Are you willing to settle for your other half in order to live?

Updated on society 2024-05-03
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why settle for it? Isn't it just to live happily with our significant other? What does it mean?

    If it were me, I would never live with my other half for the sake of life. I think two people can live a good life if they can live together, if they can't live together, then separate, we don't need to wronged ourselves, we will just live. <>

    We chose to marry our beloved because we were willing to live with him and live together. We married him because we love each other, and only when we live with the person we like will we feel that life is sweet and happy! When one day, for the sake of life, you will give up on yourself, it means that you no longer love each other, so why should you be on yourself and others!

    Life is to live with the person you like, that kind of life is called life, not because of life, and will live, so that even if you can live for a day, you will not be long-term. Because sooner or later, you will not be able to go down, and you will find out how difficult it is to live with someone you don't like anymore. Because you don't love him anymore, you won't settle for his bad things before, and in your opinion, his bad things are particularly disgusting, so slowly you won't be in the future.

    If you think it's not life with anyone! Then you are very wrong, who doesn't want to live with their beloved! For me, life is not meant to be easy.

    If you want to live happily, then you have to leave him, and then find your own love, so that life can last for a long time. We were born to live, but why not make your life happier! Why settle for your own life!

    I feel that when you think like that, not only are you not responsible for yourself, but you are also delaying the lives of others. What a joy it is to be able to live with your loved ones! So don't settle for your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, what I want is for two people to be considerate of each other, not to compromise.

    A person's life is only a few decades, and my parents have raised us for more than 20 years, not so that we will be in other people's lives in the future, I like He Yichen's sentence very much, "If there is that person in the world, everyone else will become a general, and I am not willing to compromise." It is this sentence that makes me know that there are many beautiful things in the world, and we don't need to live our lives for one person.

    Maybe that person is the person you love very much, but when it starts, it means that there is a problem between the two people. Whether you are in love, or get married in the future, they are all mutually supportive and considerate hand in hand. But when one side will be the other, and the one who will be will feel that he is so great, I will do what you can do, and the one who will be compromised thinks that since you can do this now, I can do more things for you to do in the future.

    In this way, it seems that this relationship has deteriorated. I've always emphasized that when the balance starts, the balance will be unbalanced, and I don't know when the balance will collapse, at least predictably, it will not be rebalanced.

    Obviously, life is so short, and I have to constantly compromise in the future, so tired. Please don't let yourself be so tired, get together and disperse, and don't ruin your life for the sake of the future. You don't have to be with someone for a lifetime, and if you don't finish your life, why not?

    The days of the future are very difficult, and I always feel sorry for myself, but I think that I will be able to achieve harmony. I think harmony is based on the willingness of two people, and the harmony that will be achieved is just a calm on the surface, and I don't know which day a storm will sweep away the lives of two people.

    If I want to settle, I will go through my life by myself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is a saying that says, "If that person does appear one day, then everything in this world will become a future, and I don't want to settle."。No, it is like a tornado that swept the entire circle of girls, and swept the entire circle of women who are not willing to fall in love and are single. Looking forward to the day when a prince charming will come to greet you with colorful auspicious clouds.

    But we have to know that the people we met during the holiday are not necessarily Prince Charming riding a white horse, nor can they be princes, because they may be Sun Wukong and Tang Seng.

    And often this kind of girls who say that they are unwilling to compromise are more because their fantasies about emotions are too romantic, so that they see some people's feelings in reality with what they think of cognitive biases. So they feel that this is a wrong emotional concept. But this kind of person seems to be trying to cover up his mistakes, so there is a reason not to cover up himself with this word, which is actually not a suitable other half.

    Many people are thinking about finding a soul mate, but we have to believe that soul mates are not really that easy to find。Suppose we have a city of 600,000 people, and half of the population is no longer single, then there are still 300,000 single men. And if you are picky and unwilling to compromise, then 20% of the 300,000 talents meet your criteria.

    So who among the remaining 60,000 people would want to go out and buy tampons for you late at night? When you're hungry, you cook something for you to eat, and you pick and choose, and then there's only a handful of people. And the rest of the people can know what you want and what you can pick?

    Is the emotional run-in between the two people correct?

    So, soulmates don't really exist. If there is no run-in period in the relationship and the soulmate comes directly, then what is the run-in period in this world? So those girls who keep saying that they don't want to settle and are single are actually a kind of love for you in my opinion.

    said generously that he didn't want to look for it yet, and he still wanted to be single. Yourself also. Didn't find it.

    Maybe others will think that these things are not very good, but you have to talk about yourself, becauseBecause I don't want to listen to this kind of talk too much, it will make people feel that this person is more contrived.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, isn't it just girls and boys? Who is willing to settle, it is not so easy to find a person who is in love, and now that society has developed, unlike the original many unhappy families who deal with it for a lifetime, but now everyone is unwilling to grieve themselves and is unwilling to compromise, which is also true.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because of the fear of being said, everyone wants to find a prince charming.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In the end, there are still many people who will get married. There are few people who are really willing to be single.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's true that you don't want to fall in love, it's a very complicated thing, and if you don't like it, it's impossible to accept.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The main reason is that she can't look down on ordinary people, and the people she likes definitely don't look down on herself.

    It's just that the high is not low.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To make excuses for not being able to find someone, you always have to find some face for yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I have to give a reason, or not.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I didn't like it at first, but then I slowly developed feelings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A lot of them are settled, and they can improve their living standards when they feel suitable. Anyway, it's convenient to get a divorce now.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The Great Sky World is full of wonders! Your question: 70 percent of those who love each other have to have 30 percent of what they will do

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are in love, you have to find someone you like, but if you get married, of course, you still have to find someone who loves you. Only then will you have a happy life!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I run my own marriage, and I ask here that I am afraid of marriage if I am not married, and I wonder if I am about to get married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It used to be, after getting married and having children, it became a general.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The person you love may become the person you don't love, and you may become the person you love, your choice is the most important, fate!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Some people have many factors when looking for a marriage partner, but I think it's better to find true love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, now it's relatives, not all marriages have love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Be! If it is settled, life will be very hard! Hope it helps!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Marriage is just for the sake of passing on the family and completing the task.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Marriage is not for others to see, why not.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'm not married, but I don't want to settle.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, it's just for the sake of the kids.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, the person who loves each other is not around.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's definitely not a promise, and it's a long-term love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In the beginning, we loved each other, but now we will make peace with each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    To get married, you have to find someone who has feelings, not necessarily the one you love the most.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's going to be okay, as long as the personality is suitable.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It is impossible for someone to love very much.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Life is to be meaningful, and only love is necessary to be together!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just like a very bird's answer to Human's often asking whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in your body, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless sacrifice and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

    And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's up to you. At least I won't. I've had some experience before.

    At that time, in order to forget a former girlfriend...My dad introduced me. At that time, I was going to get married.

    But then I found out that I wasn't happy. After all, marriage is a lifelong thing, not something that can be lived in a moment's time. Just wait.

    There will always be the one you love. There is always someone waiting in everyone's life. It's just that the time has not come.

    If you like. If love. If you are together, you will cherish it.

    Otherwise, it will be really too late to regret it. Sometimes you only get one chance. It only depends on whether you cherish it or not

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Time is indeed a mortal enemy when waiting for your partner, especially for women!

    If you are 35 years old, there is no suitable word to be properly compromised, but it is not the kind that you can get a certificate by pulling someone on the street, but you don't have so much pickiness about the person who will be, but you still have to basically meet all aspects of your character!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I am a divorced 35-year-old woman, and my first marriage hurt me a lot. It's just very casual, and it's going to be done. The result was very unpleasant, and there were too many contradictions in the marriage.

    I was a subconscious woman who couldn't compromise, because I didn't have true love and the economic conditions were not good, so I finally got divorced. Now that I have been single, if there is no one I fall in love with, if there is no suitable one, I don't plan to remarry. Although it is hard to be alone, it is very free.

    This is also not something in marriage. But it's really lonely and lonely.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Unwilling. The result of compromise is not necessarily a promise, it may be doom.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Learning to manage oneself well and being kind to oneself is more important than blindly looking for the other half.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's up to you what you think, and if you feel like you still want to find that person in your life, then keep waiting. If you don't want to wait like this anymore and want to find someone to live with, then find someone to live with.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Well, if it were me, on the premise that I was not too outstanding in all aspects, I would choose to lower my requirements and choose the one that is most suitable for me to start a family.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Most people choose to settle.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's going to be hard. It is also irresponsible to both parties. It's better to be single.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If it is not a last resort, it is still good to be together, and it is also good for the child, once it is divided, the child is the biggest victim, and it is necessary to consider the child. Careful!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Feelings can't be casual, just be happy.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Maybe you will fall in love with it.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You can't settle for anything, you have to wait for the right one.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's nothing, it's still going to be said according to the situation!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Maybe it will feel better to be alone.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Lower the standard, don't be too picky, that is, there can be no big problems.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This era is destined for individuals to establish their own brands; Destined to make their own decisions and take responsibility for their own lives, rather than obeying their parents' arrangements; Destined to manifest life,the value of life, rather than the rigid marriage and family children; Diversity is the hallmark of this era. We all want to find a partner who meets our own conditions, and everyone is more willing to live for themselves; Sometimes, however, the conditions demanded by both parties are contradictory; It's really hard to find a matching marriage partner.

    If you may choose the wrong person when you get married, it is better to live alone. Because no matter how good or bad a person's life is, it is a person who bears it, but when he encounters the wrong person, he tortures and hurts each other. That feeling of physical and mental exhaustion was really exhausting.

    The choices we make today determine our future lives. So find a partner who is in love, find someone who understands you and loves you, and would rather be arrogant and single, and never be wronged, which is responsible for yourself and your future partner.

    Choosing not to marry is not the same as being lonely and lonely, and these negative, derogatory words distort the essence of diversified life content. Choosing not to get married, not only is it not because of low survivability, but it is also the direct embodiment of the excellent people, high-level people who pay attention to their inner feelings, attach importance to the quality of married life, and pursue personal value. When we look forward to this marriage for a long, stable and happy one, we unconsciously retreat, because in this fast-paced city, there are too many uncertainties, and no one can guarantee the future.

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