who are not popular, and the more they please and cater to others, the more others will not buy them. This kind of psychology is very common in social interaction, in the final analysis, people are observing each other, whether you are such a person or not everyone will have a certain feeling, even if others do not see it for a while, but when the communication is gradually deepened, others will understand you more deeply, at this time you can no longer disguise, and once others find out that your previous performance is disguised, they will not give you another chance, at this time your impression is completely frozen.

Therefore, I tend to think that in the process of interpersonal communication, we should try to be our true selves and treat each other with sincerity. When you find yourself becoming the person you once hated, you may hate yourself even more, and in this case you will lose your way inside. Even if everyone else is pretending, you have to be the most authentic self, this practice is the least tired, and it is the least easy to lose yourself, all say that like gathers like, and those who appreciate you will slowly move closer to you.

It's not worth it, and you'll regret it.

Before college, I actually thought about it, and the university didn't participate in any student organizations, because I felt bored and I might not be able to learn anything, so I should not wade into this troubled water. Later, when the freshman year had just begun, when the various departments and organizations began to recruit new students in full swing, when the people around me ran to interview the student union, interview the assistant minister of a certain department, and interview all kinds of messy institutions, I began to panic a little. When they came back in the evening, they talked about how handsome the senior brother who interviewed me today, how beautiful that senior sister was, and how powerful the tutor was, and I suddenly felt that if I didn't join any department, it might be difficult to integrate into the surrounding environment in the future.

Because I can't empathize, I have nothing to talk about.

So, I was still not firm in my position, so I randomly found a student organization to interview, and then I went through the second round of interviews and the third round of interviews in a daze, and then successfully became a new member of the department. Happy? Not happy at all.

I'm really not a very good person for departmental activities, and I don't like the fact that the minister always asks me to report on my work, even if I actually do it seriously; I don't like it when they have meaningless meetings, and then they have to go to the school gate for a late-night snack after the meeting, which I hate. Because of joining the student organization, I did a lot of things that I didn't like.

Later, it was my turn to recruit new students, so I had to pull a group of naïve juniors and sisters and tell them how good this department is, how much I can learn, and how it will help me in the future. In fact, I knew in my heart that this department was not very good, and I didn't learn anything, and it wouldn't be helpful in the future, but I still tricked them in, otherwise I wouldn't be able to take over the job.

Thinking about it this way, in fact, all the way, I was doing things I didn't like, and becoming the person I hated was not worth it at all.

I think it's worth it.

Growing up is about constantly breaking through ourselves and doing things we don't want to do, and as we grow older, we will eventually become the people we once hated.

When you want to get something, you have to learn to give and do what you don't like. In fact, as long as the ending is good, it doesn't matter how difficult the process is, at least those processes will become a thing of the past with time.

In this competitive society, if you can achieve your own success and integrate into the surroundings, then even if you do something you don't like, and then become a person who makes a coercion for the sake of life, although it will make you feel very disgusted, but congratulations, your concessions have made you accepted by life.

You can do something according to the actual situation and quickly integrate into the surroundings, even if you don't like it, it means that you are improving, because you have successfully survived in this cruel society, which is a significant way to see your growth. For example, if you are in the scene of a customer, in the face of the aggressive tone of the boss of the other company who has no one in the eyes of the barbarian, and change it to the previous personality, maybe you will feel that there is no reason to be angry with him, and then turn around and leave, but for this reason your contract is going to fail, so the company will fire you, and you can only look for other jobs that can give you eternal dignity, but now you can treat it calmly, calmly respond to his sharp questions, and finally achieve the successful signing of the contract.

So it's worth it, as long as you don't violate normal human morality, and when the bread turns into a cake in your hands, you will be grateful to that self who matured early.

Life itself is already very hard, and you still have to force yourself to do things you don't like, don't you feel very tired?

It's not worth trying to do something on your own, but sometimes it's necessary. Sometimes it's hard not to do things we don't want to do, especially in some workplaces. As a person in the sales industry, even if you hate to socialize, you still have to be forced to work needs, in order to integrate into this work environment, you still have to force yourself to drink with a smiling face, to praise others and the like, this is no way, you may hate to drink drunk every day, but you still have to do it for life, so sometimes it is also very necessary and helpless.